Your perfect man or woman?

[Bloodseeker]

Remember, this is perfection... be picky.

Looks: white, blond; c-cup; nice ***; some fat and some muscle (toothpick women are fugly), but not so much as to make them really chubby or too hard; soft facial features

Personality: not too outgoing, but not so lazy that all she's willing to do is sit at home; bit on the nerdier side without being a full fledged nerd; good conversationalist; isn't completely apethetic to politics

Dos: Likes anime, videogames, and weapon collections; enjoys cuddling and sexual stuff; knows a fine balance between liberal and conservative policies

Donts: tries to drag me along on two hour shopping trips through the mall every week; anti-sexual (I'm not just looking for a sex toy, but I want a girl that will let me mess around with her... she gets to do it back anyways; without the contact, she might as well be just a good friend); won't even shut up long enough for me to make a comment on her thoughts, stories, and experiences (conversation is a two-way street)

Other quirks: Some people might find this wierd... my perfect woman wouldn't be perfect. I'm somebody that likes to be needed, so I'd prefer to hook up with a girl that needs a capable boyfriend. I wouldn't want a girl that turned to me to take care of every minor problem (why do you care so much about Ryan talking trash about you?), or a drama queen that takes small problems and blows them out of porportion (if your dad punched you in the face last night, then why don't I see any bruises?), or a gold digger that exploits my will to help her by making up stories about people that she doesn't like (Josh is my best friend, I've known him for six years, and he's extremely loyal... I seriously doubt that he's trying to steal you away from me); I hate people that do these sorts of things on the regular basis more than anyone else. But I'd like it if she had a legit reason to turn to me for help, or if she felt the need to confide in me.

[Riku]

:catgirl: :catgirl: Can we pick any video game or anime characters that we want to be our real man?? Well, if we can, I would so pick Cloud because he is everything that I would want my perfect man for life to be! :catgirl: :animenose :animeblus

[Bloodseeker]

You want an emo [spoiler]clone[/spoiler] for a boyfriend?

[Lightwing]

i dont know when never expreince a good love life.

[Aaryanna]

Looks: Any hair color will do, medium build. Though I do like guys with long curly hair. I think it just looks so cool.

Personality: Outgoing and loves to discuss a wide variety of topics. I love discussing everything from anime, to politics to weather so I want someone who has lots of interests.

Likes: Anime and videogames. I really love anime and video games so I want to be able to share that love with the person I am with.

Don?ts: Dragging me to sports games left and right. Maybe it?s a guy thing, but football is boring. It's fun sometimes, but just not all the time. I actually love going to movies and classical concerts, I love listenting to Rachmanoff and Mozart. Doesn?t think he?s smarter just because he?s a guy. This is a real biggie for me cause I'm only 13 but I'm already taking some college classes. So I want someone who is okay with the fact that I'm smart.

Overall: Basically someone that when it comes down to it, they are my best friend. Good relationships start off by being friends and stay that way if you still are friends after the relationship becomes more serious. I haven't had many relationships but my friends who are older always seem to get along the best when they were best friends and stayed that way.

[Osaka]

Well my perfect guy would be....

Looks: nice hair cut, nice smile, buff but not too buff. I dont care what race as long as he looks good

Personality: very outgoing, goofy but has his limits, love's to have random conversations, very friendly and knows that laughter is the best medication ever known to man.

Likes: video games, anime, hip hop, rock, dance, some rap but not alot, J-rock and J-pop,snowboarding, laser tag, teaching me how to skateboard.

Donts: wandering eye's and too cocky for his own good.

Overall: someone to be my life long partiner in crime and knows how too be a kid and a adult at the same time.

[IceRose]

My perfect man, well here it goes:

Looks: Nice straight hair, any color(I'm not picky), preferable white or japanese, he has to have a nice body, not muscular but not skinny as heck. I don't mind the bad boy look as long as he has the nice guy personality.

