So what are your problems?

[WindFox17]

This thread is made so that people can get together and be able to help with whatever is on there mind. Because if someone knows that there are peolpe out there that want to help them they just might not give up(suicide). For instance I have depression, but when I am near my firefly I am happy.

[Billie_Forever]

[quote name='WindFox17']This thread is made so that people can get together and be able to help with whatever is on there mind. Because if someone knows that there are peolpe out there that want to help them they just might not give up(suicide). For instance I have depression, but when I am near my firefly I am happy.[/quote]

How sweet..I'm apparently "clinically depressed"..i refused to take the pills they give me..(I'll show them!)...My family hate me and one of my best friends cant talk to me anymore...Anyone else?

[Corey]

[size=1]I see this turning into a competition relatively quickly.
My current problem is quitting smoking. It's rough. But it's a process.
I found that I can't do cold turkey, I'm just not strong enough for it.[/size]

[Random]

OH, a competition? Well, that's most intersting. I'm not going to try and compete, so here goes:

First off, I'm trying to quit smoking as well...and, as Corey said, it's a process...a long, hard process at that. It's an even longer story of why I started, but lets just say that quitting is even harder.

My other thing that I'm having trouble with is figuring out how to come out to my parents...*shock*. Ok, everyone knows but them, and I don't really have any idea on how to tell them...any suggestions?

-Random

[renayiiq]

My problems:

I've got a g/f, still miss my ex a little, like this one person, and I'd like to have an open relationship but my g/f isn't supposed to talk on the phone because she's sick (i don't know how that hinders one's phone ability, seeing as she hasn't lost her voice or anything, but okay) so I can't talk to her about it. I have to pretend at home here that she's just a friend, because of my dad. He'd flip out, maybe even kick me out of the house. I haven't really talked to her (meaning 5 mins. or more of conversation) since saturday.
I have just realized that I'm going through the "poser" problems again. And I'm going to get more crap from all the pseudo-goths who think they're perfect (they act like it's a competition of who's the most goth or punk or whatever they call themselves). They try to act like they're my friends, but when I do something that's not cliché to their stereotype, I am automatically a poser. Most of them don't know about this step thing, but they're bound to find out. I can't keep my mouth shut for crap, so they'll find out. And I'll become a poser again, like freshman year. Yeah, I'm trying to find better friends, but that's hard to do when you're the only white person who's in the step class, and you don't even look the part.
That's pretty much all I can think of.
But there is one good side: I got a pair of pants for step (work out/lounge pants. they're so cute!) and my cat, Boo, is getting better.

[2010DigitalBoy]

My problem is that I want someone to be close to me but I continually forsake all that I care about. I screw up all my relationships, I never say what I want to, and nobody thinks of me the way I want them to. I want people to know me and know who I am inside, but it seems as though nobody wants to hear what's in my heart. Helping me is like taking care of a pet, you have to pay attention to it or it'll die.

[renayiiq]

[quote name='? Nomad Tical ?']My problem is that I want someone to be close to me but I continually forsake all that I care about. I screw up all my relationships, I never say what I want to, and nobody thinks of me the way I want them to. I want people to know me and know who I am inside, but it seems as though nobody wants to hear what's in my heart. Helping me is like taking care of a pet, you have to pay attention to it or it'll die.[/quote]

I feel the same way. I need attention and no one gives it to me. They just take the first impression and never get to know what else is inside.

[IceRose]

Well lets see my list:

1) I feel like I bring bad luck to those around me, things have happenned that were pretty big last year and all the things connected to the connection the people had with me.

2) I take it all inside until the point reaches where I just snap at everything and everyone around me and in the end I can't take back all the things I say or do, that is why I advice people not to get me angry all the time but people don't really seem to get it.

3) I get down on myself a lot, my self-steem is down most of the times but I'm working on it.

4) Everytime I like a guy I can't stand being near him, I run, and I mean it. Ask the assistant principal from my last school, she knows, she caught me running like crazy on the hallways one day but I explained to her my situation and somehow she understood.

5) I always think of others before myself, my mother says that I help other people too much and not the people I'm suppossed to be helping.

