Lotus Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Shyguy [/i] [B]My paren't fight all the time, and because of that reason (and other ones I don't want to get into) they have decided to get a divorce. I am not a big fan of divorces but you that might be the best for them if the problem persists. [/B][/QUOTE] My parent fight all the times. I did the calculation, the average is every three weeks. The fight can get nasty, and yet they still manage to stay together for over 20 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hinata Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [COLOR=royalblue]Parents are parents and they're gonna fight no matter what...All you can really do is tell them how it affects you and if they must agrue ask them to do it somewhere wher you can't hear them..but seriously try not to get too invovled b/c then they may want you to take sides...and sweety that can be a very dangerous thing to do...SO stay outta that path.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by sweetreyes [/i] [B][COLOR=royalblue]Parents are parents and they're gonna fight no matter what...All you can really do is tell them how it affects you and if they must agrue ask them to do it somewhere wher you can't hear them..but seriously try not to get too invovled b/c then they may want you to take sides...and sweety that can be a very dangerous thing to do...SO stay outta that path.[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] Acutally, in truth, if ur parents are always fighting, then u should have a right not to have to listen to them since they won't listen to u! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Akito [/i] [B] Acutally, in truth, if ur parents are always fighting, then u should have a right not to have to listen to them since they won't listen to u! [/B][/QUOTE] Not really, my parent fight all the time, but I still listen and respect them. After all, they're my parent. I guess that is tough love. It tough and nasty, but their love for each other is very strong. I know other family who never have a fight, when they do, they get divorce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lotus [/i] [B] Not really, my parent fight all the time, but I still listen and respect them. After all, they're my parent. I guess that is tough love. It tough and nasty, but their love for each other is very strong. I know other family who never have a fight, when they do, they get divorce. [/B][/QUOTE] Not really, some ppl who don't fight at all either have alot in common, or they don't see each other alot because they are always working. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Akito [/i] [B] Not really, some ppl who don't fight at all either have alot in common, or they don't see each other alot because they are always working. [/B][/QUOTE] And they just want to express their feeling, that could lead to lack of communication with each other. Once they had a fight, there is a lot of pressure that they build up inside them for a long time, and it is harder to to stop, then they came up with divorce as a solution. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lotus [/i] [B] And they just want to express their feeling, that could lead to lack of communication with each other. Once they had a fight, there is a lot of pressure that they build up inside them for a long time, and it is harder to to stop, then they came up with divorce as a solution. [/B][/QUOTE] Solutions aren't always what they seem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Akito [/i] [B] Solutions aren't always what they seem. [/B][/QUOTE] True. I'll dicuss with you later about this topic if you're around. I have to go now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lotus [/i] [B] True. I'll dicuss with you later about this topic if you're around. I have to go now. [/B][/QUOTE] See ya later Lotus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest peekabooicu Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 i got im the middle of my peronts fighting and they ended up getting devorsed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 well, all i did when my parents fought is ran away and left a not saying where i'd be and when they stop fighting to come pick me up. it worked. they stopped. but i wouldn't recomend doing this. it was stupid and i could have been hurt. they havn't fought since. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Son Goten [/i] [B]well, all i did when my parents fought is ran away and left a not saying where i'd be and when they stop fighting to come pick me up. it worked. they stopped. but i wouldn't recomend doing this. it was stupid and i could have been hurt. they havn't fought since. [/B][/QUOTE] Thats probably why they don't fight anymore, to them, u are more important then fighting over stupid stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Son Goten [/i] [B]well, all i did when my parents fought is ran away and left a not saying where i'd be and when they stop fighting to come pick me up. it worked. they stopped. but i wouldn't recomend doing this. it was stupid and i could have been hurt. they havn't fought since. [/B][/QUOTE] Your parent really care about you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted November 7, 2001 Share Posted November 7, 2001 ya they do. :D they got marrage counciling(sp?) and they r all betta now. :freak: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted November 7, 2001 Author Share Posted November 7, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B]great advice, pyro. tell her to call the cops after she just assaulted her parents. duo, i used to have the same problem w/ my parents up until i was 15. so i cast a love spell on them & they haven't had a real fight since, that was 7 years ago. but not everyone can do that. if you want, i'll do it for you... if you believe me, that is... [/B][/QUOTE] I believe you!! I'll try anything once!