My luck is absolutely horrid. Especially with women.

[Guest Kaise]

Well, it's like this.

During first semester lunch, i met Catie. She's really cute, and just as insane as i am.

During the second day i met her, she said she was moving. That, and the shirt she wore said like "Oh we'll miss you" etc. I was pretty...welll...

I did darth no, right there, in the lunchroom.

Well, cut to second semester.

Now, our school is being rebuilt. During the auditorium part, they had a game where whoever guessed the closest to how much steel it would take to make it, would win some tickets to something.

Catie was on the television. She was a finalist.

I need to locate her. I don't know much other than what she looks like and her name is Catie. That's IT. Any advice?

Her friends that i know of are hard to track down too, BTW.

[Retribution]

[size=1]Er, let it go is all the advice I can really offer you.

I like the transfer student from Tajikistan. [i]Tajikistan.[/i] She's gone in a few months, and I still haven't gotten to know her all that well. I'm pretty much going to let it go after this year -- it'll be hard, especially since it feels a little more like love, rather than lust or infatuation.

Really, you can't find someone on a first name and a look unless you work for the CIA. I'd advise taking the hurt and eventually getting over her.[/size]

[Guest Kaise]

See, that advice is one i can't take. Suicide is always an option, but i'd get banned probably for suggesting it to someone who has a problem. So, it's like that.

Oh, well, she's still in the school. You don't wear a "goodbye" shirt TWO WEEKS before you move.

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[duStAnDteArS]

my advice track down her friends.. i don't think you should stop looking for her i mean what if she wasn't moving that far. even though the T-shirt kinda would mean that she would be moving though. i am sure you'll find her don't give up. i no my post is late... oh well..

[Guest Otaku BombShell]

[COLOR=RoyalBlue][FONT=Tahoma]Alright I know I am girl but hey that means I can give you advise from the other side right? Personally I dont think you should spend all your time looking for her. I mean what if you find her and you two dont get along at all? Then you waisted time that you could have found someone else who you really like. You only knew her for one day too right, whats to say she would return your feelings? [/FONT][/COLOR]

[Farto the Magic]

Yes. dustandtears had good advice. Track down her friends, or at least someone who has her AIM. Oh and dude? Cosidering suicide over the loss of someone you knew for a day is just stupid. If you can't find her, move on.

[IceRose]

Oh man, only met her for a day and you are desperatly looking for her. Are you in love? That might be it, maybe your sould clicked, now I sound like Yayoi from Pretear. Well if you can't find her in a matter of a week, move on. Why make yourself so anxious over a one day thing? Anyways, yeah, don't stress, if you are meant to find her you will.

[2010DigitalBoy]

Aren't you the guy ho wanted to run away? Man, you really take stuff to the extreme, eh? Two days, wow. Anyway, I'd say by all menas, chase her, if movies have tought me anything its that you gotta follow your heart,

[Sayuri-sama]

you think your luck with girls is bad???? you should see my luck with guys!! i swear dont even let me go there!!! dude if you dont go searching for love , love will find you. trust me im still waiting!! love must ahve gotten lost.....

[Burori]

Okay let's be frank. (and not the oh HI frank type)

First off how old are you. Seriously if you are within the 10-16 year old marker I suggest to don't go looking for girls. Enjoy your damn childhood then when you reach the 17-18 ish mark go hunting but seriously enjoy it. You only have so much time to.

Now if you aren't in the above age limit I really think you should give up on her. Cause if she didn"t bother giving you any info on where she was going or phone number or nothing then it won't be worth the heart ache.

[Sayuri-sama]

dude also you are talking about someone you vaguely know. i think you need to get over it! i swear! i chased every guy i feel for i would be wanted all over the country!!!:rolleyes: trust me , you'll find another! :p

okay dude honestly i think you need to get over her. this is just someone you vaguely know! i mean seriously if i chased every guy i ever fell for i would be wanted all over the country!!:rolleyes: just get over it! you find someone else...;)

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[Broken scarab]

sorry i havent introduced myself, but my luck with women is usualy terrible too, but if you have such an infatuation with her...then see if you can find any one that knows her, otherwise, move on
(and double posting got me banned from several forums, so I think Swedish chef has a point!)

[Ellerby]

[color=#333333]Ugh. I am so sick of this kind of stuff.

Honestly? Get over it. You just met this girl, and the only thing you know about her is that her name is Catie, she is kind of cute and she is moving soon. You think that is good enough reason to look her up?

