First boyfriend...

[Raina]

[QUOTE=Solo Tremaine][COLOR=#503F86]
Once you attach a significant other to you, he may feel that even though you're still friends, he's lost the chance to share that closer connection to you, even if it wasn't what he was looking for, if that makes sense. It may be more a case of 'living in hope but not doing anything about it' than an actual crush.[/COLOR][/QUOTE]
[COLOR=Blue]I never thought of it that way before... I learned something new today. \(^o^)/

I think that you're right. Because this best friend of mine did ask me out once... But it was more of a joke... My best friend, another friend, and I were having lunch and talking about relationships. Then my bestfriend suddenly said that he and I should date, since there's no one else... I had no interest in dating my bestfriend (and I had a crush on my current bf), so I laughed and said that I'll date him if he ever became older than me (my best friend's about a year younger than me)... We all had a good laugh... He's still single, by the way...

Does anyone have a good idea about how to fix my friendship with him?[/COLOR]

[triblackfire]

Well my first official boyfriend was more like a friend to me. During May when the amusement parks arive annually, he and I were always together. After we broke up, I automatically went out with my current boyfriend and we've been together ever since. My first boyfriend and I are really close friends then and now, and I can't believe that I ever dated him. It's so wierd. Don't worry, when we first kissed, we always bumped noses. Ha, it was a major turn off but it made up for some major laughs. :animesmil