Friendship broken:(

[Guest BulmaVegeta1]

I don't know what's wrong with my best friend, she hasn't talked to me in like a week. I don't know what I did to her. She has totally ingored me, and I don't know what to do. Can someone help me?:huh: It really hurts me that she dosen't want to talk to me, and I told her that if she needed to talk to someone, I'd alwasy be there for her. I feel so bad!:bawl: :crying: What would you do if something like this happened to you?

[Nozomi]

I would write a letter to that person. And ask what's wrong and if you have something done wrong to her, say sorry in case too. Even if you don't know what you've done and say that she always can explain to you what's bothering her.
Maybe you should try that. :)
I hope everything will come alright again.

[Spikey]

Well I would simply write a letter telling her that you miss her. Tell her that you wish to talk to her. Ask her what is wrong. If she has an e-mail address simply e-mail her. If just is on AIM, IM her. Saying the sam thing I said. Or if you get a chance talk to her mom. Tell her what you want to tell your best friend. Ehich is what I said earlier. Hope that helps a little.

[MarkM]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Spikey [/i]
[B]Well I would simply write a letter telling her that you miss her. Tell her that you wish to talk to her. Ask her what is wrong. If she has an e-mail address simply e-mail her. If just is on AIM, IM her. Saying the sam thing I said. Or if you get a chance talk to her mom. Tell her what you want to tell your best friend. Ehich is what I said earlier. Hope that helps a little. [/B][/QUOTE]

that is what i would do

[Guest Matt]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Spikey [/i]
[B]Well I would simply write a letter telling her that you miss her. Tell her that you wish to talk to her. Ask her what is wrong. If she has an e-mail address simply e-mail her. If just is on AIM, IM her. Saying the same thing I said. Or if you get a chance talk to her mom. Tell her what you want to tell your best friend. Which is what I said earlier. Hope that helps a little. [/B][/QUOTE]
[color=red][b]I agree. I would also try to confront her when there is no one else around and ask her what's the matter. She just might be going thru the puberty(i think ur 12, so she might be around the same age) p¡ssy stage. My g/f did the same thing. She would talk to me or say anything. Then one day, she started to cry and we worked things out. She said it was her fault, but it wasn't. So if it is puberty, it will go away eventually.[/b][/color]

[Charles]

I've always went by a simple motto: "Don't turn your back to others; That's not where your heart is."

If I were you I would confront her and tell her to cut the crap. Demand a straight answer and tell her that what she's doing is hurting your friendship. You shouldn't have to wait in the dark, while she gives you the cold shoulder. It's not what friendship is about. If she refuses to comply, then her friendship isn't worth your time, because friendship isn't meant to make you feel bad.

I mean, don't be harsh or anything, but she should at least tell you that she needs time to herself instead of leaving you hanging.

[asar]

I think your priority is to find out why she is acting this way and if there is anything that you did that you didn't realise. It's important to resolve it quickly, you don't want it to fester and then for you guys to grow apart. Call her so that if she hangs up then you know it's her that's got the problem. Or visit her so that she can't get away (apart from slamming the door) and she has to talk to you.

[Evil-Sheep]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Crazy White Boy [/i]
[B]I've always went by a simple motto: "Don't turn your back to others; That's not where your heart is."

If I were you I would confront her and tell her to cut the crap. Demand a straight answer and tell her that what she's doing is hurting your friendship. You shouldn't have to wait in the dark, while she gives you the cold shoulder. It's not what friendship is about. If she refuses to comply, then her friendship isn't worth your time, because friendship isn't meant to make you feel bad.

I mean, don't be harsh or anything, but she should at least tell you that she needs time to herself instead of leaving you hanging. [/B][/QUOTE]

Even without being harsh, dont you think thats a rather rough atitude? especially if they're twelve and she might actually be in puberty stages (delicate stages..). I wouldnt do that if I were you, I would simply E-mailed her like some wrote above and told her I wanna meat her in person and figure things out, I dont know bout you guys, but i'm a better talker face-to-face than on E mail or phone, so thats what I would do, of course I would try to understand what's wrong with her on phone 2..

I think you got the straight of what i'm writing here

[Charles]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Evil-Sheep [/i]
[B]

Even without being harsh, dont you think thats a rather rough atitude? especially if they're twelve and she might actually be in puberty stages (delicate stages..). I wouldnt do that if I were you, I would simply E-mailed her like some wrote above and told her I wanna meat her in person and figure things out, I dont know bout you guys, but i'm a better talker face-to-face than on E mail or phone, so thats what I would do, of course I would try to understand what's wrong with her on phone 2..

I think you got the straight of what i'm writing here [/B][/QUOTE]

Well, yeah, I know it comes across that way in writing (which is why I put that thing in about not being harsh). You see, I'm just giving the bare bones of what needs to be straightened out. Like, she could just go up to the girl and say, "I just want to know if you're mad at me, because that's what it seems like."

If the person still doesn't answer, it'd be best to leave them alone, because it's what they want.

[James]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Crazy White Boy [/i]
[B]

Well, yeah, I know it comes across that way in writing (which is why I put that thing in about not being harsh). You see, I'm just giving the bare bones of what needs to be straightened out. Like, she could just go up to the girl and say, "I just want to know if you're mad at me, because that's what it seems like."

If the person still doesn't answer, it'd be best to leave them alone, because it's what they want. [/B][/QUOTE]

[color=royalblue]Yeah, I see what you mean.

It's like with one of my friends a couple of years ago -- there was this girl he really liked in our class. And she showed signs of being interested in him, infact...they went out a couple of times.

But often, the next day, she'd pretend he didn't exist. She didn't acknowledge their relationship...which was really pretty odd...

And I remember being at a party where most of our year level was there...and she had one of her friends talk to him.

The whole thing was so stupid. The more it went on, the more distressing it was for him.

So he, myself and another friend went for a walk. And I basically said to him "If she's going to play games like this, then just dump her. She should be the one talking to you, not her friends".

That may sound harsh, but the whole thing was so childish...and sometimes you have to be very frank with your friends if they are fooling around -- you just have to lay your cards on the table and tell them how you feel and ask how they feel. If you get some kind of silly, garbled response...then it's probably not worth it.

Geh, I hope that made sense...it's kinda late here. o_O[/color]

[Foredaddy]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Son Goten [/i]
[B]
[color=red][b]I agree. I would also try to confront her when there is no one else around and ask her what's the matter. She just might be going thru the puberty(i think ur 12, so she might be around the same age) p¡ssy stage. My g/f did the same thing. She would talk to me or say anything. Then one day, she started to cry and we worked things out. She said it was her fault, but it wasn't. So if it is puberty, it will go away eventually.[/b][/color] [/B][/QUOTE]

hear! hear!:devil:

[velvet paws]

Heh, have you managed to sort things out yet? I hope so. If not I agree with just giving her some space if she shows signs that you're her problem (nasty to think about I know). In a week or two..maybe even a month if it's really bad...but start talking to her again casually, and hopefully she will have chilled out and things will be fine again.

[Guest BulmaVegeta1]

*Sniff* Everyones giving me all this great advice!!! And guess what? She isn't mad at me anymore!! It turned out that it was the "puberty" stage. We're both 12 year old girls going through the same thing. I told her that and I guess she felt a lot better. I dunno, but whatever happened, I'm glad she's finally over it.

[Evil-Sheep]

I'm glad things sorted up, good for you!:p