Sephiroth Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 as I said in the title, these last few days have been VERY rough for me, the first incident occured wednesday morning on the university campus, got into a fight against some rascist guy who called me a paki for no reason whatsoever, I may not be pakistani, but I still found it very offensive, I replied with my right fist to his face, breaking his nose, and what happened later on is HE went to a lecturor and said that I assaulted HIM for no reason whatsoever, I got into a lot of crap, I told them my side of the story but it was basically his word against mine, my friends told them what happened but in the end they ended up believing that bastard, I have been suspended from university until wednesday next week.... thats the FIRST of my troubles, the next of my troubles happened on the same day later on, I went back to my apartment to find my disgruntled room mate, whats wrong I asked him, we've been evicted, he replied, just great, leave the rent a few days late and they evict you straight away, I went to the agency with my room mate and we had a long discussion about it, both of our paydays are next week, so it looks like were out of our home until about next friday, so now were both staying at my friends apartment, what keeps going on through my mind this whole time is "why me", life completely sucks and I am VERY p.issed off at it.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeoCactuar Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 I feel for you man. Lucky i don't have to deal with that stuff cause I?m still at home, living with my parents. But what that guy said to you is just down right inappropriate, good on you for smacking him, he can't do that sort of thing and not expect a retaliation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flash Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 Hell... I dunno what to say man... Heh, I'm just a kid really... But hey, I feel for ya man... Hope everything turns out alright... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 you know, safer, we should talk more. it seems we are alike in many ways. & i have great empathy for your situation, believe me. but that's not too hard to figure out, if you've read any of my threads lately. this time is the refining fire. if you take a simple lump of coal--a blackened ball of decaying matter--& add raging heat & tons of pressure, a diamond will emerge. i came up w/ that metaphor a few years ago, & i have to keep it in mind. i'm not a diamond yet, but i will be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gee-enki Dama Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 :( What can I say? Hoppe you get back on your feet soon, Im sure we will keep things warm here for you :) LM, I try to live by this: Who Am I? Often I am asked this, I answar: I am what I make of myself, nothing more, nothing less. I am myself, and myself is me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 Geez, Safer. That.................... that flat-out sucks! I'm really sorry all that crap had to happen to you. That made me mad when I read about that racist dude.... GAWL! I would have punched him too! I'm sorry hon........ but things will get better. Just hang in there, I know you can handle it. {{{{{hug}}}}} :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krillen Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 MAN THAT SUX, But the same things happen to me everyday, i ask god the same question why me, I still live at home and get in trouble more then I would living by myself, I totally feel you. Oh and by the way, Whta does evicted meen? Im guessing that it meens you didnt pay your rent and they kicked you out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 [SIZE=1]Krillen doesn't know what "evicted" means *sigh* It means they force you out of the place you live. Usually because someone didn't pay the rent or something... Now Seph, I am going to give you my opinion on the matter because I respect you and I know that saying "oh, that sucks" isn't going to really help anything. I don't think you should have hit that guy in the face. People will always be racist and stupid and if you go around punching every racist person in the face well... you are going to end up with alot of black eyes, and alot of angry racists coming after you. Try to take the high road and ignore them on this one, because even though they won't be reeling in pain when it is through you will at least become a better person for it. Now about you getting evicted, I don't really have much of an opinion here. It seems to me that you guys need to have the rent money prepared no matter what. Even if that means having to wait a few weeks before you get some new playstation games. But I am sure that after being evicted you will be much more prepared than before, at least you learned something from this.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth Posted November 23, 2001 Author Share Posted November 23, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Shyguy [/i] [B][SIZE=1] Now Seph, I am going to give you my opinion on the matter because I respect you and I know that saying "oh, that sucks" isn't going to really help anything. I don't think you should have hit that guy in the face. People will always be racist and stupid and if you go around punching every racist person in the face well... you are going to end up with alot of black eyes, and alot of angry racists coming after you. Try to take the high road and ignore them on this one, because even though they won't be reeling in pain when it is through you will at least become a better person for it. [/SIZE] [/B][/QUOTE] yeah, I know I shouldn't have hit him in the face, and normally I wouldn't have done that, but that day, ever since I woke up, I have been in a bad mood, and I guess when that guy decided to be rascist, he did so at the wrong time.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 [SIZE=1]Man, Seph, that really sucks. I'm sorry that happened. I don't know really what else to say there, im not very good with this kinda stuff, I just hope it all turns out ok.