MysticalShawty Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 alright me and my b.f split up and i am really depressed and it has been 10 days since we have been done, and now i cant stop thinking about him, so i wrote a poem and gave it to him.,...he Crumpled it up without reading it, and i dont know HOW AM I SUPOSSED TO GET THREW TO HIM , that i still L...O....V...E... him,?? Please can anyone tell me, i have called him up and i tell him alot but he just ignores it, and then chanages the Subject. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by MysticalShawty [/i] [B]alright me and my b.f split up and i am really depressed and it has been 10 days since we have been done, and now i cant stop thinking about him, so i wrote a poem and gave it to him.,...he Crumpled it up without reading it, and i dont know HOW AM I SUPOSSED TO GET THREW TO HIM , that i still L...O....V...E... him,?? Please can anyone tell me, i have called him up and i tell him alot but he just ignores it, and then chanages the Subject. [/B][/QUOTE] he broke up with you. live with it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 I hate relationship It will hurt for awhile, just find something to keep you busy, like go to the movie, malls, or something, find something fun to do or watch, or you can e-mail or PM me. I'm a good listener. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 *sigh* yes, i know how you feel. but, face it, girl, you are acting desperate. that's not an attractive quality & it's not going to make him take you back. he knows how you feel, now it's time to give him some space to make up his mind. DO NOT broach the subject again, no matter how bad you want to. if he never brings it up again, it means you two don't talk about it again. period. keep your dignity. if you don't, the day will come when you look back on this & feel very stupid. *or if you want some different advice, pm me & i'll give it.* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PyrowManiak Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [size=1]Not to come off as a jerk, or cold blooded, but damn how many times have i heard this whole 'my bf broke up with me but i still 'love' him...' Me, i dont believe in [b]Love[/b]... to me, its all bliss and it comes and it goes... your only gonna 'love' this person for so long and that feeling will fade... Back to the topic, get the **** over it... have some god damn dignity... he dumped you, and you still have feelings for him, so ****in what. he doesnt want anything to do with you, and you bugging him about it wont bring him back... have some backbone and get on with your life... you just need to get it through your thick skull that the guy is a jerk and doesnt like you... tough titty... it hurts, yeah, but thats not reason to melt over it... jesus... just have some fun, if you break up, oh well.. it was fun while it lasted... ~[b]Arb[/b][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 I swear, all the good topics start up later in the evening (after Krillen stops spamming, oops! Don't tell him I said that) I ain't no lady but I think from a macho, idiot guy perspective that he either hates you or loves you as well. He could just be hiding his feelings, or he might actually hate you. Who knows... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coolkam007 Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 or me might have tried to go out with you to get .. you know what.. or if your pretty :) which i'm fairly sure you are.. he might have to boost his popularity.. or somthing.. i wouldn't know.. i dont really know anything about relationships.. i'm a looser whos never going to get any.. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gee-enki Dama Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 I know exactly how you feel, and like LM says, dont act desperate, just do something to occupy you for a while Lol Cam, cant belive that can we? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorykoAngelcry Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 I had two friends who were going out after for some time. Well, Paul was feeling like he wasn't getting enough space from Stephanie, and he wanted to break it up. In my mind, he was the center of her universe, and would have done anything for him. When he finally broke up, she couldn't take it, and kept on(what am I saying, she still does it) calling him, or talking to him for long periods of time. She is very emotional over the whole deal, and I feel really bad for her, because she is a very awsome person, and he acts like a complete idiot almost 24 / 7 . . it is sad, but hopefully for her, she will get over it, and move on to bigger (not that!!) and better things. I have a feeling this might be what you are going through MysticalShawty? If so, trust me, perhaps if this person is dumb enough to dump you, he doesn't DESERVE you back. You are trying way to hard for a jerk? Don't worry about it, guys are attracted (at least I am ^_^) to someone who actually will care for them, instead of just being there for having sex. . . (what am I talking about. . that is almost all the males out there . . no offense to real men! LOL . . . hmm. . . lost my train of thought here. . . *sighs*) Sorry. . don't know if this is much help, but *two thumbs up* You rule, even though it will hurt, forget that loser (and pay attention to ME!!! . . errr) . . . *shuts up* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 Give him space. If he has enough space to think, he might com around to you... -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by MysticalShawty [/i] [B]alright me and my b.f split up and i am really depressed and it has been 10 days since we have been done, and now i cant stop thinking about him, so i wrote a poem and gave it to him.,...he Crumpled it up without reading it, and i dont know HOW AM I SUPOSSED TO GET THREW TO HIM , that i still L...O....V...E... him,?? Please can anyone tell me, i have called him up and i tell him alot but he just ignores it, and then chanages the Subject. