Linkk Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Well, I have this delema kind of. I was just wondering. See one of my dear precious friends is well, I'm really very worried about them. I don't know if I should tell them this as they might get angry. And I don't want them to be angry at me and stop being my friend. I care about my friends as a good friend should. However, I don't know if telling them how I feel about what they've gotten into is good. Still if something ever happened to them I'd regret it forever and blame myself. I'll always think ...what if I just told them how I felt? On the other hand if I do and they get mad at me and start hating me I'll regret that too! I'm just worried and don't want anything bad to happene to them. I don't know what to do or if I'll say anything. I'm just really worried about this friend. :animedepr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adahn Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 [font=Verdana][size=2]If you're looking for help, then it might be a good idea to tell us just exactly what your friend has gotten into. Without that information, we can't provide our own opinions on the matter, and we can't present any factual information to support or deny the severity of the situation.[/size][/font] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Random Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 [COLOR=Indigo][SIZE=1]Linkk, speaking from experience, I'm sure that this friend will be able to handle whatever it is you plan on throwing at him/her. You have a natural way to getting to people, and I'm sure that your friend will listen, no matter what you have to say...now, about what happened, one can only guess, but if it's about what I think, don't worry about it. People make decisions, after all. And, if you really are worried about them, go and tell them that...no matter how much they don't want to hear it. As a friend, that's part of your "job," per say. So, my advice to you is to follow your heart, and do what you feel is right...you know what I mean. ~_^ -Random[/SIZE][/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linkk Posted January 27, 2006 Author Share Posted January 27, 2006 [QUOTE=Random][COLOR=Indigo][SIZE=1]Linkk, speaking from experience, I'm sure that this friend will be able to handle whatever it is you plan on throwing at him/her. You have a natural way to getting to people, and I'm sure that your friend will listen, no matter what you have to say...now, about what happened, one can only guess, but if it's about what I think, don't worry about it. People make decisions, after all. And, if you really are worried about them, go and tell them that...no matter how much they don't want to hear it. As a friend, that's part of your "job," per say. So, my advice to you is to follow your heart, and do what you feel is right...you know what I mean. ~_^ -Random[/SIZE][/COLOR][/QUOTE] Thanks for the advice. I know if it were any of my friends and they were worried or concered or whatever about me...they'd say so. LOL! They do all the time! I know what I should do I think. I never though I had a natural way of getting people to listen to me..you think so? Thanks. It means a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gavin Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 [SIZE=1]Interesting, most interesting. Well personally I think you should just tell your friend that you're concerned about them, if any friend of mine had the same concerns I'd be very happy that they cared enough to bring it to my attention. Even if they're unhappy about it in the beginning, they'll soon see you just had their own best interests at heart and consider you a better friend for it. Ah it seems the title question has already been answered...[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linkk Posted February 2, 2006 Author Share Posted February 2, 2006 Thank you all for the awesome advice. I told my friend. They say they aren't mad. Still Was it the best thing to do? We'll I though so So that's that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForgottenRaider Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Redundant, most redundant. Linkk I'm honestly very impressed...In just over two hundred and fifty words and three posts you've kept a thread going and finalised it without giving the posters any small hint to what they are posting about. I've never seen any one pull that off before. Kudos! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Random Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 Not true...she did hint on it, but, then again....she's my friend in the "real, non-internet" world...as in we work(ed) together...I just posted to keep the thread alive, and to make her feel better...anyways, I can say that the things the people have said have helped her out, and she, and I, are greatful. Thx ~Ex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linkk Posted February 6, 2006 Author Share Posted February 6, 2006 [QUOTE=ForgottenRaider]Redundant, most redundant. Linkk I'm honestly very impressed...In just over two hundred and fifty words and three posts you've kept a thread going and finalised it without giving the posters any small hint to what they are posting about. I've never seen any one pull that off before. Kudos! :)[/QUOTE] Thank You :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatanaViolet Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 Sometimes the best thing a person needs is the cold, hard, truth. But I guess you did, so good for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linkk Posted February 10, 2006 Author Share Posted February 10, 2006 Thank You, I know and I feel better that I talked to my friend. Wether they listen or not ( I know they do) But whatever my friend does they know I'm there for them and how I feel. So I feel better for having talked to them instead of just worrying myself sick. I mean I can still be worried but I know I've done what I can. That makes me feel better if only a little. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatanaViolet Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 Your absolutely right. You have done what you could to let them know how you feel, whatever the issue is. The rest, of course, is up to them. I hope things work out the best for you and your friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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