I Need Advice

[DNAngel360]

Well i have two things i need advice in
1.My friend ran away from home we have been looking for her since 2/22/06 6:00 pm it's been four days since she's run away her name is jazmine she's been gone and we've looked for her everywhere i am worried something might have happened to her when she ran away and on friday at school everyone who new her was brought to the school office and questioned it seems that nobody really cares except for her mother and me and emma

2.the other thing i need advice in is that well my friend emma she has a boyfriend in eighth grade and well she is afraid of him going to highschool cause then they will be seperated she is in 7th grade and when she goes into eighth he will be in 9th she is just scared and worried of that one year they'll be apart what should she do i need advice i am going crazy with my friends saying that i give good advice i mean these questions they've given me are hard to answer please help

[hey_love]

[size=1]Well, I'm sorry about your friend who ran away. There isn't much a person can do when someone's run away but to wait patiently and welcome them back with open arms whenever they return. There must've been a reason that drove her to run away, even moreso from you saying that no one really cared that she was gone. Just wish that she comes home soon, and who knows, one day, you'll probably see her again.

As for your other friend and her boyfriend, I suggest you stay out of the drama. It really isn't worth it. If they were really serious about each other, going to different schools, in the same town/city? no less, or just going to different schools period should not be a conflict between their relationship. They should be able to rough it out and just hang out afterschool/on weekends. Real boyfriend/girlfriends see eachother outside of school. Most middle school relationships do not consist of any out-of-school interaction, so I've seen. I'm glad I'm in high school this year because the fake, silly relationships are over.

They won't be apart the whole year. It's okay. [/size]

[DNAngel360]

:animesigh thanx soo much that is good advice i just wish that my friend would hurry up and come home

[Starwind]

I'm in token to agree here, if she hasn't come to anyone yet, then all you can do is wait for her to come back on her own. If she felt so pressured and upset that running away was the only choice, then she's probably going through a very hard time. When she comes home she's going to bneed you to be a true friend and stick close to her and help her get her life back together again. Things like this are hard, but if you help her then she can put things back in order. This is completely on you.

As for your other friend, again I am token to agree. Try not to get to mixed in and just offer your support. If they really have these feelings for each other, then going to seperate schools shouldn't take such a drastic toll on it. Esspecially if it's only a year and they can still see each other outside of school. I was gone for six months at BCT and had no contact at all with my GF while I was there. But when I came back we simply picked up where we left off. If they really love each other, this shouldn't be a problem.

[DNAngel360]

thanx starwind :D but i just wish that all of my friends would stop thinking that i am a guru and a know it all well i'll try and stay out of any drama i already have enough of it

[Starwind]

I've always believed that no one has the answer for another. All you can do is listen and offer some sort or comfort of suggestion. In a desperate moment where your friends turn to you for help, just tell them what you think is right and let them know that no matter what happens that you'll still be there and that it changes nothing about who they are.

It's times like those you need to show your friends how much they mean to you. Even if you can't give them an answer, just listen and do what you can to make them feel better. I've been a youth council for many years now, and I've done it long enough to know that you can never have the definite answer, just a suggestion and a kind smile. In the end, that's all it takes.

If a friend comes to you for help, then that means they trust you and they really look up to you and think highly of you. Just do your best to offer them kind support and a strong will and I'm sure they'll find the rest on there own. You just need to hold strong and let them see you standing behind them, much like I'm doing for you right now. Try hard. It's like my grand mother always says "Shoot for the moon, cause even if you miss, at least you'll land among the stars."

[DNAngel360]

:animesmil thanx i'll keep that advice in mind

Great news we found my friend who ran away she came to my house and wee called her mom now she's home and she didn't get in trouble finally relief from being worried

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