hyper123 Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 I am just wondering ...... because i love someone but it seems like i did that wrong thing.... i dont know i am very confused..... -Sillylingling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skye Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 [size=1]One word: No. Loving someone is [i]never[/i] wrong. Don't ever get that in your head. What you DO about it, however, maybe be the result of bad judgement. But loving someone is never wrong, or a bad thing. Maybe if you elaborated the situation a little more, we would be able to help. Pae-chan[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigervx Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 [FONT=Arial][COLOR=Teal] Now this all depends on your situation. Generally, if you're in love with someone and you're GF and BF, great, thats all good. Its also fine to Love someone, but be rejected, and still think you feel for them. All these things are completely natural. However, there are WRONG ways to love someone. For instance, Stalking in my belief is a wrong way to love someone. If they clearly have no romantic interests in you and have already rejected you, you should really let it be. If you really love that person then you'll let them go and do what they wish in life, and if the time comes that they want to be back with you, then it all works out. Another is if you abuse someone. If your naturally abusive, then I'm sorry to say it, but you can't truely love someone. If you cannot control your emotions enough to have restraint or let someone go, you either have to learn to control such problems or let someone go, trust me, its for the best. Course, this in no way is directed to you ^^. This thread is very broad at the moment and since we don't know your situation we can't really analyze it. More information would help alot. I'm just using this as a way to post my opinions about relationships in general.[/COLOR][/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Citrus Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 [COLOR=Navy]Your right Pae-Chan. Loving is never ever wrong. Loving is an emotion two humans share between each other that are in love. There is no way you can be wrong about it. There is no controlling it. Take inter-racial love for instance. My friend is half Japanese/ Puerto Rican. His parents are of different decent, some people thinks its a good mix but soem don't. They could not have helped it, they loved each other and there is nothing to be done. Unless you brain wash someone, which isn't possible I don't think.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NinjaJedi007 Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 i dont think that loving is wrong. i voted maybe in the poll cuz i havent really experienced it first hand (besides just the family saying i love you n stuff). if you truly care about someone then you shouldnt have to feel bad about it. someone brought this up before, but i always wondered what if you love someone but they dont exactly feel the same way about you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 [quote name='NinjaJedi007']someone brought this up before, but i always wondered what if you love someone but they dont exactly feel the same way about you?[/quote][FONT=Trebuchet MS]It's a little awkward for a while, but you both live. :) I am curious about what happened that makes you think that "loving someone is wrong." [/font] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumpkin Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 [QUOTE=Tigervx][FONT=Arial][COLOR=Teal] For instance, Stalking in my belief is a wrong way to love someone. If they clearly have no romantic interests in you and have already rejected you, you should really let it be. If you really love that person then you'll let them go and do what they wish in life, and if the time comes that they want to be back with you, then it all works out. Another is if you abuse someone. If your naturally abusive, then I'm sorry to say it, but you can't truely love someone. If you cannot control your emotions enough to have restraint or let someone go, you either have to learn to control such problems or let someone go, trust me, its for the best. [/COLOR][/FONT][/QUOTE] [FONT=Tahoma][SIZE=1]I agree with TigerVX. There is nothing wrong about loving someone, although sometimes I admit there are times when you feel like it is. I was with someone for five years and it probably wasn't the best choice I could have made but hey, you can't pick who you love. It just happens. That's why its an emotion that you can't control and thats what makes it unique. Stalking obviously isn't the best idea so yeah atleast thats out of the picture. Who gave you the idea that loving someone is wrong? The final line is you can't choose who you love, and if anyone tells you different I think their wrong. [/FONT][/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 According to the Jedi Order love leads to the dark side so yes, love is wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baron Samedi Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 [size=1]hyper123, if you're very confused, [b]what the hell are we supposed to be?[/b] Loving someone isn't wrong. The act of feeling love for another is a great thing. It's what you do with it that can be bad ~_^[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kamuro Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 a lot people said it depends on the situation, well, I don't think its ever wrong, maybe I'm just a "hopeless romantic" but love is overwhelming, when your love you say and do things you ordinarily wouldn't do, and yes, some of these things might be wrong, but you are consumed by feelings for that person and your judgement is impared, so I don't usually place all the responsibility on the person's actions however, there is something important you should remember, people change, the person you love could change so you no longer them, you could change and have the same result, or you both could love each other and everything you worked for could be ruined in an instant, so before you go and tell someone you love them, make sure its something you truly believe, something your willing to risk everything for, most importantly your happiness, and when you say it, make sure its sincere, so the person your saying it to knows they mean something to you, its hard, but love is one of the most beautiful things this word has to offer us, so cherish it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest zman67 Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 it depends on the situation but over all love helps peolple and isnt wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minako Posted April 2, 2005 Share Posted April 2, 2005 I agree with most everyone in this thread in saying that love is never wrong. It's a wonderful feeling, and I'm a firm believer of [I]It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.