Let's talk about sex (Mature please)

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]I'm bored, really bored. And I'm talking with Ryan about his thread and looking back at my second reply and well this is what I got.

I'm curious to find out how people learned about sex, what their schools teach about sex- especially here in the IS since thanks to our government you're really not allowed to tell kids much about sex.

Something anything. What do you think about sex? What were you told? I'm just really bored and I haven't made a random thread in a while.[/color][/font]

[pooperson]

They taught me almost nothing in school. I saw pictures of STD's [ew...] & I learned that abstinence is good. Most of what I've learned I have figured out from friends or the... *eyeroll*... internet.
Therefore, I don't know that much. Slightly pathetic. But I choose virginity until I'm married [YAY ABSTINENCE!!!!!!!], & to me, that's what matters.

[Andy]

[SIZE=1][COLOR=DarkRed]Ah yes, sex, a topic that most people seem to be very interested in these days. I personally learned about sex through friends, a little bit out of books. What do I think about sex? Well, I think its great, I heard its supposed to be very good exercise... I also think its a great way to strengthen the relationship of a couple. To show the other that they trust them. Or a one night thing whichever you prefer. But I prefer the love sex, the one that you share with that special someone that you care deeply about. Now, don't get me wrong, i'm a guy, and I don't always view sex that way. So, in conclusion class, sex is a great form of exercise.[/COLOR][/SIZE]

[Ikillion]

[COLOR=#99121c][SIZE=1][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Ooh wow, intresting topic.

In the case of how I learned it, was quite intresting. I don't know how old I was exactly but I knew that I had learned it when I was about 10 if not 11. I usually got bored with school work. Since back when I lived in Los angeles school wasnt to much of a trouble. So being the kid who was such an avid reader. I used to venture into the garage and look for stuff to read. Eventually I stumbled upon many of my Father's old Medical Magazines. (I think it was called JAVA or something like that) So I began reading this, well more or less looking at the pictures since I didn't really know what they were talking about. Apparently one was talking about STD's and actually explained the whole sexual process. Yet being such a dull kid I had no idea where it ment so jus shrugged it off and kept on reading.

Then once 7th grade came up and we started talking about Sex Ed. It was like someone put a match to the gunpowder because everything finally made sense all of a sudden. so yeah.

As for what I think about sex? Well...its sex, now a days I bet you can just say every couple of seconds there is some human somewhere out in the world having sex with another, (be it hetero or homo). Besides, if it wasnt for sex you wouldn't be here... [spoiler]Which does give a rather distirbing though, seeing your parents like that together..-shutter- [/spoiler]

Sex = Babies = Future? Execpt when people have sex to early and then there are babies flying all over the place and the mother is only 16 or something. Which is bad.

Other than that, Yay sex.[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR]

[2010DigitalBoy]

I was always embarassed about sex... I learned some stuff in sexed but not much. I really began to learn stuff from porn, which I took a long time to, how should I put it, study. You see, I, at first, was only able to lok at softcore porn as, well, I was scared to go deeper. Only about 9 months ago I started seeing naked (anime) chicks and go t a little deeper.

One night I came across a porn on TV which was actually free and I watched it. I learned a lot about positions and such, but I still had a problem... I didn't know exactly where the woman's private was as it never showed it in the movie.

Eventually I found out that my mom's old, virus-ridden computer had a bunch of porn on it and that helped clarify a lot of things...

i still have many questions though.

[Sangome]

[size=1]S3X IZ GUD I'VE HAD IT WITH 3 BOIS LOL!1!1!!!


Sarcasm of stereotypes aside...

How I LEARNED about it? Well, I was homeschooled a majority of my life, so I certainly didn't learn it that way. It too alot, and I mean ALOT of persuasion from my parents (mainly my mother) to tell me about it. I was told...that it was what a man and a woman do when they're married and love each other. x_x

What do I think about it? Well, I can't really say much, seeing as how, as [b]taperson[/b] said, will stay a virgin until marriage. But I think it's the biggest act of love anyone can endow on theire spouse or lover.

[spoiler]Plus, you wouldn't be here without it. Buahahaha![/spoiler]

EDIT: Oh, and I wouldn't know if they teach it in our schools here. I know our high school touches on abstinence and such in some textbooks, but there aren't any graphic explanations of human reporduction.[/size]

[sakurasuka]

[QUOTE=Tical Blue]
i still have many questions though.[/QUOTE]

[size=1]With time comes knowledge :D

Sex. Hm. Well.

I have never, ever been shy about anything sexual up until this year. You see, when my brother was concieved, I was about two. Of course, I was curious.