For the love of god get yourself together! There are billions of other cute girls with the name Catie out there. I'm sure you can find one to your liking in the next 50 years. If not, you'll just have to settle for Caitlin or something.

Seriously, suicide is not an option in this type of situation. I could understand you think so if you guys were going out for an extended amount of time but that's not the case. So, don't even think about it.

And I have a bone to pick with you, Retri (regarding your post here). But I'll leave that to MSN. :)[/COLOR]

[Ryo the Tactician]

[SIZE=1]The friend option is definetly the best, I believe at this point. Of course she's going to still have some girlfriends at that school, and with AIM/MSN and the wonders of the internet, you could at least get in contact with her. Let things go where they will from there. And don't foget to chill out a bit...suicide..c'mon, really.

Poor Retri, that does suck. Girls...can't live with them, can't seem to live without them. Eh..^_^

~RtT[/SIZE]

[Guest Kaise]

See, the thing is, finding a girl in my town is like fishing in the toilet:Odds are, you're not going to find any fish. I have bad luck with women, so why not chase after the only lead i have? I don't enjoy life as it is, so might as well. I only know 2 of her friends...sort of..(one might be a friend of a friend) and i don't know the one actual friend's name, Well, the oen who might not be a friend i tried to talk to, but as i opened my mouth after saying hi, she ran off to some other friend. Not that useful.

But on the bright side, i learned my friend has second period with her, so that could be useful.

And i never meant i was planning suicide, but i was just using it as an example. Going after a fly with a rocket launcher. My dad says that for every time i get angry at a game, i'm supposed to throw it out. Will that help the problem? Yes, but it will cause much much more problemes than before.

[celestialcharm]

[COLOR=DarkOrchid][QUOTE=Retribution][size=1]
Really, you can't find someone on a first name and a look unless you work for the CIA. I'd advise taking the hurt and eventually getting over her.[/size][/QUOTE]

Actually, I saw something on TV, that a man found this girl that he really liked. She was from Belgium I think, and he only knew her first name. He made about 50 000 to Belgium to people with her name, or describe how she looked, and eventually he found her.

But... then again... Catie is a really popular name...

If she was on TV, couldn't you go to the stations website to find her full name?

Anyhoo, my friend was in a simular situation. She met this really cute guy when she was camping. She only knew his first name, when she left she ended up crying her eyes out in the car, etc. Basically, I'm saying next time you meet someone you really like, get their number, exchanged e-mail addresses or something.[/COLOR]

[Guest Kaise]

[QUOTE=celestialcharm][COLOR=DarkOrchid]

Actually, I saw something on TV, that a man found this girl that he really liked. She was from Belgium I think, and he only knew her first name. He made about 50 000 to Belgium to people with her name, or describe how she looked, and eventually he found her.

But... then again... Catie is a really popular name...

If she was on TV, couldn't you go to the stations website to find her full name?

Anyhoo, my friend was in a simular situation. She met this really cute guy when she was camping. She only knew his first name, when she left she ended up crying her eyes out in the car, etc. Basically, I'm saying next time you meet someone you really like, get their number, exchanged e-mail addresses or something.[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

I don't think Catie is a real popular name, Katie is, or Caitlin, but she's the only Catie i know. She was on the SCHOOL TV. Like, announcements and stuff.

And yes, i'm planning on doing that next time i see her.

[Broken scarab]

well, dont make things too hard for yourself!

[Japan]

[COLOR=DarkRed]Tip #1: You may never see this girl again, you may, but there is a 1% chance of that.

Tip #2: If you are a teen, it'd be a waste of time to chase after her. You have more important things to worry about this this: school, family, etc.

Tip #3: Move on, dear. There will be many chances for you to get a girl.[/COLOR]

[Ikillion]

[QUOTE=Ryli][COLOR=DarkRed]Tip #1: You may never see this girl again, you may, but there is a 1% chance of that.

Tip #2: If you are a teen, it'd be a waste of time to chase after her. You have more important things to worry about this this: school, family, etc.

Tip #3: Move on, dear. There will be many chances for you to get a girl.[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

[COLOR=DarkSlateGray][SIZE=1][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Quoted for truth.

Your still in school for one and you are already limiting yourself to one person when there are atleast one billion (more or less I don't really know) other females out there. Why limit yourself now when five years from now you may find the perfect match for you and hate yourself for being in a relatingship that you already are starting to lothe?

My words, give up on her there are more fish out in the sea.[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR]

[Guest LampLighter]

[quote name='Kaise']I don't enjoy life as it is, so might as well.[/quote][size=1]'Mkay ... priorities. Let's talk about those shall we?

