Jamvis Posted April 14, 2002 Share Posted April 14, 2002 What do you think? heres the story: This girl i know is like a bird in a guilded cage. She is in love with this guy but the guy has a girlfriend. She shows no interest in anyone else because of him. Is this a hard tryer, one Bull-headed girl or is it just plain trifelling? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted April 14, 2002 Share Posted April 14, 2002 Somethings in life can be hard to grasp with a hand... however, if one is patient and understanding, the hand will become closer to the object it wants to grasp. In other words... if she wants him that bad, she can sit on her butt and wait till it happens. If she isn't patient, she needs to leanr the words "move on"... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stitch Posted April 14, 2002 Share Posted April 14, 2002 i have a saying relating to TN's it is "sometimes you just gotta be patient and the thing u want the most just might come to you" yeah but i think she is gonna turn that guy off if she bug's him i'm also in the position but i'm not doing anything i'm just waitin for him or her to dump one another. ~GG~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pressure Posted April 14, 2002 Share Posted April 14, 2002 [color=purple]That sounds like me.. Waiting really doesn't help.. Tell her to move on.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelus_Necare Posted April 14, 2002 Share Posted April 14, 2002 I was in that situation once and waiting only made it worse, tell your friend there's plenty of fish in the sea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinetic Posted April 14, 2002 Share Posted April 14, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Angelus_Necare [/i] [B]I was in that situation once and waiting only made it worse, tell your friend there's plenty of fish in the sea. [/B][/QUOTE] Exactly, she needs to move on, and not interfere with someone else's relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted April 14, 2002 Share Posted April 14, 2002 [color=crimson][size=1]Yeah, but if she really likes the guy, then why would she want to give up? What if his relationship he's in right now eventually fails? Then it will be her chance to move in. That's what happened to one of my best friends, and I'm pretty sure she's glad she waited. But if it doesn't look like she's ever going to get the guy, I think she should consider her other options.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinetic Posted April 14, 2002 Share Posted April 14, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Queen Asuka [/i] [B][color=crimson][size=1]Yeah, but if she really likes the guy, then why would she want to give up? What if his relationship he's in right now eventually fails? Then it will be her chance to move in. That's what happened to one of my best friends, and I'm pretty sure she's glad she waited. But if it doesn't look like she's ever going to get the guy, I think she should consider her other options.[/color][/size] [/B][/QUOTE] Thats true, if the relationship fails then that would be great for her (sorry for the other one), but if it is a good relationship, it is not her place to meddle (or was she just waiting?) if she just waits I don't think she will get much satisfaction. It all depends on the age though, like if it's one of those 12 yr old relationships she won't have to wait long :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted April 14, 2002 Share Posted April 14, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Aries [/i] [B] Thats true, if the relationship fails then that would be great for her (sorry for the other one), but if it is a good relationship, it is not her place to meddle (or was she just waiting?) if she just waits I don't think she will get much satisfaction. It all depends on the age though, like if it's one of those 12 yr old relationships she won't have to wait long :D [/B][/QUOTE] [color=crimson][size=1]*Laughs* Yeah, that's pretty much true, I believe. As long as she's just waiting I think that's okay, unless she's denying herself the right to be happy. If she's all sulky and mopey and depressed and whiney, then she DEFINATELY needs to move on, ya know? But to each his own...I'm pretty sure that if I liked a guy enough, I'd want to wait for him. Of course, in my eyes, I have the perfect guy for me and I'm so happy it's not even funny...[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinetic Posted April 15, 2002 Share Posted April 15, 2002 Man, I wish I lived in Anime World, you could have anyone you want. But I'd end up being one of the guys all the girls make fun of and pick on lol (not in R/L, I hope...:laugh: ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spikey Posted April 17, 2002 Share Posted April 17, 2002 I have a suggestion. Have her try to go out with another boy. Then do all she can to mess up there dates. J/k. Well tell her that she needs to make sure she keeps her eye out for another man. If she finds one tell her to go out with him. When she brakes up with the boy friend, (have her do) just have her act like she's all lonely. Then I bet 'cha the boy will talk to her. If the boy has never noticed her before, act like she's the new kid. But good luck. If she trys it she's a hard worker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zachary Posted April 17, 2002 Share Posted April 17, 2002 Mostly Bull Headed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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