So, basically, mom figured it would be better to tell me [vaugly] about sex and such, that way there wasn't the awkward 'Sex Talk' when I was older. I really do think that works best. Of course, I didn't know the actual meaning of 'sex' until the age of seven or eight.

This last year I've had quite a few sexual experiences, and I tend to be quite shy and awkward. I mean, I know more about the subject than anyone should, but when it came down to it, I was much more... Introverted than I figured I'd be.

So I remain a virgin. Barely.

Meh.

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[Aaryanna]

[COLOR=SeaGreen]Well I certainly didn?t learn about it from school as there is no sex ed classes where I live. Instead when I was about eight I got tired of hearing that babies come from heaven so when my mom took me to the library I got the librarian to help me find a book that explained how babies were made. She gave me an odd look, until I told her it was for a school paper. So I learned about it from the book and from looking up different words I didn?t understand in the dictionary.

I figured that if babies really came from heaven then why in the world was the mother going to the hospital for several days just to pick the baby up? And why did they get such big stomachs before the baby showed up? Which I also noticed were smaller when they came back from the hospital with the baby. So it just didn?t add up.

Adults can be so clueless sometimes. My mom didn?t even realize that I had found out about sex until a little while later when another person told me they were going to get a baby from heaven. They would turn to me and say, you do know babies come from heaven right? It kind of annoyed me since they were treating me like I was stupid so before I even gave it a thought I popped out the response: You?re having a baby because you and your husband had sex. The silence was deafening and I turned and ran to my room. I didn?t get grounded but boy was my mom surprised when she asked how I knew about sex.

Of course I only knew the very basics. And now that I?m older I know even more. It?s amazing what you can find in the library when you want to know something. Or online for that matter. [/COLOR]

[The13thMan]

[FONT=Century Gothic] [COLOR=DarkOrange]Well, i remember once when i was outside walking around my pool, waiting to go somewhere my dad approached me. I was like maybe a 1st grader at the time. He explained sex to me, he used the word penis and vagina and i had no idea what he was talking about.

Eventually over time (redundant?) i figured things out. It was through a mix of media, puberty talks at school, and pr0n. ^L^

Lol, now that i think back on it it was a little funny. I used to think girls only had one....let's say "opening" down there. ^J^; But i eventually found out through piiiictures. Yaaay internet and over abundance of pornography! It all started in an msn chat room....anybody wanna see my webcam? I just turned 18!! >__>

Later.
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[Akieen Cloud]

[B][COLOR=Purple]LOL wow...where I learned it...believe it or not, my big brother and then as I got through middle school and into high school I learned from friends. Then when I met my fiance, well...I just deided to take it upon my self to learn for the fact that we really loved each other and to be blunt couldnt keep out hands to oursleves. At first I was really shy about it but as time went I got used to beng with him. As to what I think about it...my personal opinon is that its a feeling that when with the right person in my experience makes your mouth go dry and you feel like your stomach is gone. then you feel like you can fly....well that how it is for me when I'm with my fiance... :animeblus[/COLOR] [/B]

[Farto the Magic]

[FONT=Trebuchet MS][COLOR=DarkGreen]Sex. I was conceived roughly nine months before I was born. Thus, I owe my life to sex. I never really wanted the details from my parents though, and they were happy not to tell. At school, I saw that horrible diagram of what everything looked like, but actually didn't. It wasn't until my friends showed me a sleazy '70s porno that I learned what sex truly was. I mean, to hear about it is one thing, but to see it is another.

I've seen a few more since then, but like tical blue, only for study. Heck, I've even seen one and skipped through the sex parts, just because I wanted to know the plot. It was funny. I happen to view sex as a display of utmost love and trust between two people. By this, I refer to the idea of makinf love, not the mechanical action of humping. Until I find someone I love and trust, I shall see to avoid such contact, as hookers are best alternative, and they usually have nasty STDs.

That said, my rant is at an end...for now.[/COLOR][/FONT]

[DeadSeraphim]

[size=1][color=indigo][font=arial]Sex is an activity best enjoyed with a partner. Clinical studies have shown that sex when performed alone is at least 80% - yes, 80%! - less satisfying than with a partner. So you know what that means, people.

Time to buddy up.[/font][/color][/size]

[Zen]

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I learned more about sex through second hand knowledge and listening in, than I did from school. I basically knew everything I needed to know by Sex Education. When that came, I was really suprised to the amount of retards who believed myths and what not. I learned from movies, reading, conversation, and all that. Basically, I picked it all up subconciously. I never went about trying to learn how to do things or how they worked. I just applied common sense to what I had heard and things came naturally.

