Vegitto4 Posted November 26, 2001 Share Posted November 26, 2001 OK, I have a problem with about 3 girls that i like. one of which is insaneley in love with me, one I think Likes me, and One i kno likes me, but teases me alot. I dont know what to do, HELP!!!!!:wigout: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
9mm Avenger Posted November 26, 2001 Share Posted November 26, 2001 [color=royalblue]It's like those Archie comicx...He has 3 women after him! lol. Anyways.....Um....Thats a confusing one, my friend.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 26, 2001 Share Posted November 26, 2001 You can date them or ignore them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vegitto4 Posted November 26, 2001 Author Share Posted November 26, 2001 I know, I hate it, 2 of these girls go to my school, and the other one is a senior. i am a Sophmore, and i forgot one girl, she owes me a favor,:naughty: he he he. But I wanted to ask y'all on what I should do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lotus Posted November 26, 2001 Share Posted November 26, 2001 What do you plan to do? Do you like them or not? Do they annoy you? Just do what ever make you feel happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vegitto4 Posted November 26, 2001 Author Share Posted November 26, 2001 Well, I can't do that just because It will affect most of them in some way, shape, or form. I dont want to be responsible for breaking someones heart, i have dont that before, and it wasn't fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorykoAngelcry Posted November 26, 2001 Share Posted November 26, 2001 [COLOR=firebrick][SIZE=1]Ok, first - I don't see a relationship based on a 'favor' as something that will last long term. Although I can not really give 'good' advice, I can at least offer my opinion. . right? :therock: As for the Senior. . I would pass on that. If she moves out of town, you will have to try a long distance relationship. For the one that really loves you, you need to be careful, if you chose not to go out with her, just make sure that you are very open to her about your feelings, and try to let her know that you care for her, but . . well. . . give her the reason why . . yeah =P *shrug* I suppose it really all just comes down to how you feel about whichever girl you want to go out with. Emotions play a big part, but don't let their emotions over rule your own. You have to do what YOU feel is right. Don't know if this helps, considering I don't even know anything about any of them ^_^ So. . . sorry. [/SIZE][/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zeh Posted November 26, 2001 Share Posted November 26, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by NorykoAngelcry [/i] [B][COLOR=firebrick][SIZE=1]Ok, first - I don't see a relationship based on a 'favor' as something that will last long term. Although I can not really give 'good' advice, I can at least offer my opinion. . right? :therock: As for the Senior. . I would pass on that. If she moves out of town, you will have to try a long distance relationship. For the one that really loves you, you need to be careful, if you chose not to go out with her, just make sure that you are very open to her about your feelings, and try to let her know that you care for her, but . . well. . . give her the reason why . . yeah =P *shrug* I suppose it really all just comes down to how you feel about whichever girl you want to go out with. Emotions play a big part, but don't let their emotions over rule your own. You have to do what YOU feel is right. Don't know if this helps, considering I don't even know anything about any of them ^_^ So. . . sorry. [/SIZE][/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] [FONT=arial]Coming from someone inexpierenced you seem to have some great advice Noryko![/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted November 26, 2001 Share Posted November 26, 2001 Just pick the one that you think will be better in the end.... Something based on looks, favor, or sex will not last, and you'll just end up a poor broken man. Either pick one and go with it, or choose neither of them and wait for the right person.... most High School relationships never last anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted November 26, 2001 Share Posted November 26, 2001 [SIZE=1]Hehe, it's like Tenchi Muyo in real life :p Just be glad you're only dealing with 3 and not more. I'd just pick the one that you like the most and you think the relationship will last long and happy-like :)[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted November 26, 2001 Share Posted November 26, 2001 err, be careful. You wouldn't want to wind up hurting someone. As for the Senior, I agree with Noryko, pass on that one. For the one is "in love" with you, take good care of her. Or, her feelings at least. But, when making your choice, bear in mind, your future... -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vegitto4 Posted November 26, 2001 Author Share Posted November 26, 2001 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by NorykoAngelcry [/i] [B][COLOR=firebrick][SIZE=1]Ok, first - I don't see a relationship based on a 'favor' as something that will last long term. Although I can not really give 'good' advice, I can at least offer my opinion. . right? :therock: As for the Senior. . I would pass on that. If she moves out of town, you will have to try a long distance relationship. For the one that really loves you, you need to be careful, if you chose not to go out with her, just make sure that you are very open to her about your feelings, and try to let her know that you care for her, but . . well. . . give her the reason why . . yeah =P *shrug* I suppose it really all just comes down to how you feel about whichever girl you want to go out with. Emotions play a big part, but don't let their emotions over rule your own. You have to do what YOU feel is right. Don't know if this helps, considering I don't even know anything about any of them ^_^ So. . . sorry. [/SIZE][/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] I know that the favor wouldn't make a reelationship, but if it starts out on a favor, and we find out that wehave something special,then good things can come of it. All of that stuff was floating around in my head, I have said all of it before. But this time, I need somebody to defintely help in the decision, thans though. it was good advice. I like yours justin, it seems like everybody has the same consensus, lets wait to see if anything is different before I ask for this topic to be closed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anti Posted November 27, 2001 Share Posted November 27, 2001 wow your in quite a bind....I don't know what I would do in your place....but this is what I got to say about....I don't mean to sound mean...but in all liklihood you will end up hurting one of them...Their is really nothing you can do about that....even if you choose none of them they will proubably be hurt in some form or fashion...haste to say it because I will sound like an evil adult...but .... that's life... If you go around making choice on whether or not you will hurt someone...you will be little more then someone's tool... now as to the problem about the girls....I can't say much seeing as how I don't know anything about them...and i am not you... I would say chose the one that you know cares about you and won't try and use you....the one you feel the happyst around and will think of you as well as themselves...for even what I said above...sometimes it is nessecary to put anothers emotions ahead of your own...ok enough ranting from me....hope this helps...and I didn't confuse ya to much.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Dragon v2 Posted November 27, 2001 Share Posted November 27, 2001 This is crazy. I hate it when something like this happens. Except I got two to pick off from. (Note: this already happened to me, rememeber the fact that I'm already going out) One of them a freshman and the other a sophmore (my grade) One way to do it, take TN's advice. I hope we can live with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vegitto4 Posted November 27, 2001 Author Share Posted November 27, 2001 Well, anti, It makes sense. I know i will probably hurt one of them, and even if they say its ok, they are still hurting on the inside, and that hurts me because I get that sick to my stomach feeling called a concience when I hurt somebody I didn't intend to hurt. TN had some good advice, but you see, this has happened before, but they all whent to a diffeent school, and I used to be a player, so when this kind of thing used to come up, I wuld just Play all of them for awhile, and dump the ones that were pointless. That type of thing has only backfired once, but I dont do that anymore, and...even if i were to, most of them go to the same school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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