[/I] The last time I was in love, it was an internal anguish (love hurts, eh?) because the one I loved was with someone else and would never feel the same way about me. I eventually found out some bad news and I got over it. Yes, it did hurt, but the guy in question was, and still is one of my best friends, although I may never love him again the same way. (as friends, of course I love him that way...) However, I've never experienced love where the other person loves me back... *nervous laugh* :animeswea In a nutshell, Love is never wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyper123 Posted April 6, 2005 Author Share Posted April 6, 2005 thank you for everyone for posting! ^_^ well i now think it depends on the situation. i Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kamuro Posted April 6, 2005 Share Posted April 6, 2005 best of luck, hope loving someone doesn't turn out to be wrong in your case Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dMage Posted April 6, 2005 Share Posted April 6, 2005 [SIZE=2][COLOR=DarkGreen][FONT=Arial Narrow][QUOTE]Quote by [B]Harry[/B] According to the Jedi Order love leads to the dark side so yes, love is wrong.[/QUOTE] Dude, did you not listen to Anakin's little reasoning monologue? If anything, love is what a Jedi stands for...unconditional love. Of course...is it's lust, than yes, that is a part of the darkside. And as for loving someone, their truly is nothing wrong with it. As long as the love you feel is truly love (and not some form of lust, or something similar) than you should continue with those feelings. [/FONT] [/COLOR] [/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyper123 Posted April 7, 2005 Author Share Posted April 7, 2005 i agree with u , dMage. ^_^ your words are sooooooooooo right! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havokio Posted April 7, 2005 Share Posted April 7, 2005 [COLOR=Indigo]Just don't turn that feeling into a NEED (ie."stalking"). It's never wrong, if you do it for the right reasons. Love is NEVER justified by (for reasons of)appearance. Period.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shadowlight Posted April 7, 2005 Share Posted April 7, 2005 [FONT=Palatino Linotype]undefined[/FONT][COLOR=Red]undefined[/COLOR][IMG]Loving someone is what make us humans, i think!^^'' So love isn't wrong or bad, its a good feeling if your love is accepted and tha person love you back, but if its refuse, well its a bad feeling, but anyway you loved!So that's what make you feel alive! :D ! eheheh :animesmil Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyper123 Posted April 7, 2005 Author Share Posted April 7, 2005 and there is all differ kinds of love! ^_^ you can love your family , friends , and relatives! but if u love your boyfriend or girlfriend it is differ than! ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gavin Posted April 7, 2005 Share Posted April 7, 2005 [SIZE=1]I find myself agreeing with TigerVX, there's nothing wrong with loving someone if it's experienced by both involved, and if it is then it's one of the most wonderful feelings a human being can have. The only problem is that often young adolescents can the mistake of being infatuated with another person rather than being in love with them, one such incidence of infatuation involved some stalking by a shy young man I knew on a girl who just wasn't interested in him. Love itself isn't wrong, it's an emotion, what you do because of that emotion can be right or wrong.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpiritWolf Posted April 8, 2005 Share Posted April 8, 2005 It can be wrong to love someone, but it isn't always. It is wrong to love someone who is... I don't want to say abusive, exactly, but someone who... say... takes you for granted. Or ignores you. That kind of love is unhealthy. I can't really ask you to trust me, seeing as how I haven't earned your trust, but I can still hope that you will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gelgoog Pilot Posted April 8, 2005 Share Posted April 8, 2005 [quote name='SpiritWolf']It can be wrong to love someone, but it isn't always. It is wrong to love someone who is... I don't want to say abusive, exactly, but someone who... say... takes you for granted. Or ignores you. That kind of love is unhealthy. I can't really ask you to trust me, seeing as how I haven't earned your trust, but I can still hope that you will.[/quote] I understand what you mean exactlt...if you continue to love someone who definelty treats or treated you like dirt...physically, meantally or whatever...basically I've been in the position. But I still think that for a while you loved the good in them or something... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyper123 Posted April 9, 2005 Author Share Posted April 9, 2005 i agree with you , Gelgoog Pilot and SpiritWolf! well the person i love doesnt treat me like dirt .....but ia m not sure if he take me for granted .........hm........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James P. Galvatron Posted April 10, 2005 Share Posted April 10, 2005 Me I'm not really that prone to love that means letting down all your defenses leaving yourself out in the open to be hurt sure you can't have a meaningful relationship with someone if you don't do that, but you can still have one if you don't. To me I don't know if its wrong I myself am to afraid to show it or maybe to afraid of what might come of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morpheus Posted April 17, 2005 Share Posted April 17, 2005 [quote name='Havokio']Love is NEVER justified by (for reasons of)appearance. Period.[/quote] It is very possible to love someone partly for their appearance. It's all a part of human nature. Think about it. Would you rather be with a beautiful nice girl/guy or an ugly nice girl/guy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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