Mother Charged with Rape of daughter PG-13 rating

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Yeah becuase my first thread wasn't disturbing enough I have to show you something from my local news that's really sick and disturbing. And if you get a chance go on to 13Wham.com check out the woman's t-shirt. Like I told a friend of mine: That picture is oxymoronic!

[quote=13WHAM news](Rochester, N.Y.) - Wendy Wilkins is now charged with five crimes, including three counts of third degree rape.

Wilkins admitted to police she allowed her boyfriend to have sex with her 15-year-old daughter, and on some occasions even participated.

"He's had sex with her four or five days a week," she said in a police statement obtained by 13 WHAM news. ?He will have sex with the both of us...he goes back and forth between us."

Miguel Colon admitted his actions. He pleaded guilty to third degree rape.

As part of a plea bargain he will serve 16-months to 4 years in state prison.

At her home last month, Wilkins would not answer our questions. But she allegedly told police she stayed in the room to supervise because, "I didn't want him to hurt her."

The 15-year-old girl was moved into foster care. Her mother has been allowed supervised visits.

Wilkins pleaded not guilty to the charges Thursday.[/quote]

I'm not sure what I find more disturbing. The fact that this guy will only get between sixteen months to four years in NYS prison or the fact that the mom was allowing it. It's just... I mean I heard this on the news tonight and I was like WTF? So I decided to look it up on one of the local station's websites and was still like WTF? And to top it all off. The picture of this woman on the site has her wearing a t-shirt that says: #1 Mom.

Well I have to go now. Please comment on this. I swear if it isn't the homicides it's the crazies.[/color][/font]

[Aberinkula]

Yhere is a word for women who do that. *****. My friend is in rochester!!!! If that was her i would kill the people. So to speak. Thank God my friends safe where she is. She's down there for the summer.

[Sangome]

[size=1]...Oh my sweet jiminy. I literally covered my mouth as I read through that.

I too don't know what's more disturbing - the fact that the boyfriend won't get as nearly as much jailtime as he should, or that the mother ALLOWED something like that...ugh...it is sickening. Very sickening.

And the fact that she's wearing that shirt...I have to wonder if her boyfriend was the one that got it for her. =|[/size]

[pooperson]

Everything about that is just sick. I honestly can not believe it. How can they possibly only give him UP TO four years for that??? That's [I]ridiculous!!!!!![/I]
That completely makes me sick to my stomache... I can't believe there are people running around our country with a record like that...

[Kei]

[color=darkblue][size=1]What's disturbing to me is that more of these cases are coming up lately. Or at least being exposed to the public. There's likely many more that the police aren't aware of.

One example that I can think of offhand is that a couple in my city was recently accused of over 60 charges involving their five adopted children including rape while they were between ages 6 and 16.

It's a real shame that people would do this to children. But most people won't or don't know how to go about steps to prevent it, which is an even bigger shame. :/[/color][/size]

[Veritas]

[size=1][color=dimgray]I just don't get how someone could do something like that to a child, or allow it. It's sick wrong and twisted, and whats worse most of the time they only give the people a slap on the hand really. 16 months to 4 years, that's a joke especially for example you can get up to 10 years for possesion of marijuana. [/color][/size]
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[size=1][color=dimgray]The only way I can see justice being served in this is the fact that most child molesters and rapist are lambs to the slaughter in prison. [/color][/size]
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[size=1][color=dimgray]Though lately where I'm from some disturbing stuff has happened, yesterday I believe a 18 year old kid was arrested for murdering his mother, and hiding her body in thier freezer. Before that though there was the case of a 5 year old girl being kidnapped, murdered, then her body was repeatedly raped and violated. [/color][/size]
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[size=1][color=dimgray]It's just something I don't understand, and frankly I hope I never do, but none the less it is sick, and wrong. It just scares me for when I for the future, how much worse, or how much better will things get.[/color][/size]
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[size=1][color=dimgray]I say they start chopping off genitals, and branding foreheads with M's and R's. [/color][/size]

[Sojiro47]

Stuff like this grosses me out. I remember reading an article in the Newspaper about a nanny that taught the kids she was attending how to have sex. And these kids were 10 and 12 years old.

