BlueTrunks Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 I'm running out on everything that I don't have to look forword to. Like I have no friends and my own "Mother" doesn't even care about me anymore. So I'm sorta wondering what you think I should do with my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelus_Necare Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 do you have any other family besides your mom? if so you could go live with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted February 25, 2002 Author Share Posted February 25, 2002 Yeah my father that is even worse then my mother sence when I was little he disowned my. For some odd reason.:bawl: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelus_Necare Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 hmmmmm......maybe you can go to a home but I heard those can go one of two ways, good or bad........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted February 25, 2002 Author Share Posted February 25, 2002 Don't want a home sence I don't want my family to find me at all. so why are you trying to help me so much??? (not trying to be rude at all.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Char! Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 Well, I don't know what to tell you. All I can say is that you can't just get up and run away, first of all because you have to stay in your parent's custody until you're 18 (Unless you're not in the US, then I don't know), second because if you run away then you'll make your folks even more upset with you, and you have to salvage any kind of relationship you have... Talk to a counselor, a teacher, or better yet sit down with your mom and have a face-to-face talk with her... It may be hard, but it might help. Above all else, it'll at least tell your mom that you care enough to try. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boris Posted February 25, 2002 Share Posted February 25, 2002 if you have nowhere to go, and no friends, i would really want to do something like school, go to college, or if you are not old enoughf to do that, i would go out and find a job, and there allways "match.com" if its a worst case thing, and you have nowhere to go, i know the army is allways looking for people. do a 4 year term, you might meat a few people-_- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted February 25, 2002 Author Share Posted February 25, 2002 Theres another thing I wouldn't do sence I hate this country more then anything in the world. I couldn't join the army if I wanted to. But sence I'm 16 I can get emanapatied. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mornigndew Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 [color=blue][size=1]the other gave you a lot of great ideas. Try one of them. Though you don't like what happen around you, but you need to make a living. Just make your decision wisely. [/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pastbyer Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 [color=indigo]Well I don't really know what to say. So... Just talk to someone or something... You don't have to tell me, but what country are you in? (I know people fret about security, so don't worry, I won't tell anyone)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 That happened to me a while back (Junior Year of high school)...I took a long vacation away from where I lived...(as in another country). I toured for a while and forgot all my problems because I saw much worse problems there...so when I came back, it' wasn't so bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jabroni3:16 Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 Well if life is as hard as you say, i'd go live with an Uncle or something, Get a job if nothing else, that way you aren't around Her tht much. Look to God, he has answered all my questions. Sorry but thats just my way of life, some may not like me for what i have said, but it's a choice everyone has to make. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pastbyer Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by RicoTranzrig [/i] [B]That happened to me a while back (Junior Year of high school)...I took a long vacation away from where I lived...(as in another country). I toured for a while and forgot all my problems because I saw much worse problems there...so when I came back, it' wasn't so bad. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=indigo]You know, that a good idea.....[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Pastbyer [/i] [B] [color=indigo]You know, that a good idea.....[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] Yeah, but you have to remember he is on his own here, so maybe he doesn't have any money.... Dude, what are you running out on? School? Is it really that bad? Maybe you should go back home.Sit down, and make your mum sit down with you, and talk to her. Tell her what's wrong, and hopefully she'll listen.... If it isn't that easy, maybe you should call Kids Help Line, or tell someone you trust, like a teacher. For all you know, if you don't come home one day, she might go all panicy and look all over town for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted February 26, 2002 Author Share Posted February 26, 2002 No if I left I would go to a different state or even country sence I don't like Washington State at all. This place is where I have lived my entire life and no ones ever given me a chance to express myself. so I think I'm might as well live where I know at least one person will trully love and care for me. (My GF) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duckie Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 The same kind of thing has been happening to me lately. Well, not really lately, it's been happening since about September or October. I keep trying to figure out a solution to this. Just, whatever you do, don't burn your finger like I did. I asked my mom to take me to a psychiatrist, and she keeps saying "There's nothing wrong with you, I'm not taking you," so basically, I don't really have anything to do. This is a really pointless post. But really, the way I get away is just by walking for awhile. If you feel like you have a problem you need to fix, just go for a walk someplace, and think about all the ways you can solve it. It helps me a lot, even though I can barely ever go outside my house, except for school, because of my overprotective parents, who got divorced about 6 years ago. I'll shut up now. Just do what someone else said. :drunk: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvet paws Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 Awww hunny! I'm kinda peeved that you didn't tell me anything was wrong. You know I'm ALWAYS here for you! PM me and explain it abit better will you hun? Lovin you always and you bloody know it!!!! *hugz* Larz X :love2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted February 26, 2002 Author Share Posted February 26, 2002 I really don't know what I'm going to do right now and Velvet check your pm's. Please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelus_Necare Posted February 26, 2002 Share Posted February 26, 2002 I hope I didn't annoy you too mutch when I tried to help Bluetrunks.........I'm just willing to help that's all, I guess I know how it feels. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted February 27, 2002 Author Share Posted February 27, 2002 Now who did you annoy??? I dosen't look like you annoied anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelus_Necare Posted February 27, 2002 Share Posted February 27, 2002 oh you're back how are things? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted February 27, 2002 Author Share Posted February 27, 2002 good but what do you mean you are back I can only do this stuff when I'm at school. :( So anyways do you have anymore sugestions?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelus_Necare Posted February 27, 2002 Share Posted February 27, 2002 you didn't want to go into a home right? so I suggest maybe moving in with a friend.......that might work.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted February 27, 2002 Author Share Posted February 27, 2002 Yeah that's right no homes. but I was going to go to a friends house just they live a bit far to get there. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyca_lightwing Posted February 27, 2002 Share Posted February 27, 2002 What you should do with you life is up to you and not anyone else or there would be no point in it being "your" life. Procedes to give life advice anyway ;) I've been in a similar situation to you so I know how it feels to not get on with your parents but in my oppinion it is best to make the best you can of a bad situation. i tried the whole moving out of home thing and ended up in so much debt I had to eat humble pie and move back home which was so humiliating and left me worse off than before. What I wish I had done was carry on with school then go to college. Get an education then you can be self sufficient and them if you really want you can cut all your ties with your parents, but just be careful not to burn your bridges too early. Think of the plus points of living with your mum like free food and a roof over your head even if you can't get on, just stick it out, it's only a few years out of your life and if you make good now then you can do whatever you want in the future. I hope this helps, but at the end of the day the decision is yours, i wish you the best of luck :) ...and yes people do tell me I talk too much :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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