Heaven's Cloud Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 [color=indigo] I know that the title of this thread suggests a Rocky and Bullwinkle theme, my dillemma has more of a bad sitcom flavor. I am trapped in the dating game, and have gone on more dates then I care to remember in the past two weeks. I have taken out five girls, and have had five horrible dates. I think my problem is that I am attracted to girls that have the personalities of pet goldfish and the brains of hamsters. Now, I know I'm no prize either, but it seems that I am looking for all the wrong girls in all the right places... Well my question to you is, should I ask any of these girls out again? Should I look past the first date an see if the second date is better? Or should I just date around more and keep dessimating my finances?[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 Well, I would at least pick out your favorite of the five and give her one more try. Just so you're sure youd on't like her. After that, its your call. -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 Hmm.... Maybe you should pick out the best one, and ask her out. If that doesn't work out again, go to the second best one. Or go find another girl as good as you find the other ones. ...Another solution, is just wait and see if one of them asks [i]you[/i] out again...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryan Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 [size=3] Just look at your choices. Like they said pick your favorite and go out again.[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 Seems to me you're more interested in quantity instead of quality. :rolleyes: You might not even know it, but you kinda answered your question. If these chicks are like barbie dolls on the first date, chances are they're not going to get any smarter. Here's an idea!!! Next time you see a girl you that appeals to you, why don't you strike up a conversation first before asking for her number. Throw a few intelligent topics along with your smooth talk and see how she handles herself. If you see potential then proceed to ask her out. But if she's as dumb as a nut, you'll find out soon enough and the only money you'll waste is that one drink you buy her, unless she's given an open invitation for you to get lucky;) Anyhow...good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 i say just go on another date with the one u liked the most. and one way to make them stop dating u is to take em to Arby's or something. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 [SIZE=1][color=indigo]Why don't you try being friends with a/the girl that you are interested in. Get to know her, see if she;s actually worth your time, see if she's actually interested in you. You know? I mean, I've been interested in this one girl for about five months now and I still haven't "asked her out" yet. I'm still getting to know her and how she acts and stuff. I mean, for a few weeks I've had started to become unattracted to her because even though she does offer a great emtional relationship type thing, it wasn't very physical (as in hugs and stuff, not making out or anything). But in a recent note she wrote to me she somehow got on the topic on how her parents never hugged her as a child and when they went to a psycologist or something that they SHOULD give her hugs and stuff. And how from then on she couldn't leave anywhere without them giving her a hug or something. So then she'd always start hugging her friends and they'd think she was weird so she stopped. So ya, get to know people before you start dating them or whatnot.[/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pastbyer Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 [color=indigo]I'd really hate to repeat all of the above but just find someone you like and try to get to know her a bit. It'll save you a LOT of money.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarkM Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Justin [/i] [B]Well, I would at least pick out your favorite of the five and give her one more try. Just so you're sure youd on't like her. After that, its your call. -Justin [/B][/QUOTE] Thats exactally what I would do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defcon5 Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by PiroMunkie [/i] [B][SIZE=1][color=indigo]Why don't you try being friends with a/the girl that you are interested in. [/size][/color] [/B][/QUOTE] Don't become to good a friend with her. I have had that happen before and the girl didn't to be my girlfriend because want us to hate each other if we broke up. Our friendship meant to much to her. So it's just a word of warning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Macaiodh Posted March 10, 2002 Share Posted March 10, 2002 rotflmao at the title of this thread! i always talk to the guy on the phone for awhile before deciding if he's worth dating. that's what i would do. maybe you asked them out too fast, before you were comfortable together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted March 11, 2002 Author Share Posted March 11, 2002 [color=indigo] Wow, I was really drunk when I posted this thread, so I am surprised my original post is even slightly coherent. I don't really think I was clear on stating my problem, so hear is an attempt to clarify my situation. Right now I am juggling a full load of classes plus two jobs. It seems that in y free time I am either on the computer or...well actually I am pretty much on the computer. But I tend to rush into dating because I have so little free time. It is easier for me to "schedule" a date to fit into my free time then it is for me to pal around with a couple girls for several months just to decide if I want to start a relationship withone of them. Well, I apprciate your advice, especially LM. I think I will try the phone thing...although I have a bad habit of playing my guitar while I am on the phone...It seems like a good way to get to know the other persons personality.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted March 11, 2002 Share Posted March 11, 2002 [color=crimson][size=1]From the sound of it to me, it seems as though you're only dating these girls because you are attracted to the way they look, then they turn out to be complete airheads....sounds so typical...[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lia Posted March 11, 2002 Share Posted March 11, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Queen Asuka [/i] [B][color=crimson][size=1]From the sound of it to me, it seems as though you're only dating these girls because you are attracted to the way they look, then they turn out to be complete airheads....sounds so typical...[/color][/size] [/B][/QUOTE] typical guys....never look past the looks...geeze FINALY sum1 agrees with me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted March 11, 2002 Share Posted March 11, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by ssj chic [/i] [B] typical guys....never look past the looks...geeze FINALY sum1 agrees with me [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]Amen....it's so hard to find a guy who actually is attracted to a girl on an intellectual level. I think my PiroMunkie here is one of the very rare finds of that type...he's so caring...I'm glad he's my husband, LOL. By the way Piro, good luck in your relationships and your two chicas. Just to let you know, MINE is awesome...*sighs happily* ANYWHO.... So yeah, geez, just get to know her first...don't date only the AIRHEADS![/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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