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Hello. Has anyone noticed that guys who are usally good looking or in the "popular" cilque will be attracted to you and want to go out, when you aknowlege it back, he will be stuck up and barely talk to you. On the other hand, you find a nerdy guy who likes you and if you two go out he will be the best thing ever? That messes with my mind. I only date the unpopular guys, but it isn't bad. The hot guy is breaking up with someone every week. I always end up in very very long relationships. Anyone have something like that happen before? ;)

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[size=1]Look, if you're confused about guys, don't even get me started on girls... You don't know the half -- hell, you don't know the third.

Good-looking guys can be choosy because, well, they have a wider ranger of woman that would consider going out with them. Nerdy guys, on the otherhand, would usually settle for less than a really popular guy. It's logical, really. I suppose the man's just playing the field, but he sounds like he's being a jerk about it too. Heh.[/size]
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[color=crimson]I'd have to say that both genders can confuse each other quite easily when circumstances, misunderstandings and otherwise all convene into one grand mass of chaos. Fun, eh.

Anyway, yeah. Social things in general are weird most of the time. I'm pretty sure the guy you are specifically talking about is an ***, though.[/color]
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[COLOR=DarkRed][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Don't get me wrong I'm a girl and not a lesbiane but girls are definately more complicated than the guys like what Retribution said. There's the mood swings and all the different types (Tomboy, Punk, Goth etc.) but in the end they're all girls and they're all guys. :animeswea But when it comes to romance it all seems pretty pointless to me. :catgirl: I've never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend but I really don't want one ... also I don't think I'll be able to get one because I'm too weird but meh I don't care because it's all pointless to me.[/FONT][/COLOR] :catgirl:
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[QUOTE=DeathKnight][color=crimson]I'd have to say that both genders can confuse each other quite easily when circumstances, misunderstandings and otherwise all convene into one grand mass of chaos. Fun, eh.

Anyway, yeah. Social things in general are weird most of the time. I'm pretty sure the guy you are specifically talking about is an ***, though.[/color][/QUOTE]

I agree with DeathKnight. Both genders can confuse each other, but it all depends on the preson though.
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[font=Verdana][size=2][size=1]actually i think its fun[/size] [size=1]when we end uo confusing each other. it makes things all the more interesting. although, being a girl , i am difficult to comprehend its really notthat hard! guys are actually quite simple to understand!!!*sighs*:animesigh he is such a heartbreaker...LMAO!!! [/size][/size][/font]
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I just like scratching, sports, and sex. If you find that complicated then perhaps you shouldn't become a psychiatrist any time soon.

By the way, women date obnoxious jerks until they mature and ultimately marry the successful intellectual (who ends up being the obnoxious jerk's boss).
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There are men out there who will do things like that, i.e. find a new girl every week, and of course the nerds who will hang in there to the bitter end. But regardless of that, it's entirely up to the person. Regardless of the crowd they run with, a stuck person would be just as stuck up if they were a nerd, and a nerd would be just as kind as if he were in the "popular" cilque.

I'm a mice guy through and through personally. I'm not too popular, but I'm not exactly a nerd either. I'm about where you want to be. As such, I believe your high school status has much effect on your personality or your relationship status either.
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  • 3 weeks later...
Guys are only confusing when it comes to dating, nothing more. I have been friends with guys since I was born, amongst my best friends there are probably in a ratio of 3:1 compared to girls. As a girl, I can tell you that some girls are confusing, others are not, I'm not confusing, at least I don't think I am
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[size=1]Personally, I think girls are too much drama. Spoken by a girl, no less. :animeswea

I mean, girls make big deals out of their relationship. At school, I'm constantly hearing about [b][i]so and so's[/b][/i] relationship. And I could care less.

True, boys are confusing. But if a girl was to be put in a guy's shoe, I would feel pretty bad. A majority of girls ask for so much out of a relationship. True, some guys don't even do anything, but the ones that actually try sometimes don't get accounted for.

I think it's rare when there are actually guys that care until the end and girls who aren't making a fuss and so dramatic over everything.

That's what I've concluded from what I've seen.[/size]
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everyday....though i wish the hot guy would ask me out. cuz even the nerdy one, who turn out to be not so nerdy are always taken!!! yea i got severe issues in getting a guy:animecry: ,. just to cry about it.......plus not like the hot guy i like will ever notice me. his group hates my friends. stupid treasons i guess :rolleyes:
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[quote name='nekojohn']most girls i know just think of me asa friend anyways ,im always the friend so please expalin that and ill explain guys but im a one of a kind guy :animesigh[/quote]

Yeah. I'm in love with a girl who only sees me as a friend. I am not a guy who changes his mind about who he likes every week. I would be loyal and always be there. But its always the nice guys who will finish last. We never get a chance. :animecry:
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[color=blue][size=1]Both genders confuse each other. It's how it is, unfortunately.

I grew up living on a farm, surrounded by men most of my life (father, workers, grandfathers). So naturally, I was a downright tomboy until I hit 18, and could understand a guy's way of thinking sometimes much better than a girl's at times when I was younger (actually I still do. XD). I didn't see the point with all the fuss girls were making about boys, make-up, clothes, etc. Sometimes I still don't.[/color][/size]
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[quote name='Skeith92']Yeah. I'm in love with a girl who only sees me as a friend. I am not a guy who changes his mind about who he likes every week. I would be loyal and always be there. But its always the nice guys who will finish last. We never get a chance. :animecry:[/quote]

[size=1]Always the friend, never the boyfriend.

One of my closest friends told me that we can't be friends anymore. He said that because I never saw him more than a friend, it kept hurting him more and more as he saw me becoming friends with other people.

I was really saddened even moreso when he applied to another school so he wouldn't have to be around me all the time.

I never see him anymore. I think that is exactly what he wanted.

To think, I drove someone away. I never actually thought of myself as that type of person because I've only liked one person, and when I say that, I mean truly liked one person. But we're just friends and I'm happy as that. And the thing is, I've never talked about liking anyone to people.[/size]
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[QUOTE]But its always the nice guys who will finish last. We never get a chance. [/QUOTE]

Dude, speak for yourself. I'm nice too. I got a frickin amazing girl. Just hang in there and if you know you can't be more than friends, move on. But it'll happen eventually. Just make sure the girls don't like you because you can support the kid they had with the other guy. ;) Nice guys of the world, hang in there.
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It seems you all have not veiwed it in the perspective that we man or women are human.nether is more or less complecated.your leenings to one sides I believe is based on what gender you are.men or woman can seem complecated at time but what isint these days.Why I now this you ask.all the girls I hang out are all lesbows makeing there view on ether or gender very diffrent.anyway all an all man or women are same.

hope that didnt sound to stariotipical or rude if it did my greatest apalogies. :animesigh
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