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[SIZE=1]I always seem to attract the total opposite of who I'd like. If that makes any sense. I'm very picky, so that makes things even harder.

Physical traits: I too want someone who is taller than me, but not too tall as to make me feel small. -_- Somewhere between 5' 6" - 5'10". There are some exceptions however. I have a thing for muscels. Not just bulk but lean toned muscels, like Bruce Lee you could say. Thats alot to ask for though. :animeswea I do like a slight tan, but not really dark. I have a thing for asian men so that narrows it down quite a bit. Very athletic in martial arts and possibly gymnastics, someone who I could spar with but who could also show me some techniques.

I like dark hair, but occationaly blonde is nice too. Short hair is nice, guys with long hair generally don't appeal to me. It gets on my nerves when I see men with long hair or its all dangling in their face. x_x Eyes however don't really make a diffrence.

Personality: I would like him to be similar to me, with some of the same intrests. A quiet person, but has a more talkitive side at times. He must be honest, and polite with a good sense of humor. I'm not interested in men who talk about themselves and their many talents constantly, so modesty is another good quality. I have a habit with going with the same routine everyday, and it gets tiresome, so someone who can be spontanious once in awhile would be refreshing. I would like for him to be a Christian, with the same beliefs. This is a big thing for me.

I don't like it when guys swear excessively. A little is fine, but when every other word is a swear word it turns me away. It makes the person sound ignorant. Smoking is a total turn off aswell, and I'm not into drinking so that should be limited.

He must respect my feelings and views. I'm not having sex untill I'm married, so he'll have to respect that. Of course love me.

As I mentioned above, I'm very picky. ^_^;

I don't think love is the only thing people need in a relationship. I'm not an expert on the subject, far from, but I belive people need more than that. My parents loved each other, and still do, but their views are so diffrent. They clashed for years untill they finaly devorced about a year and a half ago. Small random tidbit.[/SIZE]
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[COLOR=#656448][Size=1][u]Appearance:[/u]
Hmm...maybe someone with a healthy tan and long eyelashes. Having toned muscles is a plus, so is sporting really dark hair. *sigh* I'll probably end up running after a Bedouin.^^

[u]Personality[/u]
Must be *very* patient and prompt. The One doesn't have to agree with me all the time; I'm looking for someone I can talk with, not an echo board. Because my attitude often gets me into trouble, the One must be able to look after this diva and stop me before I make a fool out of myself (and others). He's gotta be proud of what he does (a bit of confidence won't hurt 'slong as he doesn't overdo it and become pompous bastard in the process).

[u]Likes[/u]
The One must love the sea and will go diving with me when I feel like it.
Also...Must Love Dogs.^^

[u]Dont's[/u]
I'll put up with a smoker as long as he'll put his cigs out when I ask him to. I absolutely detest liars so the One better be an honest boyscout. Haha.
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Honestly, I really don't have preferences. I go for personality. But I do have a pet peeve however:

The guy must NOT care that I may most likely have a bigger video game collection than him, if he even does play.

I absolutely LOVE my PS2 and XBOX and if a guy starts hating on me because "I'm a chick and chicks aren't supposed to like games" (believe me its happened) then forget them. :animeangr
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[size=1][color=indigo][font=arial]Will I do it? Will I be painfully corny? Oh God, I think I will.

My perfect woman is this girl:
[img]http://img466.imageshack.us/img466/7609/464tb.jpg[/img]
who so far hasn't failed at being perfect to and for me. I can only [i]try[/i] to be as perfect.[/font][/color][/size]
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you fool
why are you posting a pic of someone!?
havn't you heard of Copyright? it's even wrost posting picture of someone els over the internet without them knowing about it
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[QUOTE=>x why are you posting a pic of someone!?
havn't you heard of Copyright? it's even wrost posting picture of someone els over the internet without them knowing about it[/QUOTE]
[size=1][color=indigo][font=arial]Except she knows I put it up.... and it's my picture... lol

It was an attempt at an overly sweet and corny romantic gesture. I'm sorry if I offended you.[/font][/color][/size]
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[SIZE=1]Romance is so lost on some people, Alan, it's no use. (Copyright on a person's picture...? o.O)

I don't believe in a perfect man or woman. I'm in love, madly in love, so wouldn't it be fair to say that he's the perfect man for me? I don't think you can model someone on what you want--I know he's perfect in every way for me, and I'd never change a thing about him or wish for anything else.[/SIZE]
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nah it didn't offend me...it depends on the image reflecing the person, if they like it posted on the internet

you are in love Imi...with who:D
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[QUOTE=Bloodseeker]Remember, this is perfection... be picky.