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 U know, why dun u just get inbetween their fighting, then run away for awhile, come back, act like u almost got killed, and they'll probably stop fighting and get some help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k9* Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 i don't know that i can help, but i gotta chime in: argueing is a normal, healthy thing in a relationship (but not if it's all the time) i got lucky with my parents, they have always been careful in their actions around my bro and me; and they've been 2gether for over 25 years now. that said, i was always really sensitive to them argueing with each other and had a tendancy to disappear during the fight, then doing my best to make sure they made up. what i have to say is about your father, if he doesn't care about any1 but himself, then he will never change his ways until he sees a reason that will benefit him, no matter what you do. i assume you know the saying, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. ow, my poor fingers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 8, 2001 Share Posted November 8, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by k9* [/i] [B]i don't know that i can help, but i gotta chime in: argueing is a normal, healthy thing in a relationship (but not if it's all the time) i got lucky with my parents, they have always been careful in their actions around my bro and me; and they've been 2gether for over 25 years now. that said, i was always really sensitive to them argueing with each other and had a tendancy to disappear during the fight, then doing my best to make sure they made up. [/B][/QUOTE] You have reasonable parent. My parent married at least 26 years, and they love to fight, especially my dad, he give fist and knuckle to my mom, and my mom doesn't move. My mother and I have to stop him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deedlit Posted November 9, 2001 Share Posted November 9, 2001 I don't really know how u feel cause when my parents fight, it's just over something silly. Plus my dad's at work all day, and when he gets home, he watches t.v.. since my mom's home all day, she usually fights w/US! (:flaming: Do the dishes! Be quiet! Do what I say! Go upstairs and clean ur room NOW!!!! :flaming: ) I know from experiance. If u want to talk to them about it, do it when they've calmed down. NEVER try to talk to them when they're at each others throats! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted November 9, 2001 Share Posted November 9, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lotus [/i] [B] Love spell? [/B][/QUOTE] yeeeess, what wrong w/ that? i do it all the time. [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DuoGod of Death [/i] [B] I believe you!! I'll try anything once!! [/B][/QUOTE] okay, i'll need their birthdays, including year, & also their first names. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 10, 2001 Share Posted November 10, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B] okay, i'll need their birthdays, including year, & also their first names. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=blue] This sound interesting. Love spell, LM, what if it's a wrong birthday. [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted November 10, 2001 Share Posted November 10, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by mornigndew [/i] [B] [color=blue] This sound interesting. Love spell, LM, what if it's a wrong birthday. [/color] [/B][/QUOTE] it's not a big deal. it's not necessary to know the b-days for a spell, i just asked b/c knowing their b-days gives me better insight into what they are like. for example, if a couple is made up of two scorpios, there relationship might be based on sex, or sexual tension. so they need a spell to link them emotionally rather than just physically. see what i mean? it just helps me be more specific. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 10, 2001 Share Posted November 10, 2001 Gee, i know a few spells here and their, and I'm connected to my energy, i've actually haven't been practicing using it, but one of my teachers(who got me started in this) can move things with her energy, she did it in my class and all, it's pretty cool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 10, 2001 Share Posted November 10, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lady Macaiodh [/i] [B] it's not a big deal. it's not necessary to know the b-days for a spell, i just asked b/c knowing their b-days gives me better insight into what they are like. for example, if a couple is made up of two scorpios, there relationship might be based on sex, or sexual tension. so they need a spell to link them emotionally rather than just physically. see what i mean? it just helps me be more specific. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=blue] The spell really work. This is very intesting [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Videl~ Posted November 10, 2001 Share Posted November 10, 2001 My parents always fight too. I wish they would get a divorce! One day my dad sat me down and said he was having an affair with this woman, then he told me my mum was having an affair with this guys husband as well! I asked him why they were still together and he said it was because of me and my brother. And then they wonder why I'm so screwed up. You're parents may fight but at least you know it's their fault and not yours, that they are unhappy because of their own choice. I know it's not really my fault as I've not done anything, but i feel gulity for their unhappyness every day and I wish they would just split up and get it over with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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