You don't enjoy life, you say. Obviously there is some thing, or some [i]things[/i], in life you are not doing right. Making sure that your are happy and that you know where you are going is your top priority. Build a good relationship with yourself before you decide to go chase a ghost.

You are 16-years-old. Plenty young. My advice to you is to take a step back and take a look at what you are doing. Then think about what you ultimately want in the distant future. Is chasing this girl - who barely knows you exist, if remembers you at all - going to get you where you want to go? Chances are ridiculously slim. I can't even stress enough how it is not worth it.

While I said that you are still pretty young, you are at a pretty crucial point in your life. You need to start making decisions about where you want to go and how you want to live. Get yourself a dream. Too few people today really have one, or if they do they have the "Oh, it's just a dream, nothing else" attitude, and they wonder why it never happened. Your dream should ultimately be a goal. Something you will achieve, not just think about.

You are where you are today based off decisions you have made in the past. However, your past doesn't determine your future. Draw a line in the sand and tell yourself, "From now on, things will be different," and take the necessary changes to get yourself where you want to go.

With great ambition and a positive mental attitude, you'll find that you won't need to chase women, the right ones will naturally be attracted to you. Eventually you will find one who shares your dreams and will lock arms with you.


I'm 20 years old. I can pretty much say that when I was your age, I was in your shoes. I still didn't make the best decisions, and now that has me playing "catch-up." It's not a lot of fun, but it's a necessity. I wouldn't really wish it on anyone. So dig your well before you need the water.[/size]

[Sui Generis]

[font=georgia][color=indigo] Before I go any further just apply LampLigther's whole entire post to mine.


Second off. Ya know I hate to be a pessimist, but dude, you knew her for a day or two. Sure she came off to be crazy like you, and she came off to be cool, but I think you are taking things WAY out of proportion. You don't know the girl, at all. Its impossible to know someone for a month and truly [b]know[/b] them, let alone a day or two.

Don't get me wrong, I'm all for the hopeless romantic stuff. Its all good, and its great when it works out, but usually theres atleast some knowledge of the person. Relationships based on whims are doomed for disaster after a month or two.

Also, you're whole T-Shirt point of view. Dude...its a t-shirt. People wear shirts. Thats all I'm gonna say there. So it may say "We will miss you" or whatever, doesn' tmatter...its a T-shirt, don't read so much into it.


Now, with that being said if you really are thinking about chasing this girl theres a couple easy ways. First off, yeah use the friend connection. Her friend skipped off the another friend last time you tried to talk, so what? Ball up and go talk to the girl again, its not that hard, you've done it once you can do it again. Another great way to find her last name, is something called a year book. Its a great new invention that lets you know people's last name that went to your school for any period of time. EVEN if that doesn't work you can always go to the person in charge of your TV accouncements and ask them.

If you think about it, there are sooo many ways you could find out so stop panicing and just relax dude. I'm still gonna say you're reading way to much into a one day friendship, but thats just me.

Good luck.
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[Guest Harkua]

It is your choice to find her. If you really care about her, you should try. But chances are you may see her agian. Good Luck.

[hey_love]

[quote name='Kaise']See, the thing is, finding a girl in my town is like fishing in the toilet:Odds are, you're not going to find any fish.[/quote]

[size=1]Well then, why not be patient and wait until you are old enough to get out of your town and find and meet new people? Being pessimistic and staying in one spot, no wonder you'll never find another girl. I mean, what is love during the teenage years? Nothing. It's not going to be the end of the world if you don't talk to someone that you barely even talk to in the first place. Well, I am assuming you barely talked to her if you only know her first name.

I suggest you just rough it out and try to stop playing the life-as-a-teenager-sucks card, because that will definatly get you no where.

Out there are other fish, you just need to leap out of your pond and start swimming in the ocean one day.[/size]

[Tyler Koregaten]

Well, I'm afraid I don't have that kind of bad luck with women (as I'm getting married SATURDAY!!!!) But I can share something. If it makes you feel better, I'm in Her Royal Majesty, the Queen of the Kingdom of Denmark's Military (Danish military for short) and have access to files such as that of people.

I have access to these files (Since I was promoted to Brigadier General!) , BUT she would have to move to Denmark, Greenland, or the Faeore Islands first
:animeswea

Maybe I could talk to somebody in the American government.. But most likely not :animeswea So don't get your hopes up.



~ Tyler