sexyjessie4 Posted April 17, 2002 Author Share Posted April 17, 2002 Okay, I've talked to this boy so much in the past week and basically he says he is breaking up w/ his girlfriend after prom (which is about 3 weeks away) cause if he did it before it would make everything weird at prom and no matter what he has to go with her. But I think that is stupid and I told him that I don't want to be the girl who is always there for him and just keeps getting hurt and blah blah blah we talked about that for awhile. Yeah, I trust what he says, but also his girlfriend is psycho and I'm seriously scared she'll hurt me when she finds out I'm w/ him. Hmm...thoughts on any of this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted April 17, 2002 Share Posted April 17, 2002 [color=indigo] This guy sounds kind of strange, and I have a feeling that it is probably due to one of two things. First, it may be because he wants to sleep with the girl and figures that if he can't do it on prom then it will be time to move on (I know that sounds strange but I had a friend that did that when I was a junior). Second, he is a complete jerk. If he likes you he shouldn't be putting you on the back burner like he is. From a guys perspective, it seems to me that this guy more then likely is just BSing you. He probably just wants to try and hookup with you then leave you blowing in the wind. I know I said that guys should be given a second chance, and if he dumped his girlfriend, I would tell you that you should definatly take him back. But with all of this new drama, I say Drop him...[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexyjessie4 Posted April 17, 2002 Author Share Posted April 17, 2002 Well, its not due to the first reason because he's already sleeping w/ her (as Goddess21 so nicely put it, his girlfriend is kind of a ho...lol) and I'd like to think he's not a jerk but he very well could be and I know it sounds like he is....above all I think he's just immature and doesn't know what he wants and doesn't know enough that having a real relationship (me) is more important than just a sex partner (his current girlfriend). So yeah... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Posted April 17, 2002 Share Posted April 17, 2002 At this point, I honestly can't give any advice. Wait if you want to...and if you think you should. That's the best I can do. However, if you do decide to wait and he backs out again...I think you should try to forget him...hard as that may be. -Justin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexyjessie4 Posted May 4, 2002 Author Share Posted May 4, 2002 Hey y'all.....just wanted to let u know that he ended up staying w/ her...but I am fine!! I said goodbye to him and I have no regrets about anything. I haven't felt so relieved and happy in so long....and its all because I finally got up enough strenth to say goodbye. So thanks everyone for all your advice! It all turned out okay in the end! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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