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]This is very simple. You broke up...you still like him, but he's waay over you. Don't try to get back together with him...don't send him letters or anything like that. He doesn't like you anymore. That might sound harsh, but it's the absolute truth. Besides, why would you want to be with someone if they don't like you? I know you still have feelings for him, but you have to try to let them go (as painful as that is). It's foolish to try and get together with someone who doesn't feel the same about you. And even if you did...the relationship would crumble again anyway. What you need to do, is immerse yourself in your friends...and let him go. And wait for someone else. :)[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 [color=blue] Just let go, he doesn't care if you hurt or not. [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticalShawty Posted November 6, 2001 Author Share Posted November 6, 2001 :smirk: Thanks for all the Replys, most of u all say that i should forget about him, so maybe i will, lol, Lol, Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Voodookanaka Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 (this is all IMO.) Ok Im going to go against everything thats been said, if u love him do what they said if your IN love with him, do everything u can to let him know it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Capt. Stephanos Posted November 6, 2001 Share Posted November 6, 2001 ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorykoAngelcry Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 OHHHHH, that is horribly evil. . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormbringer Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Ok, so I'm not a girl. But I went through pretty much the EXACT same situation. Last year, right about this time of November, my girlfriend Stacy and I broke up. She said she just wasn't ready for a relationship then. So we ended things. It broke my heart. I tried to reestablish our frienship, but in my mind it ended up screwing things over. Anyways, I soon realized that I was in love with Stacy. Hell, it broke my heart. I tried and tried to get over her, but I never could. I even tried going out with another girl to get over Stacy, but it never happened. So I broke up with the other girl, and last July I asked Stacy out again. We'll have been going out again for 4 months this Friday, although it's been around one year since I fell in love with her. Anyways, now that I've told my life story....... '^_^x All I can really say is this: try your best to get over him. I know it's hard, but it's something you have to at least TRY to do. There is always the chance you'll get back together, but you can't live your life like it's guaranteed to happen. It'll make your life seem so worthless.... And if you wanna talk about it, I'm almost always online Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Why make yourself miserable, while the other enjoying their life. I never in love, so I don't know what it is like to be heartbreak. but when someone don't love you anymore, then just let that person go and continue with your life. One of my friend almost commit suicide because his long distance marry another guy. I have to talk with him for weeks to get him to forgot about the suicide business. My point is, it doesn't worth to torture yourself for someone who's already gone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kileone_s_n Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by MysticalShawty [/i] [B]alright me and my b.f split up and i am really depressed and it has been 10 days since we have been done, and now i cant stop thinking about him, so i wrote a poem and gave it to him.,...he Crumpled it up without reading it, and i dont know HOW AM I SUPOSSED TO GET THREW TO HIM , that i still L...O....V...E... him,?? Please can anyone tell me, i have called him up and i tell him alot but he just ignores it, and then chanages the Subject. [/B][/QUOTE] well, sorry to say, but thats the way life is, and he isnt worth if he wont listen to ya Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KyJaUn~FuLlEr Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 [size=1]I'm not a girl[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by KyJaUn~FuLlEr [/i] [B][size=1]I'm not a girl[/size] [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]Don't spam. You just needs to get your mind off of boys for awhile. I bet you will find somebody who is alot better for you in no time ;)[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k9* Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 why don't you journal? write out those poems, letters, whatever you want, just don't give them 2 him. i find that this helps me sort out my exact feelings in a way that i can deal with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticalShawty Posted November 9, 2001 Author Share Posted November 9, 2001 :( Eh The journal thing was a good idea but unfortunily for me that s hard i cant write down my feelings nor can i speak them if i have to say what i feel i will say it but i wont tell everything,And i am affraid to write in my diary/Journal thing now because a few months ago my sister brought it to school and showed everyone ****,and that like ruined me, lol, well thanks for your Comments/advice i really cant thank you all enough :angel: -Ashlie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shinji v2.0 Posted November 9, 2001 Share Posted November 9, 2001 [SIZE=1][COLOR=darkred]Hahaha, with a topic like that, some crazy things could go through the minds of us males. Shinji[/COLOR][/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k9* Posted November 10, 2001 Share Posted November 10, 2001 maybe you could journal, and then destroy it /throw it away right afterwords. remember, it doesn't have to makes sense, you can just do a running commentary on your thoughts. it blows when some1 stabs u in the back like that. my x used to bring up stuff about me when he was fighting w his parents :flaming: :demon: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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