I'm about to ask the woman i love to marry me

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[quote name='Lightwing']well, i think i can make the relationship last becuase i am turning 15. thanks for the advice everyone. I truely appreciate it.[/quote]

[color=darkviolet]Well, that makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, I was worried that you'd wait until your mid twenties or something. :animesigh

You know, it's threads like these that make me worry for the youth of today.[/color]

[quote name='Queen Asuka][color=hotpink][size=1]Yeah, what a GREAT steady job that is. "Hi, hon, I love you, so let's get married. In the meanwhile, I'll go overseas for months at a time, leaving you all alone, and with a very high risk that I'll be killed." Sorry if I sound bitter, but yeah.[/color'][/size][/quote]

[color=darvkiolet]That was the only stable job I could think of, how bad is that? Well, I guess I could have used the old stand by fast food worker, but the benefits aren't as good. So yeah, military. At the very least you'll have medical coverage if you don't have your spouse 24/7. And actually the risk of being killed-unless you're infantry-is low.... Keh

Well, that's all I have to say. Praise the Lord and pass the ammunition![/color]

[Kamuro]

lol be nice Chibi, I'm part of the nation's youth as well, and I'm definitely not getting married anytime soon. He'll realize soon enough that being 15 doesn't really mean anything, you learn from life experiences and maybe he just needs to make this mistake to know not to do it again. Its great that you care so much, but your just going overboard.

Praise the lord and pass the weed, umm, I mean...YEE HAW

[Guest kyooni]

[COLOR=DarkGreen]undefined[/COLOR] :animestun :animeknow dude what come on your like 15 what are you thinking dude slow down[QUOTE=x kakashi x]lol be nice Chibi, I'm part of the nation's youth as well, and I'm definitely not getting married anytime soon. He'll realize soon enough that being 15 doesn't really mean anything, you learn from life experiences and maybe he just needs to make this mistake to know not to do it again. Its great that you care so much, but your just going overboard.

Praise the lord and pass the weed, umm, I mean...YEE HAW[/QUOTE]

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[QUOTE=x kakashi x]lol be nice Chibi, I'm part of the nation's youth as well, and I'm definitely not getting married anytime soon. He'll realize soon enough that being 15 doesn't really mean anything, you learn from life experiences and maybe he just needs to make this mistake to know not to do it again. Its great that you care so much, but your just going overboard.

YEE HAW[/QUOTE]

[color=darkviolet]I am being nice. I didn't tell the kid he should seek professional help.

And I didn't mean all young kids, just the ones that post this stuff[/color]

[Kamuro]

[QUOTE=ChibiHorsewoman][color=darkviolet]I am being nice. I didn't tell the kid he should seek professional help.

And I didn't mean all young kids, just the ones that post this stuff[/color][/QUOTE]

The going overboard statement was towards the kid who was trying to get married, not to you chibi. And who knows, maybe he needs professional help? I do...

[Shadowlight]

[quote name='Lightwing']well, i think i can make the relationship last becuase i am turning 15. thanks for the advice everyone. I truely appreciate it.[/quote]

[Quote=ChibiHorseWoman]Well, that makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, I was worried that you'd wait until your mid twenties or something. :animesigh

You know, it's threads like these that make me worry for the youth of today.
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I agree with you Chibi, it does makes us feel worried for the youth of today, but hey the he wants to get married, we can't go against it, the only thing i can say to you lightwing, is [B]Good luck kid!And i truly hope and wish you and your girl a happy life togheter! :D [/B]

[KittyLynn]

[FONT=Tahoma]Okay here it is, it will be brutal but listen up. Lightwing, you are being completly immature. Asking this 14 year old highschool girl if she'll marry you in 3 years is beyond everything a person of your age should be worried about. My sister is your age, and I can't even see her in a steady relationship let alone the different ones she has every single week. Either your in your first relationship and you have no clue what love is, or your just a very mislead little boy, but chances are your relationship won't last that long. And chances are she's like every other girl at 14, she just wants to have fun. Sorry that this is harsh, but I just have the biggest pet peeve when people think they are "in love" when they are effing 14. Take a look at the billions of divorced and unhappy people out there, there's where you'll be if you do this. Which I can guarantee you won't. [/FONT]

[FONT=Tahoma]Oh but I forgot the upside, you [B]could[/B] be that one in a million couple that makes it for a life time from 14. I actually know like great great grandparents who have done that, but chances are you won't.[/FONT]

[FONT=Tahoma]So good luck, keh?[/FONT]

[FONT=Tahoma]- Kittylynn[/FONT]

[James P. Galvatron]

[QUOTE=KittyLynn][FONT=Tahoma]Okay here it is, it will be brutal but listen up. Lightwing, you are being completly immature. Asking this 14 year old highschool girl if she'll marry you in 3 years is beyond everything a person of your age should be worried about. My sister is your age, and I can't even see her in a steady relationship let alone the different ones she has every single week. Either your in your first relationship and you have no clue what love is, or your just a very mislead little boy, but chances are your relationship won't last that long. And chances are she's like every other girl at 14, she just wants to have fun. Sorry that this is harsh, but I just have the biggest pet peeve when people think they are "in love" when they are effing 14. Take a look at the billions of divorced and unhappy people out there, there's where you'll be if you do this. Which I can guarantee you won't. [/FONT]

[FONT=Tahoma]Oh but I forgot the upside, you [B]could[/B] be that one in a million couple that makes it for a life time from 14. I actually know like great great grandparents who have done that, but chances are you won't.[/FONT]

[FONT=Tahoma]So good luck, keh?[/FONT]

[FONT=Tahoma]- Kittylynn[/FONT][/QUOTE]

YOu really bursted the young mans dreams and hurt his feelings I mean comeon his relationship wouldn't have worked out I mean he should know that but you didn't have to be so cruel.

