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I have one younger sister, whom I am 2 years senior.
Growing up we weren't particularly close, we didn't hate each other, we just weren't super tight. But over the years as we grew up we got closer. She was always there for me, even when I was an idiot and becoming someone I didn't want to be. Her (and my parent's and bf's) support got me through it. She would never judge me, she'll always be there for me and care about me for who I am.
My sister is one of my best friends, she's smart, she's funny, we like the same music (mostly), we dress the same, we've even been mistaken for twins before. Sadly, I'm ALWAYS mistaken for the younger one.
And now she just graduated out of high school, and I'm going into my third year of university... I went to her graduation and it was so crazy. Seeing her all grown up and coming into her own skin. I'm not gonna lie, I bawled, haha.
Soon she'll be off to university, and it's just crazy... she's my baby sister! She's not allowed to grow up!

But she's going to come and stay with me soon, so I'm excited for that! At least we'll get to hang out and stuff before she's off to school.

Yup, my sister rocks. I can honestly say I'm lucky to have a sister I'm so close with. We are like twins, just two years apart. I'm really glad I wasn't an only child.
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[COLOR=Sienna][QUOTE=Farto the Magic][FONT=Trebuchet MS][COLOR=DarkGreen]Alright, when I woke up this morning, my computer I found out that my computer had contracted tons of viruses and spent the next five hours fixing it and clearing them out. Needless to say, that sucked. Then I went to work and when I got back, I found my little brother using my laptop. The same one that I told him he could never use. The same one that I had spent hours cleaning and was still needed to be under careful observation.

I threatened his life, chewed him out, threatened him again, then asked my parents if I could carry out my threat. He responded by telling me that I put all of the viruses on my computer and if the computer crashed, it was my fault. The only good thing to come of the whole situation is the blackmail items I found in his hotmail.

In the end though, I was left wondering how his thought process works? Did he not remember me spending hours being frustrated at my computer and take that for permission to use it? Please, for the love of God, tell me if anyone else has this problem with siblings being annoying and/or stupid. If you are the annoying and/or stupid sibling, enlighten us please.

Tell me I'm not alone...[/COLOR][/FONT][/QUOTE]
This will sound a bit cheesy, but my advise, after you password protect your computer that is, enjoy it. As strange as that sounds, enjoy having a younger or older sibling that is annoying. Somewhere down the line the both of you will move on and unless your younger brother is a complete jerk you will find that on some level you actually miss them. Even more so if something were to happen and they were dead. I?m speaking from experience here.

I guess I?m just curious if your younger brother is trying to get you to pay attention to him. I know siblings are annoying, but mine (before he died) often pulled all sorts of annoying stunts just to get my attention. And once I started paying attention and doing stuff with him, we had all sorts of fun. Yeah he was still annoying, but I?d give anything to have him back in my life. [/COLOR]
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Yeah, my sibling really annoys me somtimes but other times we usually have fun together. Somtimes, my sibling breaks into my room and steals stuff but I usually get the stuff back and than find him and try to punish him. But, he somtimes gets away with stealing one of my manga books. He usaully returns it, though. My brother is currently obssesed with his pet rabbit and he talks nonstop about it.
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Yeah, I have fun with my sibs too. The other day I was in my brother's room with her and we were supposed to be cleaning it but we ended up laughing and joking around about some stuffed squirrel my brother has. It was sooooo funny! I would miss my sibs if they left but sometimes its good to have a break from them.
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[SIZE=1]I have a younger brother, he's seventeen. Born five days before my 2nd birthday. Him and I have always gotten along pretty well.

When we were younger we'd get into our own little battles here and there. He was famous for being annoying, poking and whatnot. However, since I've a lways been a tomboy we'd usually do alot together. Rideng bikes, playing cars, legos, video games. I'd beat up his friends alot too, so maybe thats where my frustration would go.[/SIZE]
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Oh the joys of having a big brother....

When we were younger we drove each other crazy. I was such a tomboy growing up I would try to do whatever he was doing...which usually resulted in me getting hurt and him into trouble for "letting" me do whatever it was that got me hurt. He would do stuff to me and I to him in return. Being only two years apart in age we really drove each other batty.

I really did love him back then since he would look out for me. On my first day of school he walked me to class. All his friends became additional big brothers. When we got older all my friends loved it since all his cute friends would hang out. :rolleyes: I never thought about his friends that way since they were like my big brothers!