Personality: Optimistic, a little sarcastic, intelligent, he knows what is going on around the world, is happy with his life (really don't like people who complain about every single thing).

Likes: traveling (as much as I do), anime at some extents, some sports, archery and hand to hand combat.

Doesn't like: confrontations, football,or drinking.

Overall: I just want a nice guy who is able to have actual conversations with me. He has to be kind and well mannered. He has to have the perfect balance, be funny when funny is needed and serious when serious is needed.

[Riku]

[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=Navy]Uh sorry, I didn't think that I would get mad at for putting that I would like Cloud for my man, so I guess I'll try again...[/[/COLOR]FONT] :animeswea


[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=Navy]Looks: Long (not too long) hair, any color would be fine; would be great if he were muscular, but it doesn't matter to me, just as long as he dosen't have a huge beer belly or is way to skinny. Come on, imagine a guy being skinnier than a girl... *shivers* [/COLOR] [/FONT] :animedepr

[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=Navy]Personality: Happy-go-lucky, calm and collective, talkative but not too talkative (if you know what I mean.. :p ), loves me for the very person that I am, always on fire (romantisized) for me, he should like a few things about me but doesn't have to exactly like EVERYTHING about me, and should always stroke my hair and caress my cheek. lol.[/[/COLOR]FONT] :catgirl:

[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=Navy]Likes: anything that he wants to like, except if he's liking other girls or WAY TOO into something: sports, movie girls, the 'guys', etc. Don't get me wrong, he can like something, but maybe the football phone and dishtowels have gone a little too far.. lol[/COLOR] [/FONT] :animesmil :animestun

[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=Navy]Dislikes: anything that he wants to dislike, I don't care as long as it's not me...[/COLOR] [/FONT] :animesmil

[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=Navy]Overall: I just want a guy who will support me in everything I do and always does romantic things to me/ for me. I also will do the same for him, not just one cycle, you know??[/COLOR] [/FONT]

[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=Navy]Oh, and gomen for messing up my other view. I can be a little slow at times.. heh heh...[/COLOR][/FONT] :animeswea :animeswea :animesmil

[celestialcharm]

[COLOR=DarkOrchid][quote name='Bloodseeker]You want an emo [spoiler]clone[/spoiler'] for a boyfriend?[/quote]

Those emo kids are hilarious!

Looks: I don't know what race, but perferably asian. I want my kids to have nice hair! Lol, I still like my nappy head no matter what anyone says! As long as the guy is cute I guess it shouldn't matter. Well anyhoo, they need to be taller than me. Not to slim, but not to big. I don't care what hair colour or eye colour they have. They're personal style doesn't really matter to me, as long as they're clean!

Personality: He needs to have manners and be polite. He has to be funny! Not a total jokester though. I don't want him laughing at funerals even though(unless the person made a joke) I did once. But, the pastor said something funny! He needs to be able to walk into the Feminine Hygiene Aisle! Now that would be the perfect man! :animeswea He needs to me smart, and needs to talk! I'm not much of a talker myself. Also, he needs to be outgoing and able to put up with my crazy antics and my crazy family! Expessially my mother! And if he doesn't my mom might yell at my dad to get the baseball bat again. Now, that was funny! And he needs to be spontaneous! If only friend was a man, now she would make a great boyfriend! :animestun

Likes: Movies, anime, video games, [U]ME[/U] and hmmm the rest doesn't really matter unless it's killing fluffy bunnies or something. Now that's wrong!

Donts: smoking, heavy drinking, hmm disrespecting me. I will take no nonsense!

Other Stuff: He needs to believe in God and be Christian. Well, of course he'll love me, but he needs to be down to earth. Being rich would be nice too, but money isn't everything, but it would be a plus.[/COLOR]

[Pumpkin]

[quote name='Aaryanna][SIZE=1][i]Are you sure you aren?t talking about Barbie? Seriously I hardly think we need to know what size bra you think she should wear.[/i'][/SIZE][/quote][SIZE=1][COLOR=#336699]Exactly what I was thinking. It's suprising to me that most people consider all blondes beautiful because of this barbie figure, which is not true at all because there are plenty of attractive brunettes. I was a blonde and I dyed my hair dark drown awhile ago and I noticed I got different attitudes from people. I just found that interesting....now anyways....since there is no such thing as "perfect" I'll list the qualities that I like in a man...