For me, sex is more important on a romantic, emotional note than a physical one (however, it does get quite frustrating when I have it available for a very long period of time, and then not at all upon a relationship's end). I think if you make love or have sexual relations with a person, it should be out of passionate love, instead of just wanting to get some.

Also from my experience, it's more enjoyable when it's an intinctive, heat of the moment thing, and not planned out. Better for the experience. Heh. I can't stand jumping into things without foreplay. Might as well not do it at all, atleast, that's how I feel. It's no fun when there's no feeling or romance about it.

So my short answer for that topic is, yes. Sex is good. It's fun, and healthy for a relationship, but only when it goes by 'making love', if you know what I mean.

Too bad it's been... months.... since I last did. I need to get back into the game...[/color][/size]

[Veritas]

[size=1][color=dimgray]Well lets see, there was a breif explaination of peuberty at my school in 6 grade (it didn't explain anything really), though I was a pretty wild child and I wasn't all to innocent. I new what some stuff was, the basics really, and I owe that to my mom. She just sat me down one day and told me the basics, and that if I was ever going to have pre-marrital sex use a condom. I also got the same talk from my dad like a year or 2 later, it was rather funny cause he has 5 kids with 5 different women and he's never been married, and that was back before the 5th. [/color][/size]
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[size=1][color=dimgray]Though I knew what it was, I didn't know any details really, and the way I first saw it was porn, but I think I've learned more about positions and technique from magazines such as cosmopolitan, and men's health, as well as a little bit of experience.[/color][/size]
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[size=1][color=dimgray]I think sex is a beautiful think but also it's a double edged sword, one side to it there is just casual sex, as well as making love to someone you have feeling for. Also sex can strengthen a relationship or break it, but there is nothing I hate more than the feeling that sex is the only thing there. Yes I am a guy, but I am fully aware there is more than life to sex, and getting with as many girls as you can. [/color][/size]
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[size=1][color=dimgray]To me, sex is complicated lol. [/color][/size]

[Sojiro47]

Sex......Hmm....Well, I saw my first Sex-ed video in the fifth grade, witch then led to a lot of pissed off parents... :animeswea On top of that, as Tical-san pointed out, hentai is stimulating, but you don't learn much. Me? I learned about most of what I know from friends and books. It's amazing how...[I]visual[/I] books can be. ;) I know more now than the very friends that taught me do. Irony at it's finest.

I do plan to stay abstinate untill marrige, and I'm a Junor in High School, so I've got a little bit of a wiat ahead of me. But as fore-play goes, well....hehe....No holds barred. I leave what I meant by that up to your imagination. ;)

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[QUOTE=The Boss][color=darkred][size=1]
Too bad it's been... months.... since I last did. I need to get back into the game...[/color][/size][/QUOTE]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Okay... I haven't had sex in over a year [spoiler]anyone willing to change that? [/spoiler] I don't have time to get back in the game but I wouldn't mind trying anyway.

Okay time to answer my own question.

I learned about sex in a multitude of ways.. some of which should never happen to someone because it leads to not being able to look at your parents for [b]weeks[/b] on end.

My health classes were vague at best about sex. Yes they explained STDs and condom usage, but that didn't really help too much.

My first non emberassing experiance talking about sex happened during my freshmen year of college- my roommates were experianced and I wasn't (I stayed a virgin until I was nearly twenty horray for me!) so they kept talking about various subjects. Various subjects included some of my older roommate's older escapades. Honestly some things are just better left unsaid, but she said them anyway.

I also learned about sex via ft. Gordan on memorial day weekend and my God is that sweaty. Still is...especially when there is no A/c and it's 85 degrees OUTSIDE!

Sex is like air- it's not important unless you're not getting any. And I will elaborate more later.[/color][/font]

[Gavin]

[SIZE=1]Interesting, most interesting.

Hmm well unlike a lot of people here, my school did absolutely no proper sex education, we covered it in science sure but that was very clinical rather than educational and only covering the science topics. I guess I learned about it from a variety of places, other kids, reading and eventually of course, the conversation neither child or parent want to have.

