Guest -Yuna- Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 Well, my boyfriends just joined the Army, and hes away for training right now...and i feel really sad alot of the time.. When he calls to see how i am i usually pretend to be happy and fine, because i dont want to admit that im being weak and not coping with him being away..but i dont like pretending to be happy all the time, i want to tell him the truth, that im actually not coping very well..but then i dont want to make him upset, because he worries about me alot, and always wants to make me happy, so should i tell him that im happy still even though im not? Or should i be honest and say if im sad? I just miss him so much, but i dont want to make him sad...what should i do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sojiro47 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 Well, this is something I know about, but not in the same circumstances as you. You see, I was the boyfriend. I would have been much happier knowing she was upset than her being fine, only because she told the truth. Maybe that didn't make sence, so I'll say it this way; Just tell him the truth. That is almost always the correct answer. If you keep lying, you'll become depressed, and he'll wonder why. Or he might already know that your lying; guy's aren't entirely stupid. We do notice things acassionally. Just tell him, you'll feel better for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest -Yuna- Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 [quote name='Sojiro47']Well, this is something I know about, but not in the same circumstances as you. You see, I was the boyfriend. I would have been much happier knowing she was upset than her being fine, only because she told the truth. Maybe that didn't make sence, so I'll say it this way; Just tell him the truth. That is almost always the correct answer. If you keep lying, you'll become depressed, and he'll wonder why. Or he might already know that your lying; guy's aren't entirely stupid. We do notice things acassionally. Just tell him, you'll feel better for it.[/quote] Hehe yeah he is the most observant guy ive ever known, he can tell exactly what im thinking and feeling just by looking at me! I think you're right, he would appreciate me telling the truth rather than pretending im fine :) although he cant do much while hes away, he could still talk to me about it =^^= Thank you so much for replying and giving your advice!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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