Looks: Pale skin with a lip piercing on his bottom lip. He's skinny but not too much or else I'd feel fat standing right next to him. Deep brown eyes that when you look into them you get lost. Jet black hair with most of it tossed toward the side like an Emo.

Personality: A bit of a bad attitude thrown in there with also nice. He can be a bit eccentric but not too much and also he can be funny so then I didn't have to sit there bored all the time standing next to him.

Dos: Him skateboarding and doing all sorts of sports involving the X Games. He also has to be a gentlemen when he's around me. You know the usual stuff open doors for you, bring you flowers, not forget about anything important counting the birthday.

Donts: I don't want to him be making out with other men ( if he were Emo ) nor eyeing any men or woman.

Other quirks: No, no I think that's all.
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Looks: Of course looks do matter, but having a nice rack does not equal a successful relationship. Casual dress is a must.

Personality: Must know when to laugh and when not to. Must not be stuck up or a ***** (I know a few people like that). Must be talkative: Shyness drives me crazy.

Dos: Fun, Smart, Attractive, and basically just a great person to be around.

Don'ts: Smoking. I can't stand smoking. If you smoke, you are a weak idiot. Stop buying cigarettes!
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:cool: Hmm..I guess my perfect guy would have to have half a brain. He would have to work unless he couldn't. I am not really concerned with looks. i just can't take a guy who is a complete slob or has bad hygiene! I am not really into smokers. Of course no druggies! Funny, common sense-age doesn't matter as long as he's over 18. It's illegal in the states for me to date a minor you know! I am 30! I guess the most important thing is that we love each other desperately and unconditionally!And very protective(not jealous,there's a big difference). :catgirl:
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I've already met mine.

Lindsey (Linzee): Brown curly-(sort of) hair
about my height (5'3")
GREAT personality
matching personality to mine
Has same interests as me
Has about same body frame (not like THAT sickos, I mean about same weight, size, etc.)

You don't always need to look for great looks but great personality even though Linzee has both ;).
It's always good to find both though ;).
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I'm not too fond of going by looks these days. Since some people that look like models tends to be real shady. (men and women alike)

Perfect woman for me..... "shrugs" even though I don't go by looks, I'd like for her to be in some kind of physical shape. It lets me know that they can take good care of themselves.

Her personality "shrugs" I don't know. The opposite of me that's for sure. (I'm laid back.... so to speak. If I had to compare myself to a few characters... I'd say my personality is a bit like Squall, Yusuke and Spike.... How would you describe that one? Sarcastic, quiet and laid back?)

And of course she's gotta be smart. Not a genius but you know.... Something's gotta be up there.
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Well I seen this and just thought that I would chime in.

Looks: I would want my perfect girl to be about 5'10" thin but not so thin that I can see her ribs (that is a little sad that they don't get enough food so it depresses me) Umm for hair color I would say that dark brow or natural red would be fine and for her face a kind pretty face. And her eyes hmm dark green or dark blue.
Personality: Happy-go-lucky, calm and collective, kind, sweat, and talkative but not expecting me to have a lot to say back, I'm a better listener then I am a talker.Smart and a bit active she has to like to walk because I do.
Likes: It would be nice to have stuff in common. So Anime, relaxing on Sunday, going out Friday and Saturday, sleeping in the same bed (I said sleeping not sex even though that would be nice :animesmil ) music would have to be the one thing that we would both have to have the most in common but I like everything but rap, pop, and country, if they liked classical and punk rock that would be awesome, also if they were somewhat able to play an instrument would be great.
Dislikes: what ever they want to you have to take the good with the bad
Overall: I do no want a girl who is expecting me to pay for things (I'm not cheap I just do not have a lot of money and I need it for food so I won't die) or a person who tosses and turns all-night I wake up as soon as they move. And I do not like insanely happy people it scares me
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[quote name='Sting']I'm not too fond of going by looks these days. Since some people that look like models tends to be real shady. (men and women alike)[/quote][color=#333333]Some people are shady, regardless of how they look.[/color]
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:animeshy: my fvorit type of a guys would be.. hmm.. well the looks dont really matter, just gotta be cute or hot.