He has to have a sense of humour. I cannot stand when a guy is serious 24/7, atleast a smile or a laugh every once in awhile is enough for me. He has to be friendly to myself and others, and has to have a unique personality. I don't like people who care too much about what other's think, them having confidence in who they are is an important thing. I've learned through the hard way that bad boys are just a waste of time, I won't date anyone who's on drugs but I will for someone who drinks occasionally (That's not really bad). Someone who's fun and spontanous and wierd and silly as me, and easy to talk to. A friendship before hand is a must! I want to be a guy's best friend AND his girlfriend, it always works better that way.

What can I say? I'm a picky girl. Luckily, I already have a boyfriend who fits that description. As you noticed I did not specific one thing on appearance because it really doesn't matter to me. Someone's personality can make them appear attractive in my experience, sometimes your inside can match your outside. I hope that makes sense. [/SIZE][/COLOR]

[Bloodseeker]

[QUOTE=Aaryanna]Are you sure you aren?t talking about Barbie? Seriously I hardly think we need to know what size bra you think she should wear. Such a description is unnecessary, I know I won?t be getting as graphic when I describe my idea of a perfect man.

For starters, I think perfection sucks. For one thing perfection is an illusion. It doesn?t exist. But for the sake of argument I?ll pretend it does.[/QUOTE]
What the hell are you getting all b*tchy about? I like busty blond girls, I don't like toothpicks, I don't like them too muscular or too chubby, and I prefer softer facial features. So my perfect girl would fit that description. (I'm not that picky in real life... this is just describing what perfection would be for me) And my perfect girl's skin would be softer than plastic, so no, I'm not describing Barbie.

[quote name='Pumpkin][size=1][color=#336699]Exactly what I was thinking. It's suprising to me that most people consider all blondes beautiful because of this barbie figure, which is not true at all because there are plenty of attractive brunettes. I was a blonde and I dyed my hair dark drown awhile ago and I noticed I got different attitudes from people. I just found that interesting....now anyways....since there is no such thing as "perfect" I'll list the qualities that I like in a man... [/color'][/size][/quote]
You think that people treated you better when you had blond hair just because of Barbie? Idiot. Some girls look better with lighter hair, and other look better with darker. You're obviously the former. There are some girls that just look wierd with blond hair, and I've seen some pretty hot brunettes, so its not a universal thing.

[color=DarkGreen][b][size=1]Come on, Bloodseeker, you've been around long enough to know you're not supposed to double post. Merged them, but annoyed I had to.
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[SunfallE]

[COLOR=DarkOliveGreen]My ideal man is someone who doesn?t care about looks and such things. Its like Pumpkin said, [B]someone?s personality can make them appear attractive in my experience; sometimes your inside can match your outside.[/B]

The main thing that attacts me to someone is their personality. I do run into people who I think are attractive, but I've just never been the type to really care how they look, other than good hygene as I hate guys who never bathe.

So what I consider ideal and perfect in a man; is someone who can see the inner beauty and the true perfection that lies within a person. This comes from actualy experiance in dating, as I've found that the personality traits I am attracted to exist in quite a varitey of different looks and people so to speak.[/COLOR]

[Bloodseeker]

^You and me wouldn't get along. You get offended to easily. You need to learn to chill... it should only piss you off if its going to do harm to you, your friends, or your family. Its not worth it to get offended over the other stuff. That'll only cause headaches. (Wow, the name Bloodseeker doesn't really fit me at all anymore, does it?)

[Guest Foxkillaz]

My perfect woman eh'?

