(mature???)Random question! What turns you on?

[orbindo]

Don't even know if i can ask this, but if i can't the site mods'll take care of it. you guys do a good job.

What turns you on? simple question, any takers?

Me, girls who has a great body of course, but not necessarily that.
someone who can look past the faults of others and see the good in people.
corny,right? ok your turn.

[Starwind]

Let me be the first taker here. I'm a softy for the cutcier girl, I can't help it but I have a soft spot in my heart for stuff like that. It's strange that I find myself attracted to some fan girls as well.

[Corey]

[size=1]Confidence and strength.
I love it when a girl has the capability to take me down a peg when I need a reality check. I can't date someone superficial or petty.
Someone down to earth really turns me on. There's nothing worse than someone living in a dreamworld 24/7.

Also, I'm a sucker for rough love.[/size]

[ForgottenRaider]

Some one who is smarter than me...Like nerdy and prefferably drop dead sexy. :p

And yes, some one who likes to play a bit rough. ;)

[Retribution]

[size=1]I love the quiet, modest, humble types. Not because I want control over them, but because I really appreciate them not being full of themselves.

And yeah... someone who looks good also turns me on. I can't really lie about that.[/size]

[sakurasuka]

[SIZE=1]Hm. I'm not really interested in guys just because they're physically attractive. I'm not bashing anyone who said they liked a girl who's attractive--It's just not something I think of. Generally, it's the hot guys that treat a girl like crap. Not trying to generalize... I'm just saying this form experience.

I'm more a sucker for someone smart. Someone who knows what they want. I need a guy who can make me know what they're feeling just by looking at me the right way.

And, very thankfully, I found just the person who can do that for me. He's, sadly, in Washington DC right now. It's been quite a few weeks since I've seen him, but he still leaves me breathless every time we talk. Even if it's just an email.[/SIZE]

[2010DigitalBoy]

There are only a few things a girl has to have for me to like her:

- Must not be shallow!
- Must be nice!
- Must be open-minded!
- Must not hate me!

I think that's about it.

[IceRose]

Two things turn me on, the mysterious type, also known as loner. I don't know I guess is because I am curious and like to find out what they are like. The other thing is I like nice guys, the all around nice guys, they are not jerks and they are well like the word says, nice.

[Goodbye, Face]

[font=trebuchet ms]I like tomboys, for the most part. I've had the privilege of meeting a really sweet and awesome one a few years back, but she recently dropped out of school and turned to drugs... like cocaine.

I haven't met a single girl that I truly like except for a girl named Kit, she really likes me too, but we're too afraid of losing eachother as friends if something goes wrong. Yeah.

Other than that, most of the girls here that I would go out with normally are either really shallow, or lesbians. It's sad.

As for having a hot body, it doesn't matter too much. I have just one complaint, since Emilie, if you do drugs, I don't even want to know you. Sorry, it's just one thing I can't take anymore. If I really had to pick a girl in a room, it would be the one with short to shoulder-length brown hair who has enough to her that you can hug her without getting a papercut. It's just a slight preference, I don't care all that much.[/font]

[Sayuri-sama]

Red hair, Long hair , green eyes, and some who isnt a push over ya kno? someone who'll fight back!!! if theres anyone out there lyk dat!! PLZ!!! FIND ME!!!!! currently looking 4 a boyfriend!!!!! :p

[Dale_Valley]

i think that the girl that gets me going is one taht can take care of herself, but inst selfish, shares most of the principals i do, and is wierd. they have to be a wierd girl. nto to freakish ley wierd. but has that litte "zip" to them.
also, have to make sure that they dont take advantage of me, thats happend to much to me. i ahve found that i am way to much of a nice guy.
oh and, they have to be patient. i have a tendancy to be very shy, as well as the nice thing.

[Magus]

Uhhh.... before I answer this question. Is it what turns me on or what do I look for in the opposite sex? (Alot of the answers sounds like what you're looking for in the opposite sex)

What turns me on......? Guess I'll be the 1st to say it. A woman that is a tease. That's the only real thing that turns me on these days. Staring at a female's body and picturing things "coughs" has gotten a tad bit old and doesn't really do anything for me these days.

What I look for in a lady? Uhh... Independency as well as not so stuck up. I like women who can take care of themselves but also open minded.

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[color=darkviolet][font=lucida calligraphy] The title is a given. If you have a great sense of humor and like kids (This is very improtant since I'm a single mom and my baby comes first) I'll give you a wardrobe make over no problem.

Everything else that I want

Nice eyes. I don't have a color preference though all my long term relationships have had dark eyes.

Funny. And preferably as weird or weirder than me. If you can carry on a conversation about pyrotechnic squirells, joke about something or just goof off and be yourself I am so there.

Height. I'm not that tall (5'4) but I like guys who are taller than me I have honestly never dated or slept with a guy who was my height or shorter. But that probably doesn't mean I won't.

Intelligence. I like people in general who can contribute more than monosyllabic words to a conversation. If you can carry on a good debate about different subjects and keep me on my toes ooh baby! :love:

I'm not going to say anything about weight (though if your weight prohibits you from rides at Six Flags we are now running partners) because I'm not skinny or looks because I'm not America's next top model. Those are just extras.

If I'm just going to look at a person, looks are important. But unless you have enough money looks fade, mindnumbingly dull and stupid are forever.

♪Five is a four letter word
Chibi Horsewoman♪[/color][/font]

[Jimbobalo]

With me I like a girl who is unique and not like anyone else I now. She has to be a free thinker and a indepentant person. I like a girl who like me has a dream and wants to be focused on getting to that goal. She has to be a good listener and have alot of patience as I can ramble alot. lol

Now when it comes to looks it doesn't really bother me. As a great man in a porno film I saw once said, "I love women of all shapes and sizes brother". That pretty much applies to me but I like a girl who has beatiful eyes and a great smile. Thats it really.