ok if i were to pic the looks: shaggy brown hair with bright blue eyes (kinda like kaiba), orblack shaggy or long smooth hair with anytype of tyes are fine. smooth nice shaped face. n_n

act: hmm, pure, speaks the truth, he has to be caring for me. he has to be cool-like you know, sasuke kinda attitude.. but he is really warm! >_
job- my assistance in manga or.. a police
that'll be nice. n_n
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Perfect guy/girl/whateverthehellIendupdating (you never know, I could end up with a frikkin squirrel)

looks: I hate to be picky about looks, but if I had to choose the perfec girl I'd want one who was really cute, but knows how to be sexy. Like, she could be cute sometimes and sexy other times (not sure how to explain that one O_o).

personality: The girl I want can't be shallow. I want a deep, meaningfull girl who doesn't necessarily have to be all that smart but... damn, its hard to be put into words >_<. I want her to actually care about me, and I want to care about her. In fact I want her to want me to care about her and vice versa. Are you following me? Good, okay, I want her to be someone who isn't super happy or super sad or anything, just a fun person to be around. If we have problems we can help each other out and when we need someone, that person is who we go to. Are we still on the same page? Good. She'd also have to be very creative and very open-minded.

interests: I don't really care what she's into, though if she's anything like what I explained above, chances are we share a good amount of interests, heh.

job: I don't know, as long as we can manage working the same hours (though as an author I realy don't have hours >_< whatever.)

That was confusing as hell.
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[QUOTE=Bloodseeker]Remember, this is perfection... be picky.

Looks: white, blond; c-cup; nice ***; some fat and some muscle (toothpick women are fugly), but not so much as to make them really chubby or too hard; soft facial features

Personality: not too outgoing, but not so lazy that all she's willing to do is sit at home; bit on the nerdier side without being a full fledged nerd; good conversationalist; isn't completely apethetic to politics

Dos: Likes anime, videogames, and weapon collections; enjoys cuddling and sexual stuff; knows a fine balance between liberal and conservative policies

Donts: tries to drag me along on two hour shopping trips through the mall every week; anti-sexual (I'm not just looking for a sex toy, but I want a girl that will let me mess around with her... she gets to do it back anyways; without the contact, she might as well be just a good friend); won't even shut up long enough for me to make a comment on her thoughts, stories, and experiences (conversation is a two-way street)

Other quirks: Some people might find this wierd... my perfect woman wouldn't be perfect. I'm somebody that likes to be needed, so I'd prefer to hook up with a girl that needs a capable boyfriend. I wouldn't want a girl that turned to me to take care of every minor problem (why do you care so much about Ryan talking trash about you?), or a drama queen that takes small problems and blows them out of porportion (if your dad punched you in the face last night, then why don't I see any bruises?), or a gold digger that exploits my will to help her by making up stories about people that she doesn't like (Josh is my best friend, I've known him for six years, and he's extremely loyal... I seriously doubt that he's trying to steal you away from me); I hate people that do these sorts of things on the regular basis more than anyone else. But I'd like it if she had a legit reason to turn to me for help, or if she felt the need to confide in me.[/QUOTE]

[SIZE=1]To all the people bashing Bloodseeker- HE SAID BE PICKY. All of you gals have mentioned looks, why can't he? It's his fantasy! Honestly. He doesn't want fricking barbie, he said no super-skinny girls, and he SPECIFICALLY said he would NOT want her to be perfect. Let's all get off this flame-war and back to the discussion at hand, shall we?[/SIZE]

[QUOTE=Derald][FONT=Lucida Console][SIZE=1][COLOR=DarkRed]If only I could find a regular girl that likes me, then I would be happy.