[Onazuma]

Well, one of my problems are: Im trying to beat Fire Bowser in Lethal Lava Land on the DS, but its almost impossible (I did beat him once, but then my game died cus of lack of power) :animecry: My life is all a fender bender... lol :animestun :animesmil

[fire_fly52]

I have a problem with this i am on the mock trial team and this year they are not going to call me to preform my part in the case. I have been on the team for 2 years and have been best witness. and no i am not bias i have actually won the award that said "best witness" on it. Another is i cant drive so i do not get to do a lot of things that i wish i could. As well I am sick...with something the doctor has no idea what it is, so they just put me on some univesal medicens. And most of the time i feel mentally out there.. i do not know how to explain it.

Fox makes me happy (must say somthing positive, might as well be true.)

[Minako]

[B]This is a long story, and I'll give cookies to anyone who's patient enough to read it all! Sorry for it being so long...[/B]

Well, I'm a pretty screwed up person when it comes to my social life. Let's start at the beginning. I met this guy, let's call him Joe. You see, Joe is my best friend's ex-boyfriend (they're still friends) and we went to see a play with a bunch of our friends (we have the same friends).

Me and joe got to talking and we enjoyed eachother's company. The next day we talked for 4 hours online, and we talked everyday after that for the next 2 weeks and we became really good friends.

Things were going really well, and we'd hang out whenever we could. Eventually (it was a thursday) he told me that he was falling in love with me. I thought it was great! I'd never had a boyfriend before, and this is getting really close! then I brought up the subject of whether or not we were actually dating (bf/gf). He then said he was on the fence on whether or not he wanted a relationship. I said I'd wait as long as he needed....

I didn't.

After a long month of waiting, I got impatient and I pushed him too hard and he decided that he didn't want a relationship now. it broke my heart, but it was my fault that I pushed him.

We're still friends, and whenever we bring up that conversation, it's really ugly. Either one or both of us ends up feeling bad, and to make matters worse, whenever I hang out with him, my heart breaks even more because I still love him. I know I shouldn't, but it didn't help matters when he said that he still has feelings for me, but he doesn't want a relationship.

*sigh* I'm just a hopeless romantic.

[EVA Unit 100]

[quote name='? Nomad Tical ?']My problem is that I want someone to be close to me but I continually forsake all that I care about. I screw up all my relationships, I never say what I want to, and nobody thinks of me the way I want them to. I want people to know me and know who I am inside, but it seems as though nobody wants to hear what's in my heart. Helping me is like taking care of a pet, you have to pay attention to it or it'll die.[/quote]

I feel the same way at times... Maybe we could try to understand each other? :animeswea

Anyway, my worst problem is actually people trying to say things "aren't my fault" and are because of the fact I have Asperger's Syndrome. Well, if things aren't my fault, then how they hell am I supposed to fix them? It's really annoying.

[Guest kuroinuyoukai]

I have a girl who has done some nasty things to me in the past stalking me. She is gay and wants my companionship. She sits outside my house for hours, sends me letters which I don't reply to, and calls hanging up on me. I can't go to the police because she has never really threatened me yet. We used to be friends until she pushed herself onto me. She is also sending pics of me when I mooned her as a joke and she took a pic. She is mailing them to my neighbors and family. Anybody in my old address book. That seems to be my only problem right now. :animesigh

[Stark]

I also have issues with relationships with people; it seems like people love me or hate me at times. Then again, that perception could be only within myself, because I have a lot of misconceptions about life.

To put it bluntly, it often feels like I'm lacking some vital part of a puzzle that everyone else seems to have. I don't have the closeness or the capacity for the closeness that my peers have, and that has really put a damper on my life in High School. No real close friends, save a couple of boys, and it took me over a month to come to terms everything when one of them told me that they love me. Physical contact....let's just say that I freeze when he makes a move to hug me, and that I've never kissed my parents good night. It makes life tricky, because I have a very touchy-feely family

EVA Unit 100, I can relate to you on a level. I've been told that I have some tendencies toward Asperger's Syndrome. Just some tendencies, mind you. It's not the real deal.

I blame my lack of understanding on my youth and lack of experiece, but the fact remains that I don't always grasp the subtlties of jokes, and that I have emotional outbursts for reasons that I don't understand. I'll sum it up, say that I've been diagnosed a trio of odd psychological disorders, call them 'just my issues', and leave it at that.

