Kain Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 If your best freind was gay would you stay freinds or would stop being their freind because of it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 My best friend is lesbian, I just found out, and our relationship is still strong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 My best friend found out I was gay, and if anything he's more of a friend then he ever was :) Being gay doesn't change a person... it's just who they prefer attraction to. if you turn them away because of what they are, you are no friend to begin with. It will break his heart to think he had someone close to him as a friend to turn him away for something he is and for something that has no effect on how others live their life. there is absolutely no reason to turn away someone based on sexual prefrence, anyone who does so is a weak, pathetic human being and never a freind in the first place. To be a friend is to look passed the outside of a person, to look to their insides, to understand them.... to be so narrow as to base a freindship on sexual prefrence is stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 [SIZE=1]Personally this situation wouldn't really bother me. Assuming that they don't try anything with me I would be completely okay with it.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 [SIZE=1]Of course I'd still be their friend! I could care less if they were gay, bisexual, transexual, transvestive, etc etc If they've been my friend for a while then obviously I don't have a problem with it. If they're gay or bi, I'm good with them as long as they don't come on to me. If I can respect who they are, they should respect who I am.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 Just to set the record straight... lol no pun intended... Gay people WILL NOT come onto straight people if they know you are straight... why would we wasye our time? if thats what your worried about, then you have nothing to worry about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Transtic Nerve [/i] [B]Just to set the record straight... lol no pun intended... Gay people WILL NOT come onto straight people if they know you are straight... why would we wasye our time? if thats what your worried about, then you have nothing to worry about. [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]That is the only thing I would worry about if that ever happened. If he was attracted to myself then it would completely change our friendship. It wouldn't be much fun for him just to stay friends now would it? But I could be wrong, i have never been attracted to one of my friends before. Probably because most of them are guys.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 If you abandon your "friend" due to sexual preferance then your were never friends with that person at all. Let alone best friends... -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 ummm... no. that would be rather hypocritical of me, wouldn't it, considering i'm bi. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Transtic Nerve [/i] [B]Just to set the record straight... lol no pun intended... Gay people WILL NOT come onto straight people if they know you are straight... why would we wasye our time? if thats what your worried about, then you have nothing to worry about. [/B][/QUOTE][SIZE=1]:laugh: Lol, that's funny, I didn't get the " no pun intended" part until I read again this time. I've had gay people hit on me before, and they knew I was straight too. Though, I don't get that that often. Though recently at school, this one girl came up to me and asked me if I was gay, and right there I jsut bursdt out laughing and said no. And she said ok, she just wanted to know because one of her friends who is a guy and is gay thought I was cute, and wanted to know if I was gay too :laugh: I just think that's hilarious. I told my mom that and she freaked out, which made the situation even funnier.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 [SIZE=1]You are bi LM? I had no idea...[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 yeah, i figured everybody knew by now. sarah michelle gellar... jessica alba... :tasty: :tasty: :tasty: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Shyguy [/i] [B] [SIZE=1]That is the only thing I would worry about if that ever happened. If he was attracted to myself then it would completely change our friendship. It wouldn't be much fun for him just to stay friends now would it? But I could be wrong, i have never been attracted to one of my friends before. Probably because most of them are guys.[/SIZE] [/B][/QUOTE] My best friend hit on me, that is how I know she is lesbian, but it didn't hurt our friendship. In fact, it make our friendship stronger, she can even trust me more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 Actually, I like the thought of two guys being together. Especially guys like Deryck from Sum 41, and Dexter from Offspring, or Chester from Linkin Park...they would look so good together. One time I was talking to one of my friends and he told me he was bi. Then he told me to imagine two guys making out...and I did...and that's what made me realize how it can't POSSIBLY be a bad thing. Besides, people are what they are. Nothing wrong with that.:tasty: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pikeon Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 Well for me a gay man.......... im still cool wit the dude it depends on how he be actn he cant be hoppn round like a crackhead all day. NOw fo me lesbian................Thi just means moe women for me to work for :naughty: :blush: :eek: :o :tasty: sarah mihelle gellar is somethin for me to .......:tasty: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 well i have better things to worry about if my friends are gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pikeon Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 whats that spose ta mean??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 My best friend is a lesbian. I actually just found out today. But our relationship is getting stronger! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kain Posted November 22, 2001 Author Share Posted November 22, 2001 Thank you for ya responses.I have found out that my best and closest and most trusted freind is gay.I didn't know what to say to him.I stood there with thoughts whizing through my head.I almost didn't want to be freinds anymore but I had to think about how long we have been freinds.But we are still freinds.This was a gigantic shock because I thought he was straight he looked at girls.....maybe i shouldn't say anything else that the ladys might not like.But this was a real shock. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Navi Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 sometimes i feel like i [i]am[/i] a lesbian, but my friend and I share the closest relationship two straight people can ever have? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Navi [/i] [B]sometimes i feel like i [i]am[/i] a lesbian, but my friend and I share the closest relationship two straight people can ever have? [/B][/QUOTE][SIZE=1]Lol, ya I know what you mean. Me and my other guy friends are very comfortable with doing odd things to each other lol. It's funny, cause we know each other that well that it doesn't bother us if one of 'em comes over and pretends to mate with the other's leg :laugh:[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pikeon Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 its like 2 kids Mother 2: WHat does that Pikeon (I never use my real anem around these places) boy want with ur jessica? Mother 1: Who knows? they talk they play. Mother 2 : They play...:rolleyes: what do they play? Mother1: Nothing really their just children Mother 2: Just such Children come Other Children lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittie Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Transtic Nerve [/i] [B]Just to set the record straight... lol no pun intended... Gay people WILL NOT come onto straight people if they know you are straight... why would we waste our time? if thats what your worried about, then you have nothing to worry about. [/B][/QUOTE] i just want to say that that's not true TN...not in all cases i guess... my friend tried to get with me a couple of times... but we're good friends!:D it doesn't bother me in the least and all my friends know that... [color=gray][size=1] i'm sorri i don't make sense... :bawl: [/size] [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 I personally don't give a s.hit about someone's sexual preference, unless of course, it was paedapholia, but I generally don't care if someone is gay, lesbien, etc. I'm as sexually accepting as they come, heck, when transtic revealed that he was gay, I don't think anyone accepted it as well as I, there were a few who were moronic towards it, and there were people that accepted it, thats how life goes I guess.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biida Posted November 22, 2001 Share Posted November 22, 2001 Of course I'd stay their friend! If I'd dump them just because they were gay, then we probably weren't true friends to begin with. But, I'd never do that. I'd stay friends nomatter what! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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