Guest Kaise Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 Apparently, a bunch of people hate me for no reason. Add on top of this is one of my close friends whom i've known for about three years. On top of that, i can't land a chick if my life depended on it. I'm 16 and i've never had a DATE. I don't care if teenage romance ends in failure, i'd at least like to have tried it. My luck might have changed, i got this one girl to like me, then she turned around and asked out another guy. Realizing all thsi, i'm in a mass depression. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeadSeraphim Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [COLOR=Indigo][SIZE=1][font=arial][center][img]http://img155.imageshack.us/img155/8922/doingitwrongia7.jpg[/img][/center] But seriously, you're 16. Some people don't date till they're in their 20s. Dating some random girl should be the least of your worries right now (education is a good one to focus on instead, failing that: videogames).[/font][/SIZE][/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 LMAO at pic. I don't want to be one of those people. Another thing is that all i have are material objects to keep me company right now-video games. I'm getting an Xbox 360 which just adds moreso onto it, but it's also a pleasantry of sorts. I just want some sort of companionship, at least to have tried it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fyxe Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [size=1][color=slategray]You know. If you actually think about it, it's not so bad. There are always going to be low points where no one wants to hang out with you. But that can't really be helped, people are moody... and generally not very reliable. Just hybernate. It beats the hell out of making yourself depressed by thinking about all the **** that's going on.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 It is kinda bad for me when it's just the one thing you want the most and you can't EVER have it. I'm considering castrating myself because i'm not having kids. Sleeping would help, but Bleach comes on tonight and i have to work at 7 am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fyxe Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [color=slategray][size=1]Haha. Wait til college. Everyone gets action in college. And I'd just take the advice. This is good stuff. I have to deal with depression and severe anxiety every day. So don't complain. :p In a month, you'll look back and wonder why you made such a big deal out of this. [/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 In a month? I've been this way for years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baron Samedi Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [quote name='Kaise']In a month? I've been this way for years.[/quote] [size=1]I thought you only became emo in the past few hours? Anwyay, there are always times when you have a greater or lesser amount of friends, and where things are going better or worse. About all you can do is sit it out... or actively seek some kind of change that can help you out. If nothing else, the Internet will keep you company.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PWNED Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 Poor baby, I'm 17 and still never been dated. These problems aren't too bad in the long run as when you look at it, You could be aged 99 and still never have dated someone which sucks alot more then being 16 without having a single date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [QUOTE=Baron Samedi][size=1]I thought you only became emo in the past few hours? Anwyay, there are always times when you have a greater or lesser amount of friends, and where things are going better or worse. About all you can do is sit it out... or actively seek some kind of change that can help you out. If nothing else, the Internet will keep you company.[/size][/QUOTE] I've had this state of mind for years. I've just became MORE depressed in the last few hours to reach a state of Emo-ness. And that whole "It could be worse" argument doesn't fly with me. It could be better too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baron Samedi Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [quote name='PWNED']Poor baby, I'm 17 and still never been dated.[/quote][size=1] That makes you a whole year older. I'm afraid that's not enough to say that. [i]You lose![/i] And I didn't raise the 'things could be worse' argument. It's just a fact that there will be good and bad periods in your life. Either you weather them out yourself and adapt to it, or you try and pull yourself out of them. At this stage of life there are a lot of incredibly fickle people out there... wait for all that to sort itself out before you become worried about the crap that relationships can bring.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nerdsy Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [quote name='Kaise']And that whole "It could be worse" argument doesn't fly with me. It could be better too.[/quote] [COLOR=deepPink]You're never going to find a situation that can't be made better. If you adhere to that standard, then you'll always be "emo." That being said, being single at sixteen isn't nearly that bad. It's all just angst. You're a teenager, and part of being a teenager is dealing with rampant angst. The only way to battle it is to have patience.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 It's not so much being single as it is have been single for 16 years. I've had enough patience to the point where i'm fed up. I've tried pulling myself out of them, but it's like quicksand for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkAngel_2.0 Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [COLOR=Red][FONT=Book Antiqua] yeah.. your 16 and never dated but also you've never been dumped :animesmil :animeswea .. anyway I'm not so good at this cheering up thing . my definition for cheering up is mostly slapping you around until you get over it :catgirl: [/FONT][/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 Kaise, I don't think you've made a single post on OB that [i]wasn't[/i] somewhere along these lines. We've got nothing to say to help you as long as you continue to refrain from helping yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kaise Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 I want to be dumped. Because that means i'll have at least been in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkAngel_2.0 Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [quote name='Kaise']I want to be dumped. Because that means i'll have at least been in a relationship.[/quote] [COLOR=Red]True*barely looking back at what I wrote* nevermind what I said..... :D [/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
desertphoenix Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [quote name='Kaise']It's not so much being single as it is have been single for 16 years. I've had enough patience to the point where i'm fed up. I've tried pulling myself out of them, but it's like quicksand for me.[/quote] In a way, i kinda feel where you are coming from. when I was 13, I was dumped by my gf after two months and was brain dead for three. Still today i have no idea what I was doing for those three months. I've spent most of my freshman year brooding and isolating myself from anyone who seemed to want to care about me. I didn't really get back into my cool laid-back self till 10th grade. Now that I'm 16, i realize all of it wasn't wroth it. Learning that being a nice guy isn't the best what to get a gf or keep one (not my word), why change myself to find one? I realize there are more important things to me like fighting elitism. Most of all i want to have fun and be who i want to be. Why let anything stop me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nerdsy Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [quote name='Kaise']It's not so much being single as it is have been single for 16 years. I've had enough patience to the point where i'm fed up. I've tried pulling myself out of them, but it's like quicksand for me.[/quote] [color=deeppink]Now that's just focusing on semantics. I may not have explicitly stated it the same as you, but I've read your posts and I know what you're talking about. My stance does not change. Besdies, saying you've been single for 16 years is an exaggeration. Sure, you have been, but only a few of those have actually been dating years. Most 8-year-olds don't actually date. They just pretend. And saying you're tired of patience is just showing a lack of patience. Keep in mind that I'm not saying that patience will solve your problems. You'll always have problems, and many of them will be a lot worse than this. However, almost none of them will be easy to solve (including this one), and without a good deal of patience you'll end up making them a lot worse.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Horendithas Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 [COLOR=DarkRed]Don't feed the troll, guys. :animesigh ~indifference [B]Thread closed.[/B][/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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