RicoTranzrig Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [COLOR=darkblue]It's been a tough week...I just can't stand it! I feel like I've been betrayed by everyone around me...All I can do now that it's all over is cry...then start another week and repeat. It's just tough not knowing if the person that you love, still does...teenage life, where everything can change in an instant. I need your thoughts on this...have you ever felt this way before?[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [color=blue]Are you OK Rico, this is your second unhappy thread already. Yes, I felt like that before, and many times. At first I cried, but after that, I don't anymore. You just have to accept the fact that people change over time. I know it hurt very much when someone you really love and trust betray you. I feel like it's the end of the world and that person stab me. I feel like I'm falling badly. But I get over it and continue with my life. [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [color=crimson][b][size=1]Bein a teenager sucks... Period....[/color][/b][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted November 11, 2001 Author Share Posted November 11, 2001 [COLOR=darkblue]Actually, no, I'm not okay...I'm sorry for being negative all of a sudden but everything's just falling on top of me, crashing down and it feels like no one's there to support me. It's so frustrating...[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k9* Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 i know what u mean, thruout grade and middle school, i was an outcastand picked on by all of the other students (including betrayals if i showed any trust at all). pm me if you want to talk more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 Well, me, I've felt like it before, trust me man, it's tough. Hell, I'm sure half the school is against me(long story, to make it short, got the whole football team in trouble:D ) anyways, listen, life is worth living, just because one love is gone, doesn't mean u'll never find another. Read my sig, it's a cool sig, and it also has a word of advice Rico. Gee, me, helping Rico, I must be on something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by k9* [/i] [B]i know what u mean, thruout grade and middle school, i was an outcastand picked on by all of the other students (including betrayals if i showed any trust at all). pm me if you want to talk more. [/B][/QUOTE] Gee, reminds me, of, well, me! I was an outcast, for one reason, I WAS TOO MATURE FOR EVERYONE IN MY GRADE!!!! That, and i attempted to blow up the cafateria. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by RicoTranzrig [/i] [B][COLOR=darkblue]Actually, no, I'm not okay...I'm sorry for being negative all of a sudden but everything's just falling on top of me, crashing down and it feels like no one's there to support me. It's so frustrating...[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=blue] If you feel that no one support you than you have to support yourself, be strong. I feel that that before, but I convince myself that I have to support myself. I have to live and have the best life I can have. I used to cried a lot before, but I don't anymore, I learned to be strong, so can you. Don't think too much negative, think more on the possitive side. [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k9* Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 the reason i was target was similar akiro, i was the only tomboy in my school (not that big of a township). so i ended up being targeted because i was different, didn't help that i actually enjoy playing sports and actually competing in gym class. it helped that my parents alwasy were there for me, even tho i didn't ever tell them about most of what happened at school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 What i want to know is if our advice is helping Rico at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted November 11, 2001 Author Share Posted November 11, 2001 [COLOR=darkblue]Yeah, I was just viewing and thinking about your responses...It's always tough having to go at it alone...but I can't let it get to me...I'll probably look back a few months from now and laugh about it. But right now, it hurts...thanks for all of your responses, they helped.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 Well, Rico, all i can say is, u have three choices to take if ur really tryin to find a solution to ur problem. 1. Find new friends 2. Withdraw from the world 3. Move 4. Death ok, four things, but i wouldn't take choice number 4, just a word of advice. Death is a option in everything u do, but it is the most cowardice option u will ever take i might add. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by RicoTranzrig [/i] [B][COLOR=darkblue]It's just tough not knowing if the person that you love, still does...[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][b][size=1][i] And it's been awhile... Since i could hold my head up high... And it's been awhile... Since i first saw you... And it's been awhile since, Since i could stand on my two feet again... And it's been awhile, Since i could call you... And everything i can remember... Is ****ed as it always seemed... The consquences that are rendered... I've stretched myself beyond my means...... -Staind-[/i][/color][/b][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DeathKnight [/i] [B] [color=crimson][b][size=1][i] And it's been awhile... Since i could hold my head up high... And it's been awhile... Since i first saw you... And it's been awhile since, Since i could stand on my two feet again... And it's been awhile, Since i could call you... And everything i can remember... Is ****ed as it always seemed... The consquences that are rendered... I've stretched myself beyond my means...... -Staind-[/i][/color][/b][/size] [/B][/QUOTE] Now what exactly does that mean? I dun get it.......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Squashed Snail [/i] [B] Now what exactly does that mean? I dun get it.......... [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][b][size=1]Song... -.-'!.... -.