[Persona]

[COLOR=RoyalBlue]The honest answer to an honest question, eh? In my case for a guy to at least get my attention is to simply be themselves. Of course to be real some guys just have a personality thats sucks or is too much to handle, so to narrow down of the meaning of, "being themselves" and get to the point is just... honesty. The males aren't pefect and visa versa, so if the guy is just honest and can be himself in front of a female without putting that, 'I'm to cool and can get any girl act'...then hey you have my attention and if you can make me laugh as well, that's a turn on for me.
Did I even make any sense...(Laughs to herself).[/COLOR]

[OMNOMNOMALY]

[FONT=Trebuchet MS][COLOR=Indigo]Definitely the quirky guys that can make me laugh, and laugh along with me when I'm being immature.

I really like it when guys are taller than me. I don't even know why. Same height is okay, but taller is nice ^__^

It's also great if they like the same music as me.

Doesn't hurt if they're nice to look at, either =P[/COLOR][/FONT]

[Lindus]

I like guys who choose not to be in the spot light. For example, the one guy I've had a crush on since....junior high or so is very smart and talented in the arts; however, he doesn't really talk. at all. unless it's to voice his opinion when it occasionally strikes his fancy. He's also taller than me, not by a lot, but enough. And I'm already 5' 8" ^^;

Also, he drives me absolutely crazy sometimes. We've been in at least one class with each other since 5th grade, and he seems to enjoy making me mad. Those times are some of the only times he laughs too, which makes me really happy even though I have to pretend to be mad at him for a minute or two.

Also, a good sense of humor is good. He doesn't have to laugh a lot, just make me aware that he appreciates it with a smile or something.

So, I guess the silent, brooding type is a turn on for me. That, to me, is perfect. *sigh*

[xxMissAsukaxx]

[B]I like a guy who can give me a good argument and not back down easily .. I like them to be persistant and be able to hold an intellectual conversation with me and one who is a fighter and VERY Aggressive. If he is aggressive that is a BIG turn on for me!! ALso, if they have spiked, crazy hair, that is my weakness.. IT gets me everytime[/B]

[TheShinje]

[font=georgia][color=crimson] I'm somewhat shallow. I like hot blonde skinny girls, but it's not a prerequisite, that's just what I tend to go for, I'm a sucker for blonde hair.

I also like a girl that I can laugh with and share my thoughts and feelings too, because I like sentimental slush. Ins short, I'm shallowly sentimental :p [/font][/color]

[Akieen Cloud]

OKay, ow I think I'll be the only one really answer this the way I think the kid wanted it answered, he never asked what turnes you on when you look for people. IF that were teh case I could say My ifance' and be doen but nope. what turns mwe on is being bitten. It's a fetish that my fiance gaot me into when we first started dating and it grew on me, being bitten and then there are a few others, I have a spot on my neck that wne kissed, big one there, nad weird as it may be, hands and eyes. I absolutly adore my fiance's hands and eyes, he has theose big gentl hands that make me feel safe and his eyes, he talks with his eyes, I can read everything I want right there. so thats mine.

[WindFox17]

Mine is haveing my neck bitten and when my g/f is agressive and dominates me :catgirl:

[Mimmsicle]

[FONT=Tahoma]Hands and lips are a major turn-on for me. Though there's probably more that get my cogs turning, if I think about it some more, lol.

Hands are a turn-on partly because they are so wonderful to look at and play with, partly because [sometimes] they're an indication of a person's mentality. But of course you'd have to observe them in action ... [I]innocently[/I] (or not!), to be able to determine that. Staring at a pair of immobilized hands doesn't say much ... unless they're covered in paint, naturally.

Simple things such as how they use them in communication, how they shake your hand or do every day chores. You might not be very interested in a person who handles objects violently, if you're someone who's after smooth love. Though, on the same token, someone who's uber careful around anything and everything might be a right stallion when it comes to using their hands on you. Hm. Anywhoo!

Lips entrance me, for they can enhance attraction by looking delectable. Not to mention I've got a kissing addiction :catgirl:

Eyes usually have a good hold on me, as well. Not by colour or positioning/alignment in (on?) the face, but by how they look at me. [/FONT]

[fire_fly52]

Mine would have to be really sweet guys. you know how they say nice guys finish last its not true my guy is so wounderful for me and he is a very nice guy. Other people say it so i am not bias. Eyes that are so deep and emoution filled i mean you could see into so many things like if they are lieing or seeing how deep they love you. It is really nice when they can show emotion, It shows they are human and i like that. but phisical would have to be having my neck bitin, having my hand held and WORDs I mean some words are like wow.

[Ikillion]

[COLOR=DarkSlateGray][SIZE=1][FONT=Comic Sans MS]If I was to say what would turn me on about a women is someone who can show me atleast some kind of intelligence. I'm not asking for someone who makes a perfect score on every test and has never had a grade that was below an "A". However someone who has the aility to cary on a conversation about some of the wierdest things..

Long hair, I dont know why I am so attracted to long hair, maby because it could be a curtin to block out all of those wondering eyes if we were to kiss. I dont know but its just someone that I find attractive.

Maby someone shorter than me. Just because I think it would be slightly akward for her to be taller than me. I dont know just something

This may be me, I just would love to have someone which I could be able to hug/cuddle or whatever in some of the most akward moments. No matter where or when just to be able to do something like that would be something that I look for in a person.

The one thing that I absolutly love to see in any women is the ability to be as crazy as possible yet still be sane. I have been mistaken by my friends at once to be literally insane. It was funny though but just to be able to find a female that shares the same quality as I do would make me have almost an instant crush.[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR]