Do you chose to fight or not fight and whats the after math of it.

[Guest Mysterious]

i try to explain to my mom that in to days day you have to fight cause if you dont that makes problems for you cause people think your weak and want to look tough in front of others by messing with you.

or do you fight and solve or problems there until another person steps to your face and you have to handle that problem.

or do you talk it out or whatever you do and how does it turn out.

[Zen]

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I believe the act of fighting should be saved up for when things are serious. My entire moral code about the subject goes around this. The person I want to fight has to either touch/push/hit/slap me first for me to spring into action or they have to insult me in an unforgivable way, such as speaking of dead relatives, call me something I'm not and have not given reason to be called that, or they have to attack/harass my family, friends, or loved ones.

Fortunately, I'm rarely messed with in my life. Most people know the concequences of calling me out and/or trying to pull something on me. I've made a few examples and people remember what I've done. Also, I just think I'm a pretty likable guy face to face, and most people either don't talk to me at all, or are friends/acquintances with me personally.

I'd be all for talking things out if it were a misunderstanding, but nine times out of ten, it isn't a misunderstanding. It's just dislike. If I were close enough to a person to talk things out, then that'd person would probably throw a punch before I spoke. Also, I normally don't have that calm of a temper when it comes to people who try and talk garbage about me, or call me out. So they'd probably need to be the ones who need to talk things out, because simply put, I don't mess with people if they don't mess with me.

I think if more people thought like that, the world would be much more peaceful. Heh. Can't say I don't enjoy fighting though... Haha.

As for the aftermath, well, I've havn't had many events in my life that led to me and another person to get into an actual, physical fight. Normally things don't go past a war of words. I have two memories off the top of my head of 'fights' and both ended with the said individual either avoiding me, or having a new found respect for me. *shrug* That's just how it went down. But then again, I never have really lost a fight, so I don't know how that would turn out for another person.[/color][/size]

[Guest Gun Preacher]

Myst you need to let it go you know your mom dont understand what its like when we walk out the house and go places remember what we say every day "keep the lords cross close to your chest whatch your partners back.......

[Guest Mysterious]

..but make sure you protect yo neck"

you know you cant talk with all the fights you done been in you fought more than me. brother

[The13thMan]

[FONT=Century Gothic] [COLOR=DarkOrange]I generally disaprove of fighting. I think most cases can be solved with words and compassion. Of course i know this isn't always true by dealing with some people. Some people are simply insecure about themselves so they decide to make other people insecure to make him/herself feel better. It's actually very sad, but what can be done about it? I blame poor parenting.

I myself have never gotten into an actual fight. I've thrown playful punches, and even a couple not so playful punches and vice versa, but it never gets any more serious. I'm a pretty big guy, and i work out....i don't think people want to mess with me. I'm not a very teaseable person.

Usually when somebody is making fun of me or whatever i just out smart them with wit...so i typically just make fun of them with words that are over their head. I leave 'em feeling stupid and embarassed and that's about it for them. If things got worse though, i can understand fighting. Just make sure you don't lose. If you need to work out and get stronger just to prepare for a fight, then do it. Of course you could always use an equilizer, haha. Of course these are only during those extreme circumstances. I'm morally against fighting, but i'm also a realist. I realize that there are some situations that require it....

Later.


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[Sojiro47]

Another no brainer answer! I'm taught that I fight only as a last resort. But I can fight none the less! I fight, and I will hurt you so bad, you won't wake up for a couple years! Aside from the obvious result, I would probably be hunted down by the coma induced jerk's friends! I've been in enough fights to know that this will happen this way!

[Guest Gun Preacher]

so my other brother has something to say but can you anything out of all the fights we have had. those wernt last resorts.

[Lady Knight]

I'd just like to say boys that your physical fights are not as bad as us girls at times. If you ever get the chance in your halls at school listen to how girls fight. The mental abuse girls put on each other is horrible. Since I'm a girl I've unfortunately had to be put through one of these mental fights and its a pain in the a*s and sometimes even a bit of a blow to your self esteem especially if the person hits on a sensitive spot. Girls in a sense are a bit smarter in how they fight because they play with you mentally and mental abuse lasts way longer than physical abuse. But I will admit this smartness is not an advantage in us.

I personally try to stay away from fighting. If someone usually insulates me I just shrug it off. If they keep going and try to avraggate me I usualy just walk away but if they keep following me and keep going I eventually snap and turn back and say something nasty. I've got a quite a quick mind which can come to my advantage at times and I'm usually able to surprise them by what I said and get out of there before they try to fight back.

As for physical fighting. If a guy ever tries to fight with me physically I am able to fight back. It takes a lot of effort because my arms arn't all that strong(they're getting stronger though cause I'm working at my barn :animesmil) but in gym class this year my school got a guy to come in to teach us girls self defence againest guys in case they attack us etc. So I do know a few moves.

All in all I try to stay away from fighting either physically or mentally. In the end it usually turns messy in my experinces so I just try to avoid. If I have to face it...then its going to be a very long week...

[2010DigitalBoy]

I don't fight. I get people mad, though. When someone wants to fight me I just get them even more angry on purpose. So far I've never been hit, though I wouldn't be surprised if one day I did.

not many people really want to kill me since I mellowed out, though.

[Sojiro47]

[QUOTE=Tical]I don't fight. I get people mad, though. When someone wants to fight me I just get them even more angry on purpose. So far I've never been hit, though I wouldn't be surprised if one day I did.

not many people really want to kill me since I mellowed out, though.[/QUOTE]
One thing about not fighting is that if you ever do get hit, it will be full force, and it will be the first hit you've ever experianced! I hate to say it, but if the first hit you experiance is at full force, you won't get up right away after it! But we who have been in fights probably could get up becuase we've been hit before, and another one will not even affect us!

[chaos Alvis]

Fights, i try to avoid them. i don't really aprove with fights, but if a person punches u for no reason i wouldnt go outraged on him. Unless its a good reason.

ex) if someone punches me cuz they hate me, well i wouldn't really fight them, i'll just make fun of them of what they are.

another ex) if some one tries to go all out on me because i was trying to protect something precious i would fight back. no way no how i will get the one thing thats precious to me get hurt or badly injured

[pooperson]

You mean physical fights? I don't do those - it's really usually not worth it. But sometimes it's tempting...
As for fighting for what I believe? Yeah, I do that. I can get really angry when I'm debating or arguing, especially when it involves dissing on someone I love.

[Charles]

I don't know how it works in the rest of the world, but in South Jersey altercations are solved through spectacular dances. Of course, once one group of people serves another, "it's on."