Moi Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 Alright, as most of you know I like to post my life situations on here for feedback, and here is my newest situation, so please give feedback and advice. My "ex-girlfriend" never broke up with me to my face, so I assumed we weren't dating. She told my friend we're still going out, but I haven't talked to her since I thought it was over. And I like a different girl, which I think will go out with me. I like them both, but I think my "ex" is kind of hot, basically I wanna you-know-what... Anyway, what do I do? AAA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zeta Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 Go with the one you like more. Going out with someone for looks is stupid. Besides if the other chick somehow made you think you weren't going out with her(which I am lost about by the way), pretend she never said that to your friend, and go out with the other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
... Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Completely agree with Zeta on this one. lol, with one more thought. The fact that this girl made you think you weren't going out... and then said to a friend that you were... tells me you have problems with communication. I'd work on that before even considering a new girlfriend. :cool: Nobody likes a guy who doesn't go to them for the facts. You should have confronted her when you first thought things cooled down. That's my advice. Work on your communicating skills. You're not ready for a relationship if you hear about your [i]own[/i] relationship from friends. :smirk: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moi Posted November 13, 2004 Author Share Posted November 13, 2004 Well, it's not that way, you see. Her friend, the one I like now, told me that she said it was over and it wasn't working out. Now do you understand better, lol? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
... Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I'm confused... this girl you like now... and the girl that you think will go out with you.... tells you... that your ex is no longer interested in you... and have you asked your ex???? lol, again, communicating is a big issue here. Regardless of what you and this girl says, this other girl hasn't told you that it is over. Get the facts from her, and THEN move on. :) You still need to communicate with her. Even if she isn't your pick anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zeta Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 But in your first post you said your friend told you that you were still going out. Now you say that she said that your relationship is over? Phew, thank goodness I never had stuff like this in my relationships. I would be confused ten times over, lol. Well if now you say that you two aren't going out, then go for the other girl if you think you are up to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dagger Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 [quote name='Moi']Anyway, what do I do? AAA[/quote] Okay, this needs to be said. Here's what you do. You stop asking for relationship advice on an [i]anime and video-game based[/i] message board. You stop starting thread after thread simply to relate the latest development in your incredibly tangled love life. You start relying on yourself to make decisions--because chances are you truly want us to simply justify a choice you've already consciously or unconsciously made. Alternatively, you may as well have a go at sending letters to Dear Abby. If you made a single topic and revived it when necessary, that's one thing (even despite my deep personal dislike of relationship threads). However, it's hard to interpret your current modus operandi--creating a new topic nearly every week!--as anything other than an attempt to get attention. I find that somewhat irksome. ~Dagger~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lcrisler Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 heh heh...saw that comin'...i thought this looked familiar when i saw it in the thread listings...that's like, [B]three, three damn-near incomprehensible unnecessary threads, hah hah hah[/B] in the space of a week or two...can we change the name of this thread to "things that perpetuate the 'anime fans have no life' stereotype"? ok...claws in. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 [color=hotpink][size=1]Well, I'm with Dagger because I think this is absolutely ridiculous. It sounds to me that you are in middle/high school and you're having a hard time being in a mature relationship. You think you're hot and so girls crush on you. And therefore you change from girlfriend to girlfriend week to week, not knowing how to be serious about someone. It's one thing to flirt, it's another thing to date someone seriously. And if you just keep stringing these girls along, feelings are going to get hurt and then hopefully some girls will get the picture that you're not hot because you're a jerk. I really hope that you grow up a bit and realize that relationships are about more than "you-know-what."[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChibiHorsewoman Posted November 14, 2004 Share Posted November 14, 2004 [color=darkivolet]I'm not really sure where you're going with this...maybe you should write to Dr. Phil or Oprah since they're more qualified to deal with said situation than a bunch of people ranging in age from pre-teen to mid twenties who have a need for an anime fix and some other interactions. However I doubt that even tehy can translate what you're going for here. As for just wanting to 'you know' if you can't type it out and that's all you want 1.) you're not ready and 2.) you don't want a girlfriend all you want is a **** buddy. In other words, get out a bit more and learn to be more comprehensible. Oh and take a few more cold showers.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted November 14, 2004 Share Posted November 14, 2004 [size=1]Agreeing with what has already been said here, this is enough. Thread closed.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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