Have you ever felt rejected?

[CaptainAnarchy]

I had really strong feelings for this guy...then got rejected. Im so sad, so only post nice things or similar experiences.

[rainkius]

Yep. Just happened like 2 weeks ago actually. I really thought he liked me, so i took a chance and tried to communicate that i liked him subtly, then he acted a bit weird, so i came right out and asked him how he felt, and he just said he didn't like me. So..yeah... it sucks, but the sting eventually goes away. Just how long it takes is the variable. With Jake, i have to see him 4 times a week, b/c we are homework partners. And he's really damn nice. Too nice. In my opinion, no one should be that nice unless they have intentions, lol. And i don't just mean sexual intentions... he's not my friend either, so i fail to see the reason he's SO nice. We could continue to have a perfectly amiable academic relationship if he toned down the niceness a little. I dunno. I still kinda like him, but i think i'm getting over it. Anyway, i'm sorry you were rejected. I sympathize, and hope you find someone else relatively soon who reciprocates your feelings. :D

[The Unholy Newt]

Look, everyone gets rejected by someone at least once in their life. (or twice, or threes times, or . . .) The fact is, get over it. You're not going to find someone who won't reject you if you sit there mooning about the last person to reject you. As your parents would say as you fall over as a kid:

'Get up, give it a rub and get over it.'

Or is that just mine? Oh well, just move on, everything goes away with time.

[SilverCyclone]

I agree with The Unholy Newt on this one. It wont be your last time, and sadly, it does get easier to deal with the more it happens. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and throw yourself back into the masses! If you keep at it, you'll find someone you like who likes you back! I've been rejected at least....well, lets not dive into that....but I never give up and now have several friends of the opposite sex who enjoy me. Im also thinking of asking one of them out soon as well...

Good luck to both of us and happy hunting!

[Japan]

[COLOR=Navy]How about not hunting at all? Why try and take the chance? I've gotten hurt on many countless occasions. I think about once or twice a year each year on average for me.

So that's why I've stopped hunting for any dating relationship of any kind. Why go looking for love when it'll find you when you least expect it? Plus, I'm in school, and my studies are more important anyways. [/COLOR]

[MaineOtakuNo2]

It may be smart to give up love for some time in school but dont be so stuck up about it you dont go out and hang with guys and such. My policy is to be open, and if you get rejected go about life as normal, love is too painful to ignore. Anyways keep looking around, just make sure you dont get caught up in anything too serious you become emo... god I hate that word.

[Miryoku]

I just broke up with my boy friend every thing was perfect i thaught i knew all about him because we were originaly friends thats how i knew he was bi and that he would go out . it only lasted 3 days then he said he wasn't ready it sucks and i don't understand why he was'nt ready

[Lady_Rin]

Rejection does not have to come at the hands of a boy or girl friend. It can come from your parents. My parents rejected me 21 years ago when I got married. I was told leave and never come back by my father and except from an occasional letter from my younger sister Gwen no one wants to talk to me, not even my mother as far as I know since I havn't heard from her in all that time. My letters home go unanswered. Gwen has said our older brother Harry doesn't want to hear my name and my name is not allowed to be said in the house and my portraits removed. The last thing I saw from my father was a copy of his will sent to me by Gwen 15 years ago with my name crossed off, he told her to send it. Hatefull. Incredible rejection, all because I dared to marry an American military officer instead of into the noble house that my father wanted. I lost everything for the love of one man. It has been 21 years and I now have beautiful children that have never seen their grandparents and only one sister of three siblings who still writes and signs with love.

This has made me very unhappy as I sit here and I am crying thinking of a lost family. That is rejection.

OOhhhhh!! MMmmmmmm, A hug and kiss from my husband and wandering hands to boot. *giggles*

Please don't ever reject your child, that is as bad as a parent having to bury one and no parent should ever have to do that.

I'm still very sad.

[quote name='[Ranger"'] Uhhh it's been about 10 minutes since Rin wrote that last line. I am making her feel better. Please excuse us for a few more minutes.[/quote]

[wiccansamurai]

I felt REALLY rejected yesterday when my friend came up to me and said she walked in on my boyfriend and her sister having sex. :( I've never felt so betrayed and jealous and rejected. And I still haven't broken up with him, not just yet. And its giving me a headache. Even though I like him, and he said he liked me, he went and slept with some friend of his. I feel like... its no fair.

[ice-kitsune]

to be totally honest, i never got into a relationship all my life. never did really want one cause i know youll just get hurt in the end. its just that simple. i keep my distance from people and that kind of stuff. dont get too close to any one no matter what the matter is. even if they are your "friends" sorta speek. having a relationship is just too compicated. all i can say when you crash is suck it up and live on. these things will come and go as ive seen and heard. all relationships will just end up the same.

[Endymion]

[COLOR=Navy][SIZE=1]I suppose everyone at one point in their lives gets a feeling of rejection. I'm sure I've felt rejected before when I was really young, moving around alot in a military family. My largest feeling of rejection, though, came with the abrupt end of my last relationship. Not only did her bed of lies and deceit immediately move her position as the closest person to me to the farthest, my friends she and I affiliated drifted away as well, as if they new of the impending destruction of my heart. Anyway...I'm over it now, some wounds just take time to heal. [/SIZE] [/COLOR]