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 Sephiroth, do you have any extra saving for the rent? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Dragon v2 Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 Theres always hope, Seph. About the eviction problem, this may sound crazy but............why don't you move in with your girl friend??? I mean, that is a good idea, but I'm just wondering how far campus will be. Oh and another note. Why did they beleive him??? I mean you should take this matter as somewhat like your first priority because it was a racist comment. Colleges here will take it into account but I dunno on how it works overseas, but the real fact is that you should try taking that case to court or something or is that a little too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Videl~ Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 Thats really harsh Seph, I know pretty much how you fell though. I was neally expelled from uni for sending a disgusting e-mail to the dean!! I didn't mean to, but me and a mate were having a who can freak each other out the most competition and his name is the same as the deans so he got the shock of his lilfe.:eek: I had to go and make a formal appology to him and he was all set to chuck me out until I explaind, pleaded and grovelled. I was never evicted from my house (which was run by the psycho landlord from hell) but we did have to move out for a week while they had pest control in. We had rats, mice and hornets - and I'm not kidding!! the house was about 300 years old (and haunted as well). I think you know you shouldn't have hit that guy but it's done now and he sounds lilke he deserved it anyway. On the rent front perhaps you could negotiate with the agency to pay monthly, weekly or by direct debit. Anyways I've not been much help but at least you can cheer up a little laughing at my uni nightmare:laugh: Hope it all works out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 Ugh...that sucks. I have been having a rough week also. I don't feel like explaining mine though... -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zeh Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 At first when you said you've been having a rough day in SD i thought something happened between you and your Fience'. Oh-well... I guess i can't hellp much in this matter... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 [FONT=century gothic]o.O And I thought I'd been having a rough week. Best of love to you, Safer. Hope everything works out. I'll keep ya in my prayers. ;) [/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Break Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 [SIZE=1]Whaa...? So this guy just comes up to you and calls you "paki"?! Sad little man, I also would have puched him... maybe two or three times... And do you know why they belived his story? About being evicted... didn't he let you just have until next week to get the money... tight he is... Well, I hope you can move back in soon =) About the idiot racist bastard... stay away from him... if he touches you or says anything, make sure you have your mates with you, and then tell the Dean guy... whasit called...[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k9* Posted November 23, 2001 Share Posted November 23, 2001 man, that's rough. the dean didn't listen to you or your friends at all? it's too bad that if you pursue any action against the racist or the college, you'll look like the aggressor. just remember we're on ur side seph. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth Posted November 24, 2001 Author Share Posted November 24, 2001 the reason why they believed him is because he said that I hit him for no reason whatsoever, and since I punched him, they thought I was using the racism thing as a damn excuse, ah well, live and learn.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted November 24, 2001 Share Posted November 24, 2001 [SIZE=1]Now that's just dumb that they thought that. Racism is a very good excuse to do such a thing if you actaully do decide to hit them, which was probably not the best choice, but oh well, you can't go back and correct it. I'm very sorry this had to happen to ya Seph, I'm behind ya 100% on this.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Dragon v2 Posted November 24, 2001 Share Posted November 24, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Sephiroth [/i] [B]the reason why they believed him is because he said that I hit him for no reason whatsoever, and since I punched him, they thought I was using the racism thing as a damn excuse, ah well, live and learn.... [/B][/QUOTE] Dude, that sux. What about the eviction notice?? Are you gonna move in with your g/f?? If not, I got room in my basement. :D :D :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k9* Posted November 24, 2001 Share Posted November 24, 2001 i'm just asking they didn't believe you when you gave them the reason that you punched him? cuz it's pretty hard for some1 to get close enough to b punched outside on my campus. so this guy claimed that it was just a walk-by punching, huh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoda Posted November 25, 2001 Share Posted November 25, 2001 Tough luck Seph. But I say that racist bastard deserved everything he got. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth Posted November 26, 2001 Author Share Posted November 26, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Ice Dragon v2 [/i] [B] Dude, that sux. What about the eviction notice?? Are you gonna move in with your g/f?? If not, I got room in my basement. :D :D :D [/B][/QUOTE] we are moving back into our apartment on friday.... no, for personal reasons.... erm, no...thanks, heh.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Dragon v2 Posted November 27, 2001 Share Posted November 27, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Sephiroth [/i] [B] we are moving back into our apartment on friday.... no, for personal reasons.... erm, no...thanks, heh.... [/B][/QUOTE] No prob. Just trying to help out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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