As adults we are friends. He's still a bachelor and, for some strange reason, just seems to stop by for a visit during dinner time. Hmmm, you don't think this is for a free hot meal now do you? We can just hang out together and there are times when we just look at each other and break into laughter for no reason. We'll talk about our childhoods and how we managed to survive. Like the time he was chasing me around the house when I ran out the front door and slammed the screen door behind me. This, just in time for him to run through the door. He was fine...until we both got it from Dad when he came home from work. :animeangr

Hopefully all of you with sibling troubles will grow out of it and become friends like my brother and I did.
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[QUOTE=Panda]Oh the joys of having a big brother....
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Everything that Panda said applies to me as well. I too have an older brother (by 1 year, 11 months, & 10 days), and when we were kids, I was the tomboy in our neighborhood. We fought a lot and didn't even talk really until this year in high school - his junior year & my sophomore.
I guess it was when he got his liscence that we started hanging out, but now we go out for lunch, coffee, ice cream, whatever a lot, and sometimes we just drive around.
And now he's enlisted in the USAF [air force]. He lives in a year & a week. Holy crap...
He's going to be a linguist. He'll be enlisted for 20 years.
Yep. That's my story about Aleks & me.
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[FONT=Book Antiqua][COLOR=DarkOrchid]Ah siblings, sometimes we love 'em sometimes we strongly dislike 'em.

I have three older siblings (2, 5 and 7 years older than me), and I have to say that being the youngest isn't all that great. Sure, when I was younger I was a tattletail, but that was because they would make fun of me. Before I learned how to read or write, they would write messages to each other. Then when I could read and write, they found another way to tease me. And that was speaking French.

I used to be an annoying kid. You know the one who follows her older sisters, or brother around. But, that's because I looked up to them. I just wished that I was that cool. Plus, they could get me to do almost anything (still can.) My eldest sister really hated this guy. One day, she brought me to school or something and she told me to kick him in his croutch. Of course I did it, she and her friends laughed at him as they saw the grin on my face.

My siblings can be annoying sometimes. The eldest just loves to annoy me (makes fun of my teenaged angst.) It doesn't help that we share a room when she's home from school (which is alot) and she's completely done university on July 31st. My second eldest sister is just blunt. She likes to crush my dreams. When she's home, she shares my room too (I used to not even have a room until they left for school.) It sucks the most when all three of us are in one room in the summer. Now, my brother, the only boy, he's just cool. He's always so calm, and is always playing some type of Nintendo system. By living in a house full of woman (I feel sorry for him and my dad) he knows alot of stuff which can kind of be a bit strange. Once, my sister came home with a certain type of pantiliners (it smelled like lilacs) and he told her that a tv show called 'Street Cents' said that those may as well be used as tea bags because they just suck. :animestun

But, I love them! It's so nice to have people that I could talk to and tell them about anything. What I like about older siblings is that they have more experience with life than I have had. Plus, they like to buy me nice things. Random articles of clothes, food, oh yeah being the youngest rocks! ;) [/COLOR] [/FONT]
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[COLOR=Indigo]From my older brothers point of view I?m probably the annoying one but from mine, they far out do anything I did in the past. One brother in particular seems to truly believe if you?re not with him then you?re against him. He uses religion to hide and won?t take accountability for any of his actions. When I was a teenager he would steal things for drug money and blame the thefts on my older sister until our Dad finally kicked him out. It was aggravating to deal with since things would simply vanish. One time three of my Barbie dolls disappeared and to this day I have no idea why they were taken since they weren?t vintage dolls and had been removed from their boxes, thus losing any value they might have had.

As for another older brother, to begin with he has an inflated ego. He seems to think he?s better then everyone in the family since he obtained his PHD, thereby anyone without one is beneath him. Not only does he talk down to me but often uses a lot of technical terms I do not understand since I did not study in the same field as he did. He?s been even worse since he got married. Both him and his wife treat me like a loser because I have no interest in getting married. Why that bothers them I have no idea. What?s really sad about this is he was actually nice before he grew up and moved out on his own.

Luckily I do have a few siblings who are kind and sweet and we get along just fine. [/COLOR]
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[COLOR=Navy][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Awww, you guys give your younger siblings a break...

<.<

>.>

Ok, so I'm a younger sibling. Middle, to be precise. 7 years younger than my brother, and 1-2 years older than my sister. The shame... =_=

I have an older brother, and a younger sister, and we had a funny relationship growing. I shared a room with my older brother, and sometimes he liked it, and sometimes he hated it. :smirk:

But I loved it. I always admired my older brother, no matter how we fought. I remember how we would play with our Dragonball Z and Power Ranger action figures together, and use the same exact enemies, but they would somhow survive. You know. Like in the show. :p

I also played with my sister and her dolls and Barbies, though being a younger mischevious boy who liked Dragonball Z, somehow, numerous fights would break out, and the Barbie Dreamhouse would constantly get destoried. :animeswea

And when we come together...man, me and my brother tend to get into wresting matches, and my cute little sister didn't want to be left out, so we double teamed our brother.

Now, he's 22, I'm 16, and she's 14, and he's gone off to college (five years ago :animeswea ), and my sister's going to my high school with me, so I can properly protect her. Whenever we come together for whatever reason now, I alway be sure to hug them both at the same time while screaming,

"MY SIBLINGS!!! YOUR GETTING SOOOOO BIG!!!"

