Guys, what would you do?

[aizima]

:animestun Man! I'm in a dilema. It's this guy I like in school, but he's like two grades above me. He doesn't even know I exsist. He knew my sister, but
I can't tell my family anything... they make it a drastic case. So I'd like to know, what would you guys do in a situation like this?

[Guest kuroinuyoukai]

[QUOTE=aizima]:animestun Man! I'm in a dilema. It's this guy I like in school, but he's like two grades above me. He doesn't even know I exsist. He knew my sister, but
I can't tell my family anything... they make it a drastic case. So I'd like to know, what would you guys do in a situation like this?[/QUOTE]

I think I would try to get to know the guy first.You know say "Hi I'm so and so's sister." Perhaps become friends with him first. It might turn him off if you walk up and say "Hi you don't know me-but I like you." That's my suggestion-then again I have never been too good with boys.

[king_monkey]

[quote name='kuroinuyoukai']I think I would try to get to know the guy first.You know say "Hi I'm so and so's sister." Perhaps become friends with him first. It might turn him off if you walk up and say "Hi you don't know me-but I like you." That's my suggestion-then again I have never been too good with boys.[/quote]
[COLOR=Navy]thats a pretty good idea i second that and u said ur not good with guys[/COLOR] :animesmil also find out more about him if u can and try to impress him with something he likes

[Panda]

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On topic: I agree if you like this guy you should get to know him. Introduce yourself and make yourself known. Becoming friends is going to be the best route to getting closer to him and vice versa. He has to know you before he can like you.

Getting to know him will also help you sort out your feelings. Do you just have a crush on what you think he is versus what he really is? Hopefully he isn't just a cute guy with the personality of a bathroom stall. Sometimes what we see of someone from afar is completely different from what they are really like.

Whatever you decide to do I wish you the best of luck.

[IceRose]

First: Introduce yourself
Second: Find his friends and ask them what he likes but don't seem to foward with the them, drop it like casual conversation.
Third: If you now know the info about the guy and still like him ask him to join you with a couple of friends at the movies.
Fourth: After the movies ask him if he wants to go for an ice cream or something or pizza whatever the both of you decide
Fifth: end up walking home with im and then ask him if he would like to go out with you on a real date.

(This advice brought to you by IceRose's friend Isabel who was in the same situation and the plan worked )

[Al-araaf]

Get to know him and if he is a jerk (major censor there) then forget about him.
For a while just be his friend only and leave VERY little hints for something more
If for some reason another girl should come and if you truly want him you MUST tell him.

That is how it worked for me and my gf. Only I was a guy going through what I just listed. But for us there was alot of psychlogical and psychic stuff that is difficult to explain that I have studied and found were factors in it, but ignor all the psychological and psychic stuff I just mentioned. Now i'm rambling :animeswea again

[Satoru]

Ok.
I dunno how it goes in the states, but in England it goes a little something like this.
Im a guy, so this from my perspective.
A girl likes you, you don't know her, but you notice that she smiles at you in the corridor when you pass each other. (I'm thinkin at school here) "Hmm, she seems nice"
A smile turns into a hello, "What's her name again?"
A Hello turns into a stop-and-have-a-quick-convo kind of thing because you wonder who she is. "Im Satoru" etc. "Catch you later"
And so forth. You get me?
things don't always turn out text book, infact, they hardly ever do.
So don't worry if stuff doesn't go to "Plan" because they always turn out differently.

*edit
Oh yeah and just to add,
Don't go asking his friends about him. It might freak him out.

[Al-araaf]

Very well put Satoru

[Gavin]

[SIZE=1]Interesting, most interesting.

Well personally I go by the simple rule of one above and one below, which in terms of High School meant that I would pursue a girl I was interested in if she were in a year higher or lower than me. So basically that meant that I would only go for girls either a year older than me or a year younger than me, though there were exceptions at times and now that I'm eighteen anything older within reason is fair game.

I'd advise you to basically just talk to the guy, get to know him as most of the time infatuations are tied to the fact that you don't know the person and they seem more interesting that way. If you get to know him and still like him, then my advice is to just come out and tell him you're attracted, given that he's two years older than you he mightn't reciprocate the feelings but at least you'll have been straightforward with it. If is interested then just take it one step at a time. [/SIZE]

[Darkness]

Well, I would normally agree with most of the people here and say "say hello to him and introduce yourself"...yada, yada, yada. But the grade thing is an issue. If he is that much older than you, there is a good chance he won't give you the time of day. High school kids can be like that. You also may not want to go that route in the long run, since he may be into some things that you may not be into.

[Starwind]

Some times you've got to be bold. you've got to approach him first. I'm not saying just start hitting on him or anything, just walk up to him and spark the conversation. Guys aren't the most conversationally inclined, so if you want anything to happen, it's best you make the first move. Introduce yourself, say that he knows your sister and strike it up from there. Us guys, were pretty simple, nothing to complex about us. Trust me, as far as guys go I'm about as complex as they come, which dosen't say much.

[Guest Heero yuy]

I agree, just get to know him, find common variables and build from there.

[kurin]

[QUOTE=aizima]:animestun Man! I'm in a dilema. It's this guy I like in school, but he's like two grades above me. He doesn't even know I exsist. He knew my sister, but
I can't tell my family anything... they make it a drastic case. So I'd like to know, what would you guys do in a situation like this?[/QUOTE]
Let's see you have the same probelem like me! well try to get to know him like just ask him about something he knows like you know...whatever that's how I got talking with the guy I like. I asked him if he was going to the game we were having at our school he say yes and That's how i got a picture of him :cool: " Don't worry about it" that's what my friends say but I know how you feel. :angel: you can't talk but you wannt to. Your day will come :heart: Plus do you have classes with him by any chance or know a friend or brother/sister of his these people some times help. :glasses:

[Viva]

[QUOTE=aizima]:animestun Man! I'm in a dilema. It's this guy I like in school, but he's like two grades above me. He doesn't even know I exsist. He knew my sister, but
I can't tell my family anything... they make it a drastic case. So I'd like to know, what would you guys do in a situation like this?[/QUOTE]
well, if he doesn't notice you, then make him if you like him that much!! try talking to him in class or something. but don't change yourself just to make him like you if he doesn't really like the real you. he probably wouldn't be worth it anyway. the "two grades above me" doesn't really matter just as long as your family doesn't know. my bf is turning 20 and i'm still in high school and we're great together.

[RedSkyCoffee]

[size=1] Oi, well first off I'd just talk to him {Don't go up to him randomly cuz that's always weird}, become good friends, but if you ask him ask him out or anything {After you're friends} be careful. It happened to me before, me and this guy were real good friends and then we went out for a month or two and broke up, now we hate each other. [/size]

[Heaven's Cloud]

[color=indigo]Psshhh, just saying hello is way lame. To be competitive in today?s flesh market you need pop, you need pizzazz, you need?a catchy intro line.

So here is what you need to say, word for word: ?Hello , I?m ; wanna go have funky monkey sex in the faculty bathroom? They have really nice stalls?.

Trust me, if you take my advice it?ll be on like Donkey Kong. Not because he?ll take you up on the offer, no, my guess is when you lay that line on him all the color will instantly drain from his face and he?ll have no clue how to respond. It will work because when you realize he doesn?t know how to respond you?ll laugh and say: ?Lighten up, I was just messin? with you. I am ?s sister.?

That should be more than enough to give you an ?in? and open up a little dialogue. A few sentences into the conversation, tell him that you have to go but slip him your phone number and tell (not ask) him to call you up tonight. [/color]