Sui Generis Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Lately my mom and dad have been at eachothers throats..has anybody gone through this...if so what did you do..to help it...I just had to go downstair for 30 mins, and crank my system as loud as I can just so I wouldn't be able to hear them...Is there anythign I can do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DuoGod of Death [/i] [B]Lately my mom and dad have been at eachothers throats..has anybody gone through this...if so what did you do..to help it...I just had to go downstair for 30 mins, and crank my system as loud as I can just so I wouldn't be able to hear them...Is there anythign I can do... [/B][/QUOTE] Get them a shrink. Or, u could always join the argument and show them how childish they act. I do that all the time when my parents argue, and it shuts them up right away! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted November 7, 2001 Author Share Posted November 7, 2001 I tried both it made them worse... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Ok, do what a kid in a movie did, trap his parents in the basement over the weekend, lock them up, and tell them they aren't coming out till they get things right! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted November 7, 2001 Author Share Posted November 7, 2001 1 idy bidy problem...No basement door... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Ok, then tell them if they don't start getting along, threaten them with something they will be afraid that u will do! It works, i swear it does! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted November 7, 2001 Author Share Posted November 7, 2001 Hm...Good Idea...may use it tomorrow...thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Np, always luv helpin a fellow otaku! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Am I late? I have the same this same problem all the times. My parent fight, then get back together again. This is what I do when they fight. 1. Let them fight, they'll get bore, tired and calm down 2. Tell them that their problem affect you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted November 7, 2001 Author Share Posted November 7, 2001 I tried number 1 and they are still fighting that makes it almost 3 hours now...thankfully they went up stairs so I can barely hear them yell... Number 2 wouldn't work my dad doesn't give a f-u-c-k about me! He just cares about him self..he is a selfish bastard and he hurts my mom (emotionally) malicaly... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 3. Interfere with the fight, and tell your dad that he can't do that. He might hurt you, keep him a warning if he does that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Do what i do, if he touches u, call the cops! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 let them argue, blow off some steam. no need for you to drag yourself in it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PyrowManiak Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 how old are you Duo? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [SIZE=1]I just let them fight. My parents used to yell at each other, then they got divorced. No biggy for me, I don't care. Unless your dad physically abuses your mom, I wouldn't interfere. If he hits you, then you can sue him(or get him arrested) for child abuse, or if you're 18 or over, assault. I'm numb and distant to my family cause I honeastly could care less about 'em. My friends are a different story, but that's a whole different subject.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Okay, here you go: Just tell them to listen to you, and when they finaly do, tell them what you think about it.But don't blame or go on your dad's or mum's side.Just tell them that you're uncomfortable with it, and that if they don't stop, you want to go and live with you grandparents.......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted November 7, 2001 Author Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by PyrowManiak [/i] [B]how old are you Duo? [/B][/QUOTE] I'm 13 and they have been fighting for about 2 years like this..almost non-stop 24/7.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 Well, I had that problem when I was younger, but it faded and now they get along fine. Of course, I have been on my own for several months now so it wouldn't affect me as much as it would... -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 My parents are fighting all the time, and it can get violent. I tried to stop, but it doesn't help, and my mom just let my dad abuse her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by mornigndew [/i] [B]My parents are fighting all the time, and it can get violent. I tried to stop, but it doesn't help, and my mom just let my dad abuse her. [/B][/QUOTE] You should take legal action against your dad, since you seem to have already attempted physical. Your dad is weak, it shows through him having to hit your mother instead of finding another way to resolve the problem. If I was in your situation I would take a bat, and beat your father to within an inch of his life every time he touched your mother. Then you would see how quickly a human can be trained NOT to do something. -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Justin [/i] [B] You should take legal action against your dad, since you seem to have already attempted physical. Your dad is weak, it shows through him having to hit your mother instead of finding another way to resolve the problem. If I was in your situation I would take a bat, and beat your father to within an inch of his life every time he touched your mother. Then you would see how quickly a human can be trained NOT to do something. -Justin [/B][/QUOTE] [color=blue]my mom won't let me do that. She warned me not to tell other or trying help. [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PyrowManiak Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 no offence, but you mom is being an idiot. like that person said, take a bat and beat him to an inch of his life, and if your mom tries to stop you, beat her to an inch of her life, and show her how it would have been anyways... then call the police :blackeye: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 great advice, pyro. tell her to call the cops after she just assaulted her parents. duo, i used to have the same problem w/ my parents up until i was 15. so i cast a love spell on them & they haven't had a real fight since, that was 7 years ago. but not everyone can do that. if you want, i'll do it for you... if you believe me, that is... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B]great advice, pyro. tell her to call the cops after she just assaulted her parents. duo, i used to have the same problem w/ my parents up until i was 15. so i cast a love spell on them & they haven't had a real fight since, that was 7 years ago. but not everyone can do that. if you want, i'll do it for you... if you believe me, that is... [/B][/QUOTE] Love spell? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 My paren't fight all the time, and because of that reason (and other ones I don't want to get into) they have decided to get a divorce. I am not a big fan of divorces but you that might be the best for them if the problem persists. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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