Guest Kaise Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 I'm trying to accept the fact that i'm gonna die alone. Die a virgin, die not being loved, whatever. It's hard to accept, but does anyone have any advice to offer me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ikillion Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [COLOR=#99121c][SIZE=1][FONT=Comic Sans MS]You are 16, your just probaly going through some kind of phase of some kind. Don't worry you will most likely get over it soon enough so like, don't do anything drastic yeah? I have a bad feeling about this..[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [QUOTE=Ikillion][COLOR=#99121c][SIZE=1][FONT=Comic Sans MS]You are 16, your just probaly going through some kind of phase of some kind. Don't worry you will most likely get over it soon enough so like, don't do anything drastic yeah? I have a bad feeling about this..[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR][/QUOTE] No, i've been like this for 5 years. I've never had a girlfriend, never been kissed, and i know it's just going to continue. It's not drastic, it's just a fact that needs to be accepted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ikillion Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [COLOR=#99121c][SIZE=1][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Ok well first of all, five years would have put you at 11 and I would have to ask why do you think it is so important to have a girlfriend at that age? Your limiting yourself to the girls who live in your area while there is still an entire world full of women? I still say its a phase, you will get over it in time. If you have waited five years for these said actions what is waiting longer going to hurt?[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 Because i want to at least feel like someone gives a damn about me. I know i'm a waste of a human being, but it's not very nice to feel like that day to day, is it? Besides, it'll still be that way when i move, so i just want to stop being depressed. Besides, i'm asking for advice on how to accept it. :-p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uchihagirl Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 -_- the thing is Kaise, people are trying to tell you [I]not[/I] to except it because it's okay, and who cares if you didn't have a girl friend for around 5 years and if you really wanted to kiss someone, just go up and do it. =P Not so hard is it? And everyone has a purpose in life, that's why you were born. Even if somehow your original purpose has been taken away, you'll find another purpose, because the first purpose wasn't really your [I]real[/I] purpose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 Sorry, it won't be ok. my life has a record of having crap happen to me and not having anything good happen. I want to, and i don't have a purpose, other than god's personal toilet paper. I can't get a girlfriend IF I TRIED, and that's why i'm feeling crappy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaSilva Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 I am definitely agreeing with Ikillion on this one. Its just a phase. Just because you are 16 and you have never been kissed, that doesn't mean that you will die alone. You still have a good 60 years left, and a good few billion grls that you haven't even met yet. Just give it time, and everything will work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [quote name='DaSilva']I am definitely agreeing with Ikillion on this one. Its just a phase. Just because you are 16 and you have never been kissed, that doesn't mean that you will die alone. You still have a good 60 years left, and a good few billion grls that you haven't even met yet. Just give it time, and everything will work out.[/quote] 6 years is hella long for a phase. I've given it 6 years, and i'm damn SICK of it. Yes, it basically does mean i'm gonna die alone. There are a few billion girls that are good, and they're all gonna be dating better guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doublehex Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 Why are you so impatient? It is not a good idea to get a gf at all until the mid teens, or else the likelyhood of premartial sex, and thus STDs, increases dramsticly. So, what you call a curse is actually a blessing. Don't be so hard on yourself - I have never even gotten kissed by a girl, and I'm entering my Senior year! Not getting a girl by your age is not the end of the world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [url=http://www.otakuboards.com/showthread.php?t=51646][size=1][u]We tried to help once...[/u][/size][/url] [url=http://www.otakuboards.com/showthread.php?t=52679][size=1][u]..then we tried again.[/u][/size][/url] [size=1]Need I say more? All the advice given from the past doesn't seem to help. You keep your attitude up, and you may just find yourself alone. You're too young to be worrying about this ****. Be a kid for as long as you possibly can. It does get better, I promise. You just have to hold on and have patience.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaSilva Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [QUOTE]Originally posted by Kaise: 6 years is hella long for a phase. I've given it 6 years, and i'm damn SICK of it. Yes, it basically does mean i'm gonna die alone. There are a few billion s that are good, and they're all gonna be dating better guys.[/QUOTE] You are right, with this pessimistic attitude, you may die alone, because no one wants to be around someone like that. If you start thinking more positively, the reactions you get from people will be positive too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sojiro47 Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 How do you accept it.....Hmm......I know! Get over it. I've been at the same place as you, but I think the best way to accept it is to not allow it. You have told yourself that you will never experiance this. But you have to tell yourself that you will, no matter what. I don't want to ruin your dreams and all, but there is no way to accept the fact that you're going to be alone for the rest of your life. The only thing I can say is don't allow it. You know that girl from school? You know, the overlly hot one? Go talk to her. Ask her about herself, get to know her. Things like this can't be rushed. One more thing. If its that bad, find someone you trust, and have them smack you for being so stupid. This isn't the first thread like this you started, and if you haven't figured a way around it, you need to be smacked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uchihagirl Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [quote name='Kaise']6 years is hella long for a phase. I've given it 6 years, and i'm damn SICK of it. Yes, it basically does mean i'm gonna die alone. There are a few billion girls that are good, and they're all gonna be dating better guys.[/quote] You know what? Fine, go die alone then, go say you're stupid and go on saying you're all alone. What? You can mind read? How do you know that out of the few billion girls that none of them like you, not even one. Not so likely. Unless ofcourse, you can either read the future or read minds, since you can none of them, don't count your chickens before they hatch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaSilva Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [quote name='uchihagirl']You know what? Fine, go die alone then, go say you're stupid and go on saying you're all alone. What? You can mind read? How do you know that out of the few billion s that none of them like you, not even one. Not so likely. Unless ofcourse, you can either read the future or read minds, since you can none of them, don't count your chickens before they hatch.[/quote] You go get him Uchihagirl!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goodbye, Face Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [font=trebuchet ms]Look, I know who you are now that Athena posted those threads, but even without those as a reference I know just how ignorant you are of other peoples' adivce from what you've said so far in this thread. Listen, you're not asking for advice like the title says. You are making an announcement; an announcement stating that you've given up on women before you've even tried. If you're rejecting help and kind words from faceless personalities on the internet like you are now, what are you going to do when the inevitablity does happen that you're going to find a girl? Are you going to reject them when they say "I love you?" You asked for advice, now take it.[/font] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sojiro47 Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 [quote name='Kaise']Because i want to at least feel like someone gives a damn about me.[/quote] You got our attention. Do I have yours? If no one cared, there would be no replies on this thread. It's as RAR says. If you really wanted advice, you wouldn't have said back that it was no use. I don't ask often, but I'll do it now. Any Moderators listening in on ths thread, please close it. This guy's not going to listen. It looks like he just wants attention. Please, close the thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaSilva Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 I would like to second the motion for closing the thread. This guy is obviously just wanting to whine about something, regardless if whether or not it needs whining about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panda Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 This thread has gone on far too long. It's not productive and is getting to be too heated. Please remember if there is a thread in need of a moderators attention use the "report" button, that's what it is there for. Thread Closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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