Relationships...

[Lady Aura]

[quote name='Ravenstorture'][color=darkgreen][font=garamond]But it took me six years to learn!
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[CENTER][FONT="Palatino Linotype"]I think I learned my lesson the first time, hopefully. He's also been trying to make me jealous by posting pictures ofhim and his new girlfriend kissing on his myspace. I cried for a few hours, honestly, but I just don't care for either of them anymore.

He really wasn't worth my time and tears.[/FONT][/CENTER]

[Ol' Fighter]

Eh!!! SCREW THAT GUY AND THE FLUSSY HE'S WITH HE ISN'T WORTH YOUR TIME OR DAY OR ANYTHING ALRIGHT!!!!

And never cry over spilled milk when you can always get more:smirk:.

[yakiimo]

I'm glad that everyone has helped you to feel better. I just want to go against much of the grain from the rest of this thread.

At the tender age of 13, I met a boy. I started dating him, broke up with him twice. At the age of 26, we've been married for six years.

I want to tell you to love with all you have. I'm sure you've done that with all of your friends and loved ones, even this past relationship.

I wanted to tell you that you're not too young to be thinking of marriage if you really and truly care about the person. I wanted to marry Will a few months after we began dating. Being 14 by then, my parents heard none of it. In 1997, he proposed to me. It was five years later that we wed, after high school.

Everyone said it wouldn't work. Everyone said we would get divorced for marrying at 19 and 20. It doesn't always end. Don't lose hope that you'll find love at an early age. If everyone did, there's a good chance that many people would be awfully lonesome.

I want to say that you're a beautiful person for wanting to plan ahead like you did. You're a beautiful person for loving with so much of yourself that you would consider marriage after six months of a relationship. My parents were wed after only three months and are still married after 26 years. It is possible, so don't be sad. Follow your heart and it will never lead you wrong.

FFXII: Revenant Wings on the DS is a great game, just to let you know. FFIV on the DS comes out soon, too! Just a few more pick-me-ups heading your way. :)

I'm not trying to discredit everyone else for their advice. After all, all advice is a take-and-leave sort of thing. I just don't want you to go through life thinking that your love has to have all of these restraints. You can find love in other people, but first you have to find it in yourself. It's much more fulfilling to have that love overflow into someone you really care for. I believe that you can do all of this. You just have to believe yourself.

I think I've sounded enough like a fortune cookie, don't you?

[Roxie Faye]

[color=#9933ff]First, I'd just like to say that I am extremely impressed with your maturity level and your careful thought over the situation, already. You remind me of myself, actually, but a better version.

I won't give you a lot of advice because everyone else has already said all the important things. I'd like to add that you seem to have worked everything out, and in my opinion, you've done everything you can do. Even so, it's normal to feel bad after a break-up, whether you or the other person did the breaking-up. Maybe you'll be sad for a while, but it's just one of those things you'll have to "wait out." In the mean time, keep yourself busy with other friends, your video games, internet, whatever. Eventually it will get better. *hug*[/color]

[Lady Aura]

[quote name='MistressRoxie'][color=#9933ff]First, I'd just like to say that I am extremely impressed with your maturity level and your careful thought over the situation, already.[/color][/QUOTE]

[CENTER][FONT="Palatino Linotype"]Really? I thought I was going about this whole thing rather childishly.

I even went to eating ice-cream and crying for three hours straight. Not as if eating a lot of ice-cream is bad for me. Actually, I need it. I'm as skinny as a toothpick.[/FONT][/CENTER]

[Endrance]

[COLOR="RoyalBlue"]Dont be afraid to cry, time heals all wounds. *Wipes tear from cheek*[/COLOR] :animeswea;)

[Roxie Faye]

[quote name='Lady Aura'][CENTER][FONT="Palatino Linotype"]Really? I thought I was going about this whole thing rather childishly.

I even went to eating ice-cream and crying for three hours straight. Not as if eating a lot of ice-cream is bad for me. Actually, I need it. I'm as skinny as a toothpick.[/FONT][/CENTER][/QUOTE] [color=#9933ff]Aww. *hug* It's okay that you initially felt bad. Being upset and sad doesn't make you childish - it's natural to feel that way. And there are plenty, plenty of people who eat when they're upset. Now, if you were to, say, cause major Dramaz0rs on myspace and IRL through friends and stuff, thaaaat would be a childish response. ^^;;

From how you behave on OB, and the types of things you write, you really do seem like a very mature person - please take pride in it. You'll just have to be patient as everyone catches up to you. ;) [/color]