renayiiq Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 Okay, so I've got a boyfriend, and you know, I love him. I care about him very much and I love him. Things are a little rough right now because he's been so busy with wrestling and stuff, so yeah. Well, I've always had feelings for my friend Jeremy. He's one of my best friends, and we had a little bit of a long-distance thing going on for about 2 weeks. We broke up because we both decided that it was unwise to pursue a relationship with such distance. Since then, we've been really great friends, and we've always had something for each other. I have been denying it, but I love him. Not just as a friend, either. I feel so horrible, because I'm with Korey (my b/f), and I love him, but I love Jeremy, too. I mean, I don't know what to do. I love Korey and I love being with him and he's wonderful and stuff, but then again, I love Jeremy. What do I do? I feel so f***ed up. :( Am I a bad person? I mean, I don't know what to do. Please give me some advice. Opinions welcome, no matter how much I may hate opinions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirika Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 You don't suppose the love you have for both of them are different kinds of love? There's the love of a very dear friend, and a love of a special someone. Could that be the case? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Satoru Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 Kirika, you're right with this one. But it sounds like renayiiq likes them both. "OOOO!!" Anyway, theres nothing wrong with that, don't be all emo about this, really, there's no need. All you can do is gel on with your current guy, because you've already been with whatshisname so there's not really any loss. You guys said the distance thing woulnd't work? Why worry about it, old flames get stronger at some times, and at others they almost go out, but what pretty much matters is now. Get me? If not I'll try explain a bit more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomad19 Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 just as kirika said, i agree..that thing with jeremy, it's that bestfriend bond everyone talks about, you love him as a best friend, deeper than a friend, but almost to the point of being lovers, that's pretty deep... try talking it over with your boyfriend, if you love him as you say, you'd have no problem talking about your bestfriend...he'll understand. as long you're honest about your feelings, you're not a bad person... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sbsp13668 Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=Red]Don't worry about it, if you think that's bad then you should check out one of my friends. She had like 5 or 6 boyfriends and didn't even feel bad about it! She even got away with it and none of her boyfriends figured out that she was cheating on them! But now she moved without even telling me so I'm not sure what's really going on . . . But either way don't be too hard on yourself there are tonnes of other people out there who have been very bad and you're not one of them! :catgirl: Okydoky I'm finished :animeswea ![/COLOR][/FONT] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gavin Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 [SIZE=1]Interesting, most interesting. Well in a situation like this I would advise that you continue your relationship with Korey, as he is the person you are currently involved with and you genuinely do seem to care about. You have already said that you tried a long-distance relationship with this Jeremy and it didn't work out, so unless he has moved to within easy travelling distance, it would seem logical that you're just nostalgic for your old relationship with him. In the end it's really up to you as to what you do in this situation, but as the old saying goes "[I]A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush[/I]".[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shadow Blade Posted November 30, 2005 Share Posted November 30, 2005 [size=1][color=slategray] Well Renayiiq I'm not an expert (and uh, don't think I ever will be, considering the fact I suck at it. Just ask my ex.) at this kinda stuff and I'm not going be Dr.Phil here, but just stay with the dude you're with now especially since you really care this Korey, and plus Korey will probably have a emotional and maybe mental breakdown. As the other guy Jeremy, just remain friends with this guy. If you really value your friendship with this guy then don't date him, especially if those rumors that state if you date your best buddy things won't be the same anymore are true. That's all I have to say. I know a fat lot of help this statement truely is. Oh well did my best [shrugs]. [/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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