I feel like an old man, talking about my past like this...I'm only 16... :rolleyes: [/FONT][/COLOR]
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[color=crimson]I find this topic amusing since Time magazine recently had an article called "The New Science of Siblings". It was a lengthy (8 pages of text- My post here does it no justice, lol) and interesting read. The run of it is that scientists have been mulling over what molds your personality as you age- how, after 10/20/40 years your personality evolves from it's basic framework you were given at birth.

Parents/your environment are some of the greatest influential factors but the article describes how scientists are also starting to add siblings to the list of things that greatly influence your personality throughout childhood and beyond.

It was in the July 10th issue so it should be in the Time.com archives by now if any of you are interested.[/color]
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My 2 little brothers are my life, basically. Their currently my only friends (offline) and I am their only friend also. My lil bros have always been with me and have always clung to me, always wanted to be like me. Everything they do is cuz I do it. My bro (13) follows me everywhere I go practically with my youngest bro (8) never too far behind.

Consequentially they cost me a lot of my life.
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Siblings, eh? Well, I have my little sister in my life. When we were younger we used to annoy each other, since she used to have to share my room. Thankfully, e got our own rooms when she had her 9th birthday. She's fun to be with though, she even sometimes calls me Onii-Chan, which is Japanese I think for brother, and she's always there to cheer me up. I remember when she was younger, she's insist on sleeping in my bed if she had a bad dream or something. It was always me first, not our mom. :animesigh She doesn't really do that anymore though. (At least now I can get a full night's sleep.) It's rare that I go somewhere without her close behind me, even if it's just to the shop she comes with me.
Now I'm 18 and she's 12, I wonder what the future holds?
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  • 2 weeks later...
ahai... seems like i treat my lil sis too badly... they... she can be a real pain most of the time... but i started considering on how i should act more SISTERLY towards her since my friend had an older sis and they practically were best friends... i mean like, i thought they didn't like each other! must have been my twisted mind that altered the true version and after sayin that... my friend didn't talk to me for at least a week. psh. ahai. i seem to hate her since she's pretty weak and for some other unknown reasons. i just hope that the uhh.. sibling relationship with her would get better.
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My brother is not really a bad person, we get along well (he's 16 and I'm 19). But I'm sure he has some sort of mental disease o_O He sticks needles into the couch then claims it wasn't him, leaves unknown **** in the sink or tub (usually a mixture of toilet paper and shampoo, but once it was a bag of worms/bait) and he has really poor hygiene and motivation. The boy is going to lazy himself out of existence. It annoys me and my parents to no end, so hopefully he'll be a little better in future.
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[FONT=Trebuchet MS]I think anyone with siblings can relate to this topic.
I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters.
My brothers aren't all that bad. Neither is my baby sister, but my annoying, self-centered 12 year-old sister...God, we have the worst fights,lol.
It really pisses me off how she says she hates me, and that I'm useless and crap. It's not that it hurts me alot, it's more that I hate it how she thinks she can lecture me when she's younger.
Our physical fights haven't happened in a long time, but I can assure you they're not pretty. One thing that bothers me so much is that she ALWAYS gets my stuff (ex:CD's, manga's, video games, clothes etc.) without permission.
And she get's really mad when I touch her stuff. It just pisses me off.
She herself is just a horrible person,lol, well not entirely.[/FONT]
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Hmmmm...siblings! Ha! I'm the yougest out of three children and loving it! Yah, I'm the annoying one and I guess the stupid one! (or at least that's what they call me!^.^) Anyways, most of the time, I feel as if I'm the oldest out of my sister and brother! They, from my perspective are the annoying ones! I usually get my revenge though!!! ^.~ Well, I could understand your point of view though!
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My older brother is 15 acts 10 he is [B]so[/B] IMMATURE! :animeangr he leans over my shoulder when I'm on reads all my PMs while I'm reading them and goes in my room without permission! I can't do ANYTHING online without him trying to see, he goes through the internet history and sees what sites I've gone on and it pisses me off! :animeangr he thinks he has to approve who I date and says stuff like [QUOTE]If you date an Emo I'll beat him up[/QUOTE] He lives by the phrase [QUOTE]I'm right your wrong shut up[/QUOTE] and get's mad and violent at me when I disagree with him! He makes death threats at me and is constently hitting me (his aim isnt teh best thouhg LOL :animesmil ). Over all he really pisses me off A LOT and neeeds to grow up, get a life and stay out of MINE! :animeangr
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o.O Are siblings really that bad? I'm an only child who wishes I have an older brother, if I did have an older brother, tell me, would he think I'm annoying? T-T I would be pretty sad if he did think so though...T-T

Oh ya, I wouldn't mind if my older brother was annoying, I'm pretty sure he can be quite nice too.
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