Competition

[Box Hoy]

Alright. I have this problem. I really like this girl and I'm pretty sure that she likes me too. Then there's these other guys that like her and she likes to flirt with them too.
I really want to start dating the girl but I just don't know how to get her mind of the other guys and on me. Does anybody have any good suggestions.

[Godelsensei]

So start dating her. If you think she likes you, it would make sense for her to transfer any spare affections to some one who is openly returning them.

[shinji172]

i dont wanna be pecimistic but if i were you id make sure she doesnt have feelings for these other guys before you start anything. also you have to consider these other guys-do they have feelings for her? I hope it works out for you but like i said be careful

I also dont wanna seem harsh but lets face it:at the very least despite what you may think this relationship isnt the end of the world if it doesnt work out. you will most likely find someone after youve left school, maby even forgeting about her completly! just dont get too stressed ok?

like i said i dont wanna be harsh or rain on your paraid (or whatever you wanna call it). Im just trying to say that not all relationships go on forever or even get their feet off the ground. I accept that i may be wrong but its best to be prepared for what could happen (at least i think it is).

so in short: be carefull, consider all the posibilities as well as the desired ones and dont forget that its not the end of the world. I do hope that it works out for you though.

[DeathBug]

Godel's right: if you like her, ask her out. There's nothing you can do if she likes someone else. Don't complicate things.

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[color=darkviolet]I'm going to make the world stop and agree with Deathbug, but I'm also agreeing with Godel, so it's not too weird.

Just ask her out.

Seriously flirting isn't anything. Everyone flirts. Even soem married people. As long as it's looky no touchy it's just fine. Obviously this girl that you like is very confident about herself if she's able to joke around with other guys. I think you should appreciate that about her and go for it.

If you crash and burn, that's no problem. At least you tried.[/color]

[DeathBug]

[QUOTE=ChibiHorsewoman][color=darkviolet]
If you crash and burn, that's no problem. At least you tried.[/color][/QUOTE]

And if you do crash and burn, try to make it a colorful explosion that will delight and amuse all your friends. That's what I always do, anyway.

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[quote name='DeathBug']And if you do crash and burn, try to make it a colorful explosion that will delight and amuse all your friends.[/quote]

[color=darkviolet]And if you crash and burn and make a colorful explosion and your friends remember it.... Maybe they'll help you find a new girl. That's what I do with my friends anyway. :catgirl: [/color]