demon slayer 5 Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Theres a girl who is really cute and i am quite attracted towards her :animestun . The only problem is that i cant seem to tell her how i feel about her :animeshy: please anybody who had the similar experience and have gone through it help ? I forgot to mention that she doesnt even know i exist :animedepr [b][font=Trebuchet MS][color=DarkGreen]demon slayer 5, [/color][/font][/b][font=Trebuchet MS][color=DarkGreen]double posting is against the rules of OtakuBoards, so I've merged together your two consecutive posts. In future, if you want to add something but nobody else has yet posted, there's an EDIT button in your post's bottom right corner especially for that. [/color][/font] [right][b][font=Trebuchet MS][color=DarkGreen]-Raiyuu[/color][/font][/b] [/right] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Mother Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 [SIZE=1]Well, you have to get to know her first. So introduce yourself to her. It's not that hard, just be confident, smile, and find a reason to talk to her. If you can't, just say "Hi" in the hallway or something.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatanaViolet Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Don't be so shy! Have a little bit of confidence! You don't need to try too hard, just start little, by saying hi or cracking a joke when your around her. If you don't believe in yourself then she's not going to notice you. Girls like confidence.. although, you should avoid being cocky. I'm sure if you just try talking to her rather than being shy your off to a much better start! That's just my reasoning. She won't be able to acknowledge you if you don't put yourself out there a little bit. I hope it helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Al-araaf Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Try noticing a common intrest you both share. Note you like the samething and talk about it. Soon you will become friends, and hopefully more. Thats how it worked for me, and ive been with her for almost a year now. And do the confidence stuff, that helped too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sayuri-sama Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 well in the case that you do know her a little bit well, have you tried expressing your feelings to her through music or art?? there is this guy in my art class that sings to girl next to him, and when ever he does it all of us girls in the table simply droool!!! trust me girls love it when you can sing or play an instrument!!!!:animeshy::animesmil Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2010DigitalBoy Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 It's all about confidence and carisma. You gotta make it obvious you like her without actually saying so. Least that's what I think... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 [font=georgia][color=indigo] The most important thing to remember is that "Actions speak louder than words." Its a very cliche' saying, but you can say every romantic pick up line in the book, but if you can't follow through then you're gonna go no where. Every person is different, so theres always a different way to tell them. Sometimes the best way to tell them is just tell them to their face, I doubt that any person really minds when people say "Hey I like you" But yeah the best bet is just be yourself, and act how you normally do. If you like her, don't be afraid to tell her. You have to know that you've got a long life, so if worst comes to worst, you'll have to just be friends. (Of course if you really like her, just being friends should be better than nothing; so its never a lose situation)[/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForgottenRaider Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 RTFM :) ...wait, females don't provide those. Bugger. Just get to know the person, find friends around them you can relate with to get closer, take your time, and learn how to move through life without asking every simple basic question on forums! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starwind Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I've always tried to be forward and out right with my emotions. It's hard, because the very idea makes people feel uncertain and self concious. Sometimes you've got to just bite the bullet and come straight out. If she doesn't know your there then try sparking a simple conversation. You don't have to go to one knee on the first word, just take what you know about her and talk to her on a simple, easy going level. Don't panic, and don't hyper ventilate over this. Just come to her and start out nice and slow. After you become a little more comfortable, then worry about coming out and telling her your interested. It's gonna feel like your dieing while ou do it, but once you do, it's easy from there on out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest D. Resurrected Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 Funny I went through the same problem wonce.any what I founld that work the best is get to know her and if you can try to be friends with her.hey it worked for me.the reasoningbehind this is because if you come onto her to fast shell become overburdend.but if you exprece yourself in a totaly platonic way she will feel more comfortible.anyway I hope it works out for you. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsukineko Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 Just take it easy and slow. Maybe try and give her a ntoe about maybe being friends or try to express your feeligns a bit. If you want you can also just talk to her face to face. Someone else might like her and you will just hate yourself if she ends up with somebody else. Girls like it when guys are nice and honest. I wish you the best of luck! ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panache Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 [quote name='Sayuri-sama']well in the case that you do know her a little bit well, have you tried expressing your feelings to her through music or art?? there is this guy in my art class that sings to girl next to him, and when ever he does it all of us girls in the table simply droool!!! trust me girls love it when you can sing or play an instrument!!!!:animeshy::animesmil[/quote] WTF no don't do that!!!!!!!!!!!! That is the worst possible thing you can do!!!!! Ok here's what you do. Ok 1st of all find a way to introduce your self. Now that she knows you exist examine her personality to see if she is really your type. Now it gets tricky you have to figure out if she likes you or not. You can do it the sneaky way and ask her freind and stuff ir you can be blunt and ask her directly. If you've known her a long time and you have a great realtionship and you don;t want to risk that try the sneaky route so you can at least be freinds even if she doesnt like you. The later use at your own descresion usally when she throws you signs like spending ALOT of time with you like your her no.1 peep or calling you handsome or feeling comfortable enough to tease you (not insult you theres a difference) and this is guide for male and female interaction. But disregard all I said if she's a total ***** and insults you on the spot (us otaku have thatr effect on pretty ladies sometimes). Oh and btw most importantly of all DONT LISTEN TO YOUR GUY FRIENDS WHO ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A LWWAUGH OR ANY OF HER FREINDS WHO ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOIR A LAUGH. You will be screwed if you do. There is avengeds guide to women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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