As for sex itself, well my last instance of it was about six days ago, spur of the moment thing and I don't know why people make such a big deal of it. People would swear it's the be all and end all, or the best thing since slice bread, sure it's pleasurable but I don't know, I was expecting more after hearing about it for so long.[/SIZE]

[Raiyuu]

[FONT=Trebuchet MS]@ the relevant people: Is American sex education genuinely so bad that you learned more from [i]porn?[/i] Because we had it covered in cringeworthy detail at GCSE level - I think that's eleventh grade? - I say cringeworthy because I went to an all-male high school, with a female biology teacher. Up till that point I thought the verb [i]to giggle[/i] applied exclusively to the fairer sex...[/font]

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[quote name='Raiyuu][FONT=Trebuchet MS]@ the relevant people: Is American sex education genuinely so bad that you learned more from [i]porn?[/i] Because we had it covered in cringeworthy detail at GCSE level - I think that's eleventh grade? - I say cringeworthy because I went to an all-male high school, with a female biology teacher. Up till that point I thought the verb [i]to giggle[/i'] applied exclusively to the fairer sex...[/font][/quote]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Well considering that right now our government is run mostly by conservative Christians (No offense to the Christians) Sex ed here is pretty dismal. We have some laws passed stating that you're only allowed to talk about condom failure rates and not mention contraceptives. Also you can only talk about abstinence. This has lead to an increase in teen pregnancies in many of the southern states.

I was in high school during the second Clinton administration (Thank God) so the guidelines weren't as strict, but my health teacher was extremely Christian. She actually had us watch a video made by Focus on the Family about abstinence. In. A. Public. School.

Luckily my mom has never been one to beat around the bush (no pun intended) So I learned some stuff about sex from her... and some stuff from Danielle Steel novels. That woman is disturbed.[/color][/font]

[sakurasuka]

[quote name='Raiyuu][FONT=Trebuchet MS]@ the relevant people: Is American sex education genuinely so bad that you learned more from [i]porn?[/i'][/font][/quote]

[size=1]Actually, it varies state-to-state, school-to-school.

I've lived all over the country. So I know how... Different sex education can be.

There's a movie they show down here in Georgia in some schools. It shows the prenancy process, from [i]conception[/i] to the [i]delivery room[/i]. It's litterally enough to make you want to not only projectile-vomit, but to avoid sex at all costs.

Luckily I never saw the entire thing, as I don't actually go to public school [anymore]. Thank God.

My retarded friend thought it would be funny to record gross parts of it on his cell phone, so that's all I've seen of it.

And that was more than enough.

Anyway. I think the purpose of that video is more to deter teenagers from engaging in sexual activity than to actually teach.

Meh.

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[triblackfire]

[font=Comic Sans MS][color=deepskyblue]What I think about sex...hmmmmmm I don't really know. I think it's naughty and I heard you can lose alot of calories that way! ^.^ Anyways, I first learned about sex from my older siblings. I was about in kindergarden. Yeah I was tramatized. Now I'm used to it from tv and school. ;)[/color][/font]

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]I'll just put it this way:

Abstinence is overrated, but so is sex. So there's really no middle ground.[/color][/font]

[Aberinkula]

Here's a hint. Never have it with a sofa. Don't tell anybody. Don't do it again.
I did it. Yes I did lose my virginity to a sofa. Well to an object that is.

It was fun but cushany. So remember sofa sex is bad sex.

[ChibiHorsewoman]

[QUOTE=Split Keyblader]Here's a hint. Never have it with a sofa. Don't tell anybody. Don't do it again.
I did it. Yes I did lose my virginity to a sofa. Well to an object that is.

It was fun but cushany. So remember sofa sex is bad sex.[/QUOTE]

[color=#9933ff][font=lucida calligraphy]Thanks for the advice, I already lost mine and can't find it anywhere, but thanks.

So now we're going to go over where it's easy and not so easy to get it on eh?

Army Base Sex is ok depending on where you are

Depending on the size of your car it is entirely possible to have it in the back seat. Just watch out for seatbelts. Tauruses are good for back seat sex, but Pontiac Sunfires suck! No really even in the front seat they suck. :evil:

It is entirely possible to do it in a twin bed. You just have to be careful that one or both of you don't fall off and for the love of who ever turn the damn phone off.

Finally doing the deed on an air matress is very unadvisable. Extremely. Just don't okay![/color][/font]

[Retribution]

[quote name='Raiyuu][FONT=Trebuchet MS]@ the relevant people: Is American sex education genuinely so bad that you learned more from [i]porn?[/i] Because we had it covered in cringeworthy detail at GCSE level - I think that's eleventh grade? - I say cringeworthy because I went to an all-male high school, with a female biology teacher. Up till that point I thought the verb [i]to giggle[/i'] applied exclusively to the fairer sex...[/font][/quote]
[size=1]Nah, I learned quite a bit from sex education. Perhaps its because I have five total years of it under my belt, but things were covered in great detail at the upper grades. Of course we didn't get into sexual [i]stimulation[/i], but rather the function of it and how everything worked.

I suppose it varies from place to place, with the South [I'm assuming] being more vague and conservative and the North being more open and to the point about things. For example, my class had an unrestricted question and answer session (slang included). And like you, my class was all male with a [hot] female teacher.[/size]