Continuing this discussion.
I would have to say that I agree with those out there that say that "perfection" is not what they want.
I want to find a girl out there who will at least give me a chance, I mean, just because I am slightly a nerd doesn't mean you should stereotype me. A girl that doesn't go for the "athelete" with a muscular build, but rather sees people for who they are. I want to meet a girl who can kick someone's butt, so to speak, but would rather help people out. A kind heart, and a virtuous one at that, would be ideal.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/QUOTE]

[SIZE=1]My perfect guy would be basically what he said. (Switch genders, of course.)

I want a guy who can see me for me. I kinda want a guy who shares my interests.

I hate it when guys judge me on my looks (And the fact that I'm slightly nerdy ;)). I don't think I'm really pretty, but I'm definitely not 'ugly', and I'm about 110 and 5'1" (Average, slim in areas, pudgy around the hip-thigh area). I was blonde, but hated the stereo-types. Now I'm a faded-redhead.

A guy's looks doesn't matter to me. Just that he loves me for me. The problem is, all guys my age (15-16) just are hormonal wrecks. That's why I'm single.

*Sigh*[/SIZE]
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Perfect Boyfriend:
Looks:
He's gotta be cute, doesn't matter what else. And he has to be taller than me, but not towering over me. I don't date overweight people, because when I get into a relationship, I look at it realistically: I want sex, and I have a huge possibility of having sex with this person, and for sex to work, the person's body should turn you on, not turn you off. I mean, I just don't date overweight people if I think that I'm actually going to have sex with them...it doesn't turn me on, and that's just how I am. That doesn't mean that I don't like overweight people, but, I just don't date them, because I am a whore, and I love sex. :animesmil
Personality:
Has to be the opposite of me, or at least understand me if he's not the opposite (most people that are from the same crowd, listen to the same type of music, etc. don't understand me for some weird reason). Nice, SMART, funny, sweet. Athletic, involved, pays at least some attention to me, caring, looks into my eyes, will be upfront with me and willing to work out any problems that we have.
Others:
Good kisser, great in bed.

Damn, I have this! I wrote all that, and then I looked over it, and I realized that that describes my boyfriend. Well, all except the last one (great in bed); I haven't tried him out yet.

Perfect Girlfriend:
Looks:
Preferably black or white with a tan. And I like extremely pale, like bleached. When I say white w/ a tan, I mean like the Calvin Klein model that did the photoshoot for Euphoria. I like how she looked in those pictures. The way she looked in those photos was just perfect. When it comes to black girls, I like them thin, medium height or short, really dark. Extremely pale girls, I like with the whole goth and bondage thing going on, but to where they could still dress up in victorian garb and be beautiful, around my height, medium - long hair...once again, thin. I don't like really big breasts, either...big titties are just nasty.
Personality:
That've got to be nice, and very feminine. Need to not expect alot of material things from me, but know that I will always give all the attention that they may want...and if they're perfect, they'll love attention.
Others:
Well, when it comes to how they are in bed, for one, no long nails, and when they are long, they are not to...well, you get the picture. that's the time for tongue. Or they can wear them on one hand and not the other. Must be very talented.
*sighs* I don't think I'll ever find my ideal woman. Well, I know one girl that I've always wanted, and she's a good friend of mine. She's perfect, but she's just...straight.
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Guest Heero yuy
Brunett or redhead, c-cup as well, blue eyes, not skinny, some muscular toning..but not too much...fair skin, with a light complexity...soft face too..with warm eyes.

Able to hold a intelligent converastion about anything, being like religion, politics, history and etc.

Needs to have an easy going mind, a great senes of humor...someone who can take a joke.

Well-educated women.

same interests as me..same taste in music and shows...

must like anime (of course) and what not...enjoys sports...

Plays an instrument, always thought that was hot.
Open minded to other cultures and loves to travel..well travelled person.
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