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Should I do Theropy???  

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  1. 1. Should I do Theropy???

    • Yes, I should listen to my mother
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    • NO, I should listen to my mother
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She thinks I need theropy just because I'm not as happy as a 16 year old that is from a split up family and has no friends where he moved and doesn't want to be here anymore. Plus she took me from my real mother when I was 10 weeks old. :demon: and I really wish she would just meet the :devil: hencman, and also just get off of my ***** so that I can try and be happy. She could make this all better if she would just get my AD pills. (Anti-Depressents) help if you can.
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[COLOR=deeppink]well she took you from your real mom, that is sad, she [COLOR=deeppink]thinks you need theropy, because you are not happy that you have no friends, ah well i don't know there is a saying that sasy "you should alwas respect your parents" and so then i don't really know what to tell you, but ah i would think no.[/COLOR]
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by super goku [/i]
[B]even though i think u should respect you parents i think you shouldn' listen to her [/B][/QUOTE]


yeah i know



[COLOR=orange]okay lol now i think you should talk to your mother and tell her how you feel, and what you want to do..... tell her your feelings, and kinda have a sob when you talk, and just buy your time, spend time with her lol.[/COLOR]
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Bah. Therapy doesn't do ****. I know from experience. All you do is sit there and talk about your feelings. Talking about your problems makes you think about your problems. Thinking about your problems makes you depressed. Therefore, therapy is nothing but a waste of money.

On a lighter side, just try and cope with life. Take things one at a time, day by day. It's how I live, and I work through everything. Oh, and one final note. Don't let anyone every step on your toes. If someone steps on your toes, break their foot.

That means, do things your way. Don't let people get in your face, and push you around(I.E. your mom).

-Neil
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[FONT=century gothic]You may not much care for her, but I'm sure she isn't suggesting this because she wants to make your life miserable. She's trying to help you out.

You say you'd be fine if you had Anti-depressent pills? Mayhap. But does it bother you at all that you'd rather depend on them than cheer [i]yourself[/i] up? It may just be me, but I think that depending on pills to keep me from depression would simply depress me in and of itself.

Therapy isn't necessarily a bad thing. But you won't get anything out of it if you don't put anything in. If you plan on being dark and contrary through the sessions, don't bother going, because it won't help. If you can try and be at least semi-open to them, they may well help you.

Think about it, okay?[/FONT]
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[color=indigo] I think that you should go to therapy. However, it won't help you unless you go with an open mind. Several people have said that therapy is crap. If it really was crap they would have stopped using it as a primary method of treatment when HMO's came into creation. But HMO's all support therapy and cover it. Plus, there are zero downsides in going ti see a therapist. If you don't like it or think you need it don't go back.[/color]
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Cera [/i]
[B][FONT=century gothic]
Therapy isn't necessarily a bad thing. [/FONT] [/B][/QUOTE]

[color=deeppink]I've been trying to convince myself that lately. It has been suggested for a long time that I get therapy for dealing with past stuff that's happened in my life, but I think I'm strong enough to deal without it...

...apparently my parents think otherwise.

I dunno, I think therapy could be a big help to someone...I just don't think it's right for me personally :)[/color]
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therapy helped me alot. at first i wanted to just end it wall and shoot myself, but therapy got me away from that feeling. maybe it was because the therapist had free candy, but i think it was because i could get all my feelings out and discuss them instead of bottle them up. but that candy was damn good. :tasty:
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[COLOR=darkblue]I tried therapy once...by a paid professional...but it didn't do anything for me...I refused to take drugs...and I just rode it out. If you want real therapy...talk to a priest or a pastor...they know what they're doing and they'd probably do it for for free.

As for listening to your mother...I reccomend it...unless you strongly believe what she says goes against you.[/COLOR]
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Personally in my opinion if a lady is cruel enough to take youi way from your mother, and not ask you how you feel about it the person is messed up. If I were you I would say she needs theropy, and Depression is just a stage I mean god you go in it and outta it..theropy isn't needed...SO yeah I would say No I don't agree with her....
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Son Goten [/i]
[B]maybe it was because the therapist had free candy.......but that candy was damn good. :tasty: [/B][/QUOTE]

haha...lol.....aww, now i wish i went to that guy...
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DuoGod of Death [/i]
[B]Personally in my opinion if a lady is cruel enough to take youi way from your mother, and not ask you how you feel about it the person is messed up. If I were you I would say she needs theropy, and Depression is just a stage I mean god you go in it and outta it..theropy isn't needed...SO yeah I would say No I don't agree with her.... [/B][/QUOTE]
Well it's kind of hard to ask a child who is 10 weeks old, chances are his mother was to young to take care of him or she had messed something up earlier in her life that prevented her to take care of him. He was basically just saying he was adopted at 10 weeks of age. My vote goes to listen to your mother, if not seek a pastor's words of wisdom, and by all means don't let this get out of hand.
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you need to talk to someone, i have gone down both the medication and the therapy routes, for me, the therapy was much more effective in treating my depression. my therapist helped me to figure out reasons for my depression and how to deal with it.

and duo, it's not JUST a phase, depression is an illness that is chronic, trust me....
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DuoGod of Death [/i]
[B]Depression is just a stage I mean god you go in it and outta it.[/B][/QUOTE]

Well I'm always depressed untel I got a GF that I knew (or thought I knew) that she loved and cared for me well I guessed wrong and she broke up with me and all this **** has been going wrong ever sence I was a little kid. at the age of three I was in threopy and it didn't help me at all. then again when I was six. now my mother says if I get the pills I'm going to have to go back to something she knows I will hate. And now that my school life, social life and home life all sux. I'm always going to be depressed untel one of them is better.
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I went to therapy (cause of the whole suicide thing) and that was he11. But then I when again, and I got these really cool happy pills and it's all good. :cool: I was talking to people! I didn't cry anymore. I was happy. I got along better with my little sister too. I wasn't so lonely. I had friends for a change, really friends that I could talk to about everything and anything. If I was mad or sad, I could talk to someone about it and it was OK. I was the best thing that ever happened to me. Sure, school is still school, I still don't always get along with my Mom and dad, but I don't mind so much anymore. It's bearable.

All in all, do it. Nothing bad can come from it. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Do it, man! Pweeease!

PS; PAXIL ROCKS! 'Cause it's all good!:cool: :) :D I'm done now. *sipppp*
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ok Renee so you think I should go and do it all over again and again untel I find the right person to talk to?? well what if they don't give me these "Happy Pills" that you got. What good would it be to talk about all of these depressing things and all of that just so they can say that their pockets have a little bit more money then it used too. But other then the fact that it didn't help it could make it even worse for me and all but thanx for your sentimental thought and caring and all. Well I might try it and all just for some people I know.
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Herman Nation [/i]
[B][COLOR=royalblue]Hey, you should listen to your mother real or not...[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE]

I tried last night and all but she just wouldn't listen to me at all. She wanted to complain about her day and not even care if I was alright or anything so I don't think talking to that person is going to help.
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