[shinji172]

[QUOTE]Anyway, my worst problem is actually people trying to say things "aren't my fault" and are because of the fact I have Asperger's Syndrome. Well, if things aren't my fault, then how they hell am I supposed to fix them? It's really annoying.[/QUOTE]

I know exactly what you mean. I also have aspergers and at times, it feels like no one reallytrusts my abilities (mostly teachers). For example, in the chemistry A level, the exam board has predicted me a D. However, one of my teachers has predicted that I will get a U (failure) :animestun .

What I find worse is when someone addresses any of my failings (e.g. [B]one[/B] poor practice test mark) as being due to my "special needs". For some reason it makes me feel retarded (especially scince i get high grades overall :( )

I also hate it when, in class, they describe processes repeatedly simply because i have aspergers syndrome (despite me showing clear understanding the first time they explained it :animeangr .Ah well...At least my family/friends dont treat me differently.

[EVA Unit 100]

[QUOTE=shinji172]I know exactly what you mean. I also have aspergers and at times, it feels like no one reallytrusts my abilities (mostly teachers). For example, in the chemistry A level, the exam board has predicted me a D. However, one of my teachers has predicted that I will get a U (failure) :animestun .

What I find worse is when someone addresses any of my failings (e.g. [B]one[/B] poor practice test mark) as being due to my "special needs". For some reason it makes me feel retarded (especially scince i get high grades overall :( )

I also hate it when, in class, they describe processes repeatedly simply because i have aspergers syndrome (despite me showing clear understanding the first time they explained it :animeangr .Ah well...At least my family/friends dont treat me differently.[/QUOTE]

Wow, I didn't know it was possible to get a U... :animestun

I just realized how lucky I am and that my teachers at least understand that AS doesn't mean I'm retarted. Now if they could only figure out that the criteria for diagnosis AS is so vague that it's almost impossible for one person to have all of the symptoms without having some form of multiple personality disorder so they could stop making (admitedly plausable) presumptions...

[shinji172]

[QUOTE]Wow, I didn't know it was possible to get a U...[/QUOTE]

Anything below an E grade is classed as "Ungraded" or U over here (United kingdom). Also, its only a couple of teachers that are like that to me. I should have pointed that out (sorry:animeswea) .

Back on topic, There are currently two little thinsg that are bothering me at the moment. The first one being exams. My biggest problem is coping with the time given to plan an answer(especially in an english exam). By the time youre done reading the source material, the planing time is up, leaving you no time to hilight key sections, plan out the answer (and so on). I guess everyone has to deal with that though :animesigh.

The other one is just something thats (for lack of better description) bugging me. A guy at school whom ive known for a while has recently hugging me. Hes also danced on my desk (in a seedy way)while i was sitting there .He also tried to kiss me once.

Im almost certain hes not homosexual because...
1. From what i know no one acts like that to someone they are were attracted to (in an attempt to get to know them)
2. If he was gay, surely he would "come out of the closet" in a more discreat way. I dont think I need to go into why.

Does anyone have any idea about what i should do about that?

[Guest Mythology]

My only problem is gang violence haveing known many people who now have a fabolus home (six feet under) or in jail for stupid stuff but the fact is i try to stay out of gangs but my whole life I've been surrounded by gangs and people in them i mean i just got my life togather but its hard to try and stop gangs by your self.

Send help please!!

[QuincyArcher]

Well, currently im stationed at Ft. Benning in Georgia with the 1/507th airborne infantry undergoing jump school. and what my problem is, is that im on the verge of failing out of the class, i guess i slacked off a bit too much while i was on leave for the holidays and i failed my PT (physical training) test last week and if i don't get my act together by tuesday, im out of the airborne for good, which really sucks because being able to become a paratrooper was my dream.

I've been busting my *** everyday since working out and my entire body is killing me now, so im gonna take it easy this weekend, wish me luck come tuesday...

[Lozer and Proud]

[FONT=COURIER NEW]I think one of my main problems is probably that of any other teenager these days, it's that no one seems to understand me and it seems like everyone is quick to judge.

I grew up with only brothers and spend alot of time with several friends who listen to only hip hop or r&b music so when I attempt to branch out from the ordinary and start listening to bands like My Chemical Romance or Coheed and Cambria they think I'm suicidal and/or depressed. I personally do not understand how people can gain such an impression just by the music I like but, yeah. I guess that's my only problem.

They sometimes ask me (and I quote from a friend of my brother's) "[I]I don't see how you can grow up with them, *motions towards older brother* and listen to that.[/I]"[/FONT]