Phantasy Freak Posted February 24, 2002 Share Posted February 24, 2002 Ok..my friend stayed over this weekend.From friday to today.Well today we got mad at each other..We were playing Tekken Tag Tournament and i threw my controller down.she starts lecturing me like she is my mom.Well I stopped talking to her and she packed her stuff up and called her mom.I went to sleep cause i was really mad.When I got up she had left.Well got the her stuff she left and threw in a pile in my floor.I was cooled down but I still don't want to talk to her for a while.My dad told my mom and my mom got on my case and told me to call and tell her i am sorry.The only reason she likes this friend b/c "she is a sweet girl and a good influence on you(me)" She hates my other best friend Randi, my mom won't let me invite her over much.But every time i ask to have someone over she says" how about _______" i get kinda mad cause she acts like thats the only friend I should have..I am NOT about to call her and tell her i am sorry b/c I a not sorry right now. Thats all I can think of to b*tch about so i will shut my mouth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted February 24, 2002 Share Posted February 24, 2002 [color=crimson][size=1]I don't blame you, I wouldn't call and apologize either. Things happen, and both of you will eventually get over it. And if you don't particularly like her anyway, then I REALLy dont blame you for not calling.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spikey Posted February 24, 2002 Share Posted February 24, 2002 [SIZE=1]Well seems like you have a problam there, well talk to her mom or dad her her, and kinda be nice and sweat, and say how sorry you are.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted February 24, 2002 Share Posted February 24, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Spikey [/i] [B][SIZE=1]Well seems like you have a problam there, well talk to her mom or dad her her, and kinda be nice and sweet, and say how sorry you are.[/SIZE] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]I disagree. That girl does not deserve an apology. You shouldn't put yourself out like that, especially if you're the guest.. But what I want to know is...why did you get mad at her? Did she beat you at Tekken? If that is the case, then it was probably foolish of you to just get mad and be immature and throw a tantrum..[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 NO offense to you or your friend but the whole fight sounds childish...but anywayz...Yes you do need to apologize to her.,...stupid things like these should not interfere with your friendship, and if I was to give a guess you like her as a friend, but you act like you hate her becuase you are rebelling against your mother....Just say sorry you two will get over it and be good friends again.. She may not deserve an apology but it will end it faster and she will respect you more...(And personally I think throwing your controler is very immature) BUT I am not here to pass judgement...just say sorry even if you don't mean it. She will be happy get over it and next thing you know, you will take Lee, King, Law, or whoever and whoop her butt on Tekken ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spikey Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Queen Asuka [/i] [B] [color=crimson][size=1]I disagree. That girl does not deserve an apology. You shouldn't put yourself out like that, especially if you're the guest.. But what I want to know is...why did you get mad at her? Did she beat you at Tekken? If that is the case, then it was probably foolish of you to just get mad and be immature and throw a tantrum..[/color][/size] [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]I guess that would be kinda dumb, but then there is no way for an apolige, lol[/SIZE] [SIZE=1]Yeah I think your right you shouldn't throw a tentrem just because you lost at a game, what you should do is just practice all the chances you get.[/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DuoGod of Death [/i] [B]...Yes you do need to apologize to her.,...stupid things like these should not interfere with your friendship.. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]Yeah, but she said they werent really good friends anyway....And it'll all just fade away anyway, so it's not really a big deal.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 A friend is a friend period. You never know how strong the relationship will become...I say she should apoligize just for the fact, that you don't know if that girl will be the only girl to help her with her boy troubles or what not...And she may be the only true friend...Trust me I had that expierence, my friend that I thought little of has come through and become my only suport at my school.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DuoGod of Death [/i] [B]A friend is a friend period. You never know how strong the relationship will become...I say she should apoligize just for the fact, that you don't know if that girl will be the only girl to help her with her boy troubles or what not...And she may be the only true friend...Trust me I had that expierence, my friend that I thought little of has come through and become my only suport at my school.... [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]Well I guess I can see where you're coming from. I was seriously pissed off about something when I first read this topic and I responded irrationally. I'm not that rash to my friends. I got upset last night at my Anna, and I apologized about it. So yeah....[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvet paws Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 As much as I know people in your situation hate it...I think it would be easier in the long run if you appologised. Cross your fingers behind your back as you say it to remind yourself you dont mean it if you want...but do it all the same, through those gritted teeth... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 yeah. I'd reccomend that you wait till you are cool, calm and collected before calling your friend. That way you can be sane about it and make things right. Even if you friendship wasn't that strong before, a so so friend is still a friend. I personally hate conflict, but maybe you are different. I dunno. Just calm down about it then work things out w/ her. Yeah, parents are wierd. Parents are REALLY wierd. But in a mildly sweet way... i guess. Have a nice day! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 I suggest you apolagise, in the long run it'll work out right.... I mean, she could be so stuck up that you don't even know it, and she won't apolagise.... atleast if you apolagise, you know that you're kinder than her, and have the guts to apolagise.... :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 i say u should apologize, it's just a stupid game. and tekken isn't even all that good.....:p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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