Well for starters, she needs to be open, not her legs, but her mind. I'd like her to have a good sense of humor and love my cooking. She also must have a cute laugh and be very affectionate in public. I'd like her to have dark green eyes, with very dark hair, also flat chested (Boobs, Eww.).

I know I'll probably never find a woman like this but hey, why can't we hope right?

[WW2]

Hmm..the perfect woman....
Well that would have to be a mute, double jointed, busty, nympho, otaku, millionaire nurse, with tight leather clothing, silk stockings, held up with a garder, and black heels.

........I can dream can't I? :D

[Pumpkin]

[quote name='Bloodseeker']You think that people treated you better when you had blond hair just because of Barbie? Idiot. Some girls look better with lighter hair, and other look better with darker. You're obviously the former. There are some girls that just look wierd with blond hair, and I've seen some pretty hot brunettes, so its not a universal thing.[/quote][SIZE=1][COLOR=#336699]Did I say people treated me better as a blonde? No. So don't assume words that did not come out of my mouth. I wasn't stating a FACT I just said I found it INTERESTING that so many people believe in the blonde stereotype that they are suppose to be dumb and pretty and built like barbie. Yes I WAS treated different and some people are that dumb that they can believe the stereotype. Not all blondes are dumb and not all blondes are pretty. That's my end of the subject because I'd rather not create a flame war over a subject thats pointless to argue with you. [/SIZE][/COLOR]

[Horendithas]

Ironically I don?t have an ideal man so to speak as I have absolutely no desire to be in a relationship. I do not desire marriage nor to be someone?s girlfriend. Now if I were to apply this to say my idea male friend, well I think the perfect friend would be someone who shared similar interests yet had enough differences that we could have fun discussing our different viewpoints on say anime, politics or other topics of interest.

Since we are talking about friends here other than I prefer that they be clean and well kept, the other physical aspects wouldn?t really matter to me.

[Bloodseeker]

[QUOTE=indifference][COLOR=RoyalBlue]I think that the person who needs to chill here is in fact you Bloodseeker. All SunfallE and Aaryanna did is state that they felt you were being a bit too descriptive, neither one of them said that they were offended. SunfallE only said she could see how others could be offended by such a statement. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=Red]And other than the soft skin, it does kind of describe Barbie, that?s the first image that came to my mind when I read your post. Anyway, I say we all should leave out the nitpicking of what other people consider perfect out of this thread, which by the way you yourself started, as unless I am mistaken it?s not the reason you started it in the first place.[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

[color=royalblue]No, SunfallE siad that she was offended because I said about what the perfect breast size was, and Aaryanna took on an agressive tone, as if liking busty bleach blondes was a bad thing. I'm not the one getting offended here.[/color]

[color=red]And when did I do that? I made a sarcastic comment about Cloud, because I'd think that some unstable emo guy [spoiler]that's just a clone of some psycho[/spoiler] would hardly make the perfect partner for anyone, but its not like I went around picking apart other people's preferences. (unlike two other people that I can think of)

I don't see why people are attacking me just because I described my favorite physical features.[/color]

[Derald]

[FONT=Lucida Console][SIZE=1][COLOR=DarkRed]If only I could find a regular girl that likes me, then I would be happy.

Continuing this discussion.
I would have to say that I agree with those out there that say that "perfection" is not what they want.
I want to find a girl out there who will at least give me a chance, I mean, just because I am slightly a nerd doesn't mean you should stereotype me. A girl that doesn't go for the "athelete" with a muscular build, but rather sees people for who they are. I want to meet a girl who can kick someone's butt, so to speak, but would rather help people out. A kind heart, and a virtuous one at that, would be ideal.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]

[eleanor]

[color=darkslateblue] I would never be able to exactly pinpoint my 'perfect man', considering I've liked lots of different guys, but these is my usual likings. :]

[b]Appearance:[/b] Dark hair and dark eyes, and for some reason I find guys who can pull off the 'sleepy eyes' look very attractive (i.e. John Mayer). And... they have to be taller than me. 5'11"-6'2" is nice. Sort of muscular, but not beefy/bulky. I like arm muscles, since it gives you that sense of protection. :3 I don't like super-skinny guys, don't like obese ones, etc.