-.... i swear to god.... nevermind.... *walks off pissed off* ~~~ Actually i think the Track 7... is better... [i]Your words to me just a whisper... Your face is so unclear... I try to pay attention... Your words just disappear... Cuz it's always raining in my head... Forget all the things i should have said... So i speak in riddles... Cuz my words get in my way... I smoke the whole thing to my head... And feel it wash away... Cuz i cant anymore of this... I wanna come apart... I'll dig myself a lil hole... Inside your precious heart... [/i] -Staind-[/b][/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 Na, there are some cooler songs then that! But honestly Rico, if u don't know if the person u love(I know who it is, i think everyone else does too) u should really talk to her about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by RicoTranzrig [/i] [B][COLOR=darkblue]Actually, no, I'm not okay...I'm sorry for being negative all of a sudden but everything's just falling on top of me, crashing down and it feels like no one's there to support me. It's so frustrating...[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] we're here for you, rico... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 Yeah Rico, no matter how much u flammed me in my email, and threatened to kill me, and said u would make it so i would never have another night of peace(which i have plenty of), and called me all those bad names, I'm still with ya man:drunk: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted November 11, 2001 Author Share Posted November 11, 2001 [COLOR=darkblue]Umm, I'm sorry I said all those things to you...I've grown up a whole lot these past few months. Life can get really complex, the truth can be confusing. But now I'll have to stop hiding it all in front of (you know who) because she needs to know that I can't hold on to her if she doesn't support me. I mean, that's what friends are for...[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Akito Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by RicoTranzrig [/i] [B][COLOR=darkblue]Umm, I'm sorry I said all those things to you...I've grown up a whole lot these past few months. Life can get really complex, the truth can be confusing. But now I'll have to stop hiding it all in front of (you know who) because she needs to know that I can't hold on to her if she doesn't support me. I mean, that's what friends are for...[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] Life is full of surprises, mostly, bad ones, but, their are a few good ones for some, and alot for others. Ppl always told me to think positive about things, well, if u think Negitive, it's a hell of alot better, when something doesn't go ur way, ur not as sad, and when it does, u feel a hell of alot better then u would if u thought positive! This is life my friend, u have one life to live, it is sad, but true. And if u have friends who don't support u, then u should dump them, and find some that will, for those who don't support are not ur true friends, if something that is funny to all, but not to u, they will laugh and keep it up until something even funnier happens! Those are not friends, and a g/f is their to support u phsically and mentally. If they do not, they are no friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cecil Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 Are you talking about *points to bottom of Rico's sig*? Well, I can't give you much advice since the biggest betrayel in my life is *thinks* umm, I can't thing of it. Oh well, my time will come.Err... just do what everyone else says, I'm sure its good advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorykoAngelcry Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 Trust me, I have been betrayed MANY times, and know what it feels like to have a lot crashing down on me all at once. I still feel like I am carrying a lot of stuff on my shoulders, both mine and my friends and family. To be honest though, I bring it upon myself a lot. I try to be the mediator(the guy in the middle) and try to help everyone deal with their problems, without ever trying to open up my own feelings. I have started to open up, but everytime I do, it feels like no one is listening(or cares) and other times, I KNOW they are not listening, and simply shut up. If you are as awsome as you seem in your posts, I know that you are a good person(no matter what you have done. The inside matters, period) and that most of this will work out for you :D Though I have no clue who you are talking about, I am sure that if you come true to your feelings, and have a real heart to heart talk, that this might work out for you, for the better ^_^ Just keep on rocking, and know that almost everyone who has posted is here for you, and if you need to talk to someone, we are here for you. Drop me an email - [email]wackyman_81@yahoo.com[/email] or an AOL IM - Noryko81 I would be happy to try to help you in any way I can. Good luck~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 rico, do you mind explaining what the betrayal was for those of us who don't know? so we can be more specific.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyperlink Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 sorry to hear i'd give you some helpful advice as well but i must dash so just putting some stuff in a nut shell.. you may come across many hardships.. some small some huge.. but you can be rest assured that you will learn from these.. you will gain more experience with these situations and you will become a better person from them so even though it may seem rocky and despairing.. hold on for the ride and you'll be happy after EDIT: i forgot another thing.. people come and go.. but it's you that will remain.. strong and resilient.. so most of the time things are for the best.. though they might not seem like it (i've gone through many betrayals backstabbing blackmail etc etc.. i'm a much better person now because of it.. i lived through it and i've gotten over it.. but most importantly i learned from it) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeff Posted November 11, 2001 Share Posted November 11, 2001 i've been betrayed so many times, i'm afraid to go outside. it sounds silly, but i'm afraid of ppl. i would like to pay them all a visit who have tormented me and hurt them real bad..not saying i'm tough..i'm saying sneak attack and run :p i have no advise for you..but one thing is clear what my mom said. if you hate someone, that person controls your life. which why my life gotten this bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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