The incident that ChibiHorsewoman spoke of makes me sick. If my mom let her Boyfriend hve sex with my sister, I'd just about kill them both (mom and boyfriend). But what I want to know is, how sick do you have to be to not feel bad about letting this happen. That woman should be put in an asylum (sp?). And the creep Boyfriend is only getting four years tops in prison. I would have seriously killed that crap-pervert. How can a mom let this happen, let alone give permision for it to happen? I just want to throw up.

[Charles]

I'm a little disappointed that you made this thread, but missed the opportunity to make a thread about the 50,000 dogs that were clubbed to death in China, ChibiHorsewoman.

[Aaryanna]

[COLOR=SeaGreen]And here I thought you were kidding Charles. [URL=http://articles.news.aol.com/news/_a/china-orders-mass-slaughter-of-dogs/20060801000009990001?_ccc=6&cid=842]Dogs[/URL] That?s just sick what they did to those dogs. >_<

As for the topic. I hear about how people commit such horrendous crimes and yet in spite of it they get little to no jail time. That mother is beyond sick that she would allow him to do that to her own daughter. I can?t even begin to understand why she even allowed it in the first place. [/COLOR]

[Andy]

[QUOTE=shadowofdeath13][size=1][color=dimgray] Before that though there was the case of a 5 year old girl being kidnapped, murdered, then her body was repeatedly raped and violated.
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[SIZE=1][COLOR=DarkRed]Omg...that...is...just sickening. That may very well be one of the most disturbing things I have ever read. That is a real shame, that people would actually do things such as this. I mean, what's this country coming to folks? Stuff like this makes me sick at the stomach and sick at the heart. Just the thought of someone doing that to a child really hurts me. I am just disgusted with what that woman did. Letting that man do what he did to that poor girl, and then her doing it with him? That is just wrong.And I hope that none of you would ever do that to someone, because that is just plain wrong and disgusting.[/COLOR][/SIZE]

[Baron Samedi]

[size=1]I'd rather have a rabid, crazed and dangerous dog that could potentially give me a fatal disease than have it put down. Oh wait, no I wouldn't.

As for the OP's report... well, that's just disgusting. The probable reason for such a 'light' sentence? It was non-violent in nature, presumably. Unfortunately, whilst it is a terrible thing to do, yada yada yada, it wasn't all that 'bad' as rape goes. Whilst rape in all forms is a terrible thing, this probably isn't the style that a highly dangerous person would use.[/size]

[Charles]

[quote name='Baron Samedi][size=1']I'd rather have a rabid, crazed and dangerous dog that could potentially give me a fatal disease than have it put down. Oh wait, no I wouldn't.[/size][/quote]

They didn't just put down dangerous dogs. If someone happened to be walking their dog, these squads would offer them roughly sixty cents to kill the animal themselves, or they would literally take their dog and club it to death right there.

Even still, there are infinitely better ways to kill an animal than clubbing it with a large stick.

[Baron Samedi]

[size=1]True, but the disease is quite infectious amongst animals. Unfortunately, I'd have to say that 50,000 dogs < 2000 humans.

And the clubbing, whilst appalling, is probably the cheapest and best method for such a large number of animals. No way could they put them to sleep, and they probably didn't want to waste all that ammunition. There probably aren't any other realistic alternatives for such mass slaughter.[/size]

[Veritas]

[quote name='Baron Samedi][size=1']As for the OP's report... well, that's just disgusting. The probable reason for such a 'light' sentence? It was non-violent in nature, presumably. Unfortunately, whilst it is a terrible thing to do, yada yada yada, it wasn't all that 'bad' as rape goes. Whilst rape in all forms is a terrible thing, this probably isn't the style that a highly dangerous person would use.[/size][/quote][color=darkred][size=1]I get what your saying but then again it all goes around in a circle. The little girl is never going to be the same, and I wouldn't be surprised if she has emotional scarring for the rest of her life. Also alot of rape victims turn rapist, it just is so emotional and morally damaging something has to be there to fill the void. [/size]
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[size=1][color=#8b0000]I have a 10 year old sister as well as one that 4, and all I know if I ever found out something like that happened I'd probably kill them and[/color] if someone can twist having sex with children to be ok in their head what else can they twist. They don't have the morals and ethics to function truly as a normal person, with out heavy rehab in my opinion. It's like a car seat that needs to be recalled cuz along the development something went wrong. I think they are the ones that need to be clubbed to death not the dogs. [/size][/color]