[b]Personality:[/b] He *must* be funny. If a guy can make me laugh very often (real laughs), odds are I will have a crush on him sooner or later. But I don't really like obnoxious class clowns, either. So... a guy who knows when to be serious and when to relax. And call me weird, but I also like just plain old manliness (i.e. being competitive over dumb stuff, protectiveness). Open-minded, intelligent, nice but not a pushover...all that good stuff.

[b]Turn-ons & Weird Things I Like:[/b] Similar political views/ways of thinking and such, guys who are good at sports and academics, guys who can smirk well, good singing voice (probably why I love Ewan McGregor so much), a nerdy/dorky side, guys who can play the piano well, similar hobbies.

[b]Turn-offs:[/b] Arrogance, bad hygiene, sexism. [/color]

[kenshinsbabe]

[SIZE=2][FONT=Georgia]My sister would hate me if she found me replying to this. She always says that I'm narrowing myself down when I describe my perfect man, even though we both know the chances of me finding him is almost none.

Looks: Black hair, just long enough to hang in front of his green eyes (and so I can mess with it). Taller than me. Just a bit muscly, but squeezable enough for me to have something to hug.

Personality: He's got to be a sweetheart, and not afraid to show that he loves me. He'd have to be intelligent too, so we could talk about a wide range of things and possibly debate. Humorous is a given, of course, but not funny to the point of annoyance. Not too defensive of me (I have a guyfriend like that- he goes nuts whenever another person does something to me) and able to fully trust me, as I would him.

Likes: Animals, music (anything but rap), fine arts, romance movies (he'll at least tolerate them), being goofy, having fun, and adventuring.

Don'ts: Smoking, heavy drinking, badmouthing my friends and family alot (if he doesn't like them, he doesn't have to say much about it), showering me with gifts all the time (a flower or something every now and then as a surprise is the best), eating out alot.

Other: I'm actually more interested in a serious relationship, so I'd want love, not like, though it can start out as like. Religion doesn't much matter, as long as it's not violent or creepy. I want to be really comfortable around him, whereever we go.

A girl can dream, I suppose. :animesigh[/FONT][/SIZE]

[Bloodseeker]

[QUOTE=indifference][COLOR=Red]First of all, Aaryanna only said she saw no reason to discuss bra sizes and SunfallE said she ?knew? women who were offended, not that she was, really try to read before making your statement. They were talking about you listing the bra size and not that you like "busty women" And why did you respond? If they are offended, why do you even care? It's just their opinion. Something that they are entitled to, just as you are entitled to prefer "busty women"[/COLOR]

[COLOR=Orange]And yes making sarcastic comments over other people's choices [B]is [/B] picking apart their choice. As for not seeing why people might be offended? Well your opening post is on the sexist side, you may not have intended it to be so, but it is.[/COLOR]

[COLOR=Cyan]Anyway, I think I am in agreement with Pumpkin at this point so like she said: "That's my end of the subject because I'd rather not create a flame war over a subject that?s pointless to argue with you.[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

[COLOR=Cyan]Hell no. You attack me, then you back off because you don't want to start a flame war? It doesn't work like that![/COLOR]

[color=red]SunfallE's exact words:

[I]I don?t know how other female members of this community feel, but I know quite a few women who find guys discussing what bra size they want their ideal woman to wear very offensive.

I also find women who discuss how they want certain aspect of a man to be a ?certain? size equally as offensive so it goes both ways.[/I]

She's trying to tell me why I'm wrong for saying what I said. The way I see it, it looks like she's agreeing, but even if she's not, she's still trying to tell me that I shouldn't have said that.

Aaryanna's exact words:

[i]Are you sure you aren?t talking about Barbie? Seriously I hardly think we need to know what size bra you think she should wear. Such a description is unnecessary, I know I won?t be getting as graphic when I describe my idea of a perfect man.