Boy u have to realize we are teenagers meaning love doesn't last that long most relationships are lucky to last 6 months for the most committed or those who say they are boys say they are in love with girls all the times sometimes they mean it, but usally cause they are innocent and naive and other times it just to get the girl to do what they want to do.

Honestly think about this and see if you really could see yourself not 3 years from now but one year from now still with her I mean boys hearts are a fickle thing you say you love one girl then we are trying to get the next you shouldn't try to settle down I mean most guys your age or trying have a little fun not fall in love and have a happy ending.

[Pumpkin]

[QUOTE=Inuyasha7271]You really bursted young mans dreams and hurt his feelings I mean comeon his relationship wouldn't have worked out I mean he shouldn't know that but you didn't have to be so cruel.

Boy u have to realize we are teenagers meaning love doesn't last that long most relationships are lucky to last 6 months for the most committed or those who say they are boys say they are in love with girls all the times sometimes they mean it, but usally cause they are innocent and naive and other times it just to get the girl to do what they want to do.

Honestly think about this and see if you really could see yourself not 3 years from now but one year from now still with her I mean boys hearts are a fickle thing you say you love one girl then we are trying to get the next you shouldn't try to settle down I mean most guys your age or trying have a little fun not fall in love and have a happy ending.[/QUOTE]

This is kinda true. I mean, everyone keeps on saying how its never going to happen, which has a big chance of being true. If he really is 14, this is probably his first girlfriend. Think about your first. Everyone wants to "marry" their first, and are naive in their first relationship. They always think their going to be together forever and get married and have kids etc. Sometimes it miraciously does happen (and sadly yeah I've seen it happen before, pretty astonishing no?) but don't break someone down because of that. I remember I was naive at 14, and although I'm not "old enough to be a mother and start talking like one" yet I can rightly say I remember the stage and atleast some people go through this atleast once in their lifetime. I even had a friend who was 16 and got proposed too. Yeah sounds ridiculous. And yes even older people have done it in the past. *GASP* So no blaming today's generation.

Give the kid a break, He's young. And one word of advice to him, if you want to stick with this person just remember you'll miss out on a whole lot of fun and different people, take it from someone who knows.

[Viper0529]

Hey, lightwing. I can say from experience that highschool relationships do not last, as sadly as that is. One minute, a couple will be hugging, kissing, groping (just my school?) and generally breaching the limit in PDA, and then the next day there will be shouting, arguing, punching, mosh pits, and general ouchies and boo-boos. My point is that if you love someone in your freshman/8th grade year (at least, I think its 8th grade, Im bad at math) it probably wont last when you are 18 (or 17). I think what you should do is not plan for a marrige, for it probably wont last. I know I may sound cruel and mean, but I am just being honest. If the relationship lasts, kudos for you! You did what I could not! but if you cant, sorry kid, better luck next time.

Unless you truely love this person, I think that three years is a little...far off for one to be planning. In addition, it may seem kinda creepy if you are bringing up marrige or something. I think I am rambling, so I'll wrap it up. My advice: give it time, dont plan, be casual, dont do drugs.

~Rock on!
Viper0529~

[Slartibartfast]

[quote name='Lightwing']I'm going to ask the woman I love in three years, but I don't know how though. Can someone help me?[/quote]

Okay, I don't normally like to judge others but I'd say that you're a little too young to be thinking of marriage. Granted, I've been with the same guy since I was 15 but I didn't get married until I was 20. Give it some time. There's no need to rush into anything. In three or four years when you're actually of age to get married, then just buy her a rock and get down on your knee, profess your undying love for her and ask her to be your wife. Its fairly easy.

[boombox bushido]

man...making plans years ahead, especially ones such as marriage, is fun and all to pretend that they'll actually happen, but don't be shocked when it all crashes at your feet. i'm not trying to ruin your dreams, but seriously...get real. when you find the one..you'll know it. chances are that it won't be for a while. but then again...i could be wrong. whatever happens happens. follow your heart.

[Sea Of Chaos666]

I say if you are truly in love then go get her. I think it's a good thing to get married in 3 years. If you love her go spend the rest of your life with her. And if she loves you back then she won't care haw you propose to her. As long as you have that love gleaming in your eyes I'm sure she would say yes. Kinda corney huh?

[cecelia rose]

[COLOR=Green]ok, this is funny, lol, well, actually, no its not. does the word [U][B]infatuation[/B][/U] mean anything to you? im 15, i was actually dating this guy for a good year and half, the relationship was great, i was happy, everything just actually went right. he gave me a promise ring, he said we'd marry when i got out of high school (i am a year behind him). one day this older chick came along, and my b/f broke up with me, for her, and they r still dating, which is just fine with me. the world is a very cruel and cold place, people can do the worst things to you, just for fun.
you make it sound like the feeling is mutual, but i really doubt it, people can hide their emotions so easily... your too young, too innocent, too niave (i was and still am). in three years you two wont be together, but thats life, and then you find that special someone when you've figured yourself out, and you live happily ever after. and if you two do last, the ride isnt going to be smooth, its gonna be hard, just like life. so be ready for anything, and like most people have been saying, think things through, wait till you are older, and make sure the feeling is mutual.[/COLOR]