[SunfallE]

[COLOR=RoyalBlue]As sick as this is, it seems like lately you hear about more and more cases of this kind of behavior. I would have to imagine it?s because now cases like this are being reported more, not that they are happening more. Still sometimes it amazes me at how lax the law is towards people who commit such crimes. Some of the laws surrounding rape do more for the perpetrator than the victim. It?s like saying you were bad, a slap on the wrist and they are off to do it again.

And the mother, well in some ways I feel she is even more responsible than the guy. Instead of leaving him or trying to save her daughter, she even participated! Someone like that has no right to even be a mother as she has failed to protect her own daughter from being raped repeatedly by this guy. It?s really too bad that they aren?t going to be punished more for the crimes both of them committed. [/COLOR]

[Fyxe]

[size=1][color=slategray]You know, these things just fail to "disgust" me... or whatever.

I hear so many stories like that, so the wow factor isn't there anymore. It's common knowledge that people are sick.

I have one question...
Where was Law & Order: SVU? This is the only time they've disappointed me in not getting to the case first. If you ask me, they are slipping.[/color][/size]

[TheShinje]

[color=crimson] "The 15-year-old girl was moved into foster care. Her mother has been allowed supervised visits."

So, the let rapists visit their victims nowdays?

She shouldn't be allowed to just visit her daughter like that because she's the mom. It's that fact that makes this so disgusting and vile in the first place. How could she let her partner violate her like that? How could she join in?

Some people become sceptical when you tell them the world is going to hell in a handbasket, well....

[quote name='SunfallE] [color=RoyalBlue']As sick as this is, it seems like lately you hear about more and more cases of this kind of behavior. [/quote][/color]

The world is going to hell in a handbasket.[/color]

[Horendithas]

[COLOR=DeepSkyBlue][quote name='SunfallE][COLOR=RoyalBlue']As sick as this is, it seems like lately you hear about more and more cases of this kind of behavior. I would have to imagine it?s because now cases like this are being reported more, not that they are happening more. [/COLOR][/quote]Exactly, it isn?t so much that more are happening but rather that they are being reported or making it into the news. There are hundreds of cases that though they are reported, they aren?t aired on the news.

It would be interesting to see what type of relationship her mother had with her own parents. I would be greatly surprised if she had a normal childhood. And even if she did on the surface, somewhere she?s got to be pretty messed up and dysfunctional to allow things to happen and to even participate. I?ve yet to see a case that I?ve worked on that somewhere there wasn?t something else going on. I would imagine that her boyfriend is similarly messed up as well since most guys don?t have sex with their girlfriend?s daughter who is technically jailbait.

It?s kind of sad. I really hope they completely separate the girl from her mother and get her the care she needs. It?s going to be a long and hard recovery, if she even does recover from what has happened to her.

I just love how the mother is pleading not guilty. She knew damn well what was happening was wrong and she was too much of a coward to stop it. Or she could have been perverted enough to actually enjoy it.

Ah well, it?s not the first time I?ve heard of this type of thing and I?m sure it won?t be the last. I do agree with others in that the penalty should be more severe. Right now it?s hardly adequate in my opinion. [/COLOR]

[Gavin]

[SIZE=1]Interesting, most interesting.

Most of what can be said has been said already, for a mother do to that to her own daughter is sickening, although I'm wondering where the father was when this was all going on. By the sound of the article, this had been going on for a time, and generally fathers seem to be good at sniffing out when something is wrong with their daughters. The boyfriend's sentence is far too long, while it seems she didn't resist, after all it happened several times, it still amounts to paedophilia, which should carry at least a 10 year sentence.

The fact that the mother will still be allowed see the daughter is equally disturbing, what she has done should negate any chance she would ever have of seeing her child again.[/SIZE]