For starters, I think perfection sucks. For one thing perfection is an illusion. It doesn?t exist. But for the sake of argument I?ll pretend it does.[/i]

In that second part, she's taking an agressive tone towards me. Add that to saying that I'm describing Barbie (which is never a good thing... I don't go around asking women about this, but from what I've seen, it seems like many of the types that are in here see Barbie as a negative figure that lowers young girl's self esteem) I was wondering why she was taking offense to me liking girls with fairly big breasts and blond hair.

They both thought that I was wrong for liking the look that I like, so I went on the offensive back.[/color]

[color=orange]And liking white blond girls with big breasts and a nice figure is SOOOOO sexist, I'll tell you what. I get really offended when girls talk about liking dark guys with big d*cks and a toned frame that I just want to go up to them and deck them! Its evil! (that was all sarcasm, in case you have your sarcasm detector turned off)[/color]

[Panda]

The double posting, negative attitudes and off-topic subject matter need to stop now. If this thread does not stay on topic I will close this thread. There has been quite a few misunderstandings in this thread that some members have taken to heart. Drop it now and stay on topic.

Responses need to be on the thread topic and be descriptive, not just random lists of traits you think are what the perfect man or woman need to possess. Tell us why you think they need to have these traits and/or what made you attracted to these traits.

[COLOR=Red]Remember: Stay on topic.[/COLOR]

If anyone has questions concerning this please feel free to PM myself or any of the other moderators on the site. Failure to follow the rules may result in the banning of your account. Please stay on topic.

On topic: For me I am very lucky to be married to my idea of the perfect man. My hubby is the perfect man for me. He loves me for who I am and exactly how I am. As for when I was looking for him I did have certain traits I was attracted too. These include but are not limited too:

Physical Traits: I like a man who is taller than me. I am only 5'2" tall and if I were to date a man shorter than me we would be a very short couple. I like having a man next to me who has a larger stature than myself. If I were to be in a burning building I wanted a guy who could pick me up and carry me out of danger. Needless to say this also means he would have to be on the muscular side.

Hair color and eye color were not a major concern but I have always been attracted to blondes with blue eyes. I think it comes from being in an entirely Japanese family where everyone is black haired and brown eyed. I just always though the lighter hair and eyes were very cool and exotic.

Personality: This of course is the most important thing to me. If I can't stand having a conversation or the guy is a jerk there is no point in being with someone who is simply "eye-candy". A great sense of humor is very high on my list since life is so full of downers it is nice to be around someone who can see the sunny side of life. I have a pretty happy-go-lucky attitude and want to be around a guy who has the same. Life should be filled with laughter and fun, not sadness and tears.

Pretty much the main thing that made the perfect man for me was and is everything my husband is in my eyes. My soul mate.

[Shadow Blade]

[size=4][color=slategray][font=chiller]The Perfect Romance?

I suck at love.

I don't really care that much about appearances, but I do care about the personalities. I know it's weird.

Once again I suck at Love.[/size][/color][/font]

[Adahn]

[size=2]Forgive me for attempting to turn this nice thread into an intellectual discussion.[/size]
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[size=2]First of all, in reply to the topic of the thread, my perfect woman would be a woman I could love, and who could love me back. Does anybody really need more than that? You may be surprised that your ideal lover and your actual lover are quite different. Your mental construction of the perfect man/woman relies heavily on the social construction of sexuality in your culture. Love, I believe, comes from a place that can be affected by these social constructions, but is independent of them in enough ways that your description of the perfect man or woman contrasts greatly from who you could share perfect love with.[/size]
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[size=2]A question, now. How much of a role do the social constructions of sexuality in your culture play in your description of the ideal man/woman?[/size]
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[size=2]If you need help understanding what social constructions are, look at the media in all its forms. Magazines, movies, t.v. shows, etc. This is where you will find your cultural definition of sexuality.[/size]
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