Fall Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 Now at the moment, I've been going to a new school for over a term now (something like 11 weeks).... Sure, I've met a heap of people, and talk to them, and all of that stuff, but I still have a thing going on... At recess and lunch, all the people I know and talk to, go off to their own groups of friends, and I'm left here by myself (or as a "nigel" as some [i]coolo's[/i] say).... I seem to have a great amount of "shyness" in me, and I can't just go up and blend in with other groups or anything.... though I am starting to find a group where I hang around with. :D I'm just asking, is there anyone who has this shyness problem? (No, you don't have to try and help me here, because I'm pretty sure as time comes and goes I'll find friends to hang around..... And sorry, I can't think of any other word then "group"... :toothy: ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittie Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 [color=royalblue] i'm a bit shy i must admit...though i think some people might disagree with me...but deep down i'm treally shy[/color] :wave: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Warlock Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 Well, when I was in Primary School (Elementary School for all you Americans and such), I did have this 'fitting in' kind of problem, and for some reason I couldn't really make myself go up to a group and join in that often. Sure, there was one group I fitted in with well, but there were times when I just didn't join in for some strange reason... But now that I'm in High School, I really don't have the 'shyness' problem. I actually fit in quite well... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flash Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 Same with Warlock... Well, kinda. I've always hung around with one sorta group, but since High School, I've made alot more friends and such, in different 'social groups', I guess... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephiroth Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 for some reason, shyness has never been a factor with me, I seem to be just one of [I]those[/I] type's of people who can always blend in, and be a bit loud and noticed.... hmm, I'm loud? O_o;;; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liamc2 Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 wooo! Nigelated all the way! *cough* Shyness is my main weakness that resurfaces every now and again, but its not as much as a problem that it was in grade 8 *laughs* I do waaay too many weird things during lunch O_o *remembers the turkey dance of boredom* *falls over laughing* good times :D hmm. .friscan. .the epic game that involves a crushed coca-cola can and the frisbee like throwing of it *returns to nostalgia avenue* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cloricus Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 yes liamc2 - if you had dignity left after doing some of throughs things I don?t think you still would be shy.... and you missed out making the chickens out of tea towels! and the rest........ lol oh yer and I'm sort of shy - I don?t really like people or more what they would do so I say away from them - would that be the same as shy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duo Maxwell Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Sephiroth [/i] [B]for some reason, shyness has never been a factor with me, I seem to be just one of [I]those[/I] type's of people who can always blend in, and be a bit loud and noticed....[/B][/QUOTE] Yeah I'm the same, but I do get extreamly nervous sometimes and when I do I'm as quiet as hell I hardly say a word... but there has been times when I was shy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spikey Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 [COLOR=royalblue]I am a little shy. Like when I am around people I know, but haven't seen in a long time. A long time. I am also shy when I have to fit in with a certain group of kids. Like hwen I want to stay with one of my other friends. But luckily for me I have never been to a different school. I have lived in my same house for my whole life. It's really cool. Besides my romm. It's small.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan L Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 I used to be shy, but then I got a job... seriously, you'd be surprised what a job does to your confidence, especially if you work with customers all the time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adam Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 I'm so shy that I don't even talk on the Internet that much! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geist Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 I'm sort of shy. Sometimes, I'll get the nerve to say :wave: to someone, but if I get to know them real well, I'll :babble: their ears off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zachary Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 Im extremely shy. I never talk to anyone in school unless they talk to me first. Im probaly one of the shyest people around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeathKnight Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 [color=crimson]I'm extremely outgoing and unshy o-O. In my veiw point, you cant lose much, so just do it and see their reactions at least. But I never did 'fit in' no matter how outgoing I Was. So I usually hung out alone on the playground, throwing rocks at a tree -.-' so, it doesnt really matter if you're shy or not. Its the groups decison of weather to add you into their ranks or not...[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sere Tuscumbia Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 I'm shy unless I know the person, and I HATE talking to people who are older than me (such as adults and grandparents, etc.) I guess it's because if I get something wrong, I'll forever be stuck as 'The Little Duffer' Also, meeting new people in school scares me . . . I could be called shy. ~!*Sere & Co.*!~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elfin_Girl Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 I've got the same problem. *laughs* Which is why, sadly, when a couple of my friends aren't at school, I wander like an abandoned puppy or something of the sort. lol Hint, hint, nudge, nudge to Velvet Paws. Get your arse at school more often! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueGender Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 I am really shy except with my friends...when I am with my friends I do some crazy stuff like today I ate an orange peel just cause I knew it would get some laughs. I am extremely shy with females except the few i know well enough to know that they know most of the time half the stuff I say is spure of the moment. But when I have a crush on a girl I try not to even look at her cause I think she will say something bad to me that shows she dislikes me I have only asked a girl out once in my life and that was in 4th grade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 [color=indigo]Eh... I have a certain group of friends I hang out with, but other than that I dont talk to anyone really. Although I don't think I'm shy so much as anti-social...[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amiboshi Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 I'm too shy to go up to people and just say "hey". Actually, I'm very shy, but once people get to know me, I'm not shy at all. And I'm certainly not as shy if I have my friend with me. Just one, really, because she's been my best friend since elementary school. So I always feel a bit braver with her around. lol. ^^ I also have a school full of total jerks that I don't want to socialize with, and I don't really care about my "social life". But still, I'm not really antisocial, I just don't want to talk to these certain people. Wait.....maybe I am antisocial.......I dunno! ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Imsirion Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 My family and friends probably think of me as the weird loud mouth, but around strangers,girls(that are not my friends) and anyone else, I get really shy. If a girl says something to me or asks me something, I talk soft and quiet and try to avoid eye contact:o I must blush or look strange because they talk softly back and smile alot. well, even though I have friends, I perfer to be a loner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amiboshi Posted May 2, 2002 Share Posted May 2, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by outlawstar_14 [/i] [B] well, even though I have friends, I perfer to be a loner. [/B][/QUOTE] That's it!!! That was exactly what I was trying to say. I have friends, but I prefer to be by myself. And I'm always VERY quiet in school. :cross: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(<AA>) Posted May 3, 2002 Share Posted May 3, 2002 Well, The people In my "group" are like people I've know for like 6 years or something. Its hard to be shy around these guys lol. But I hate to talk to strangers... My friend Introduced me to this girl... and I was like "Hi"... If your wondering where the rest is... there is none '_'; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinetic Posted May 3, 2002 Share Posted May 3, 2002 I am really shy, I am like the outsider everywhere, at school I used to eat lunch alone and everything (homeschooled now) anyway, it kind of sucks ^_^;; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted May 3, 2002 Share Posted May 3, 2002 [color=deeppink]I can be shy at times...it just depends on who I'm around. It's not even necessarily like I'm shy, I just don't know what to say half of the time...since I'm horrible with communication unless it is in the form of defending others. There's one situation that always gets me shy! If I'm good friends with a guy and we flirt like mad but nothing physical is happening, I'm totally not shy and have tons of fun. If I start to LIKE that guy I start to close up and start feeling stupid when I say stuff...it's so SO stupid. I also start to get scared when a relationship moves into the "physical" phase...even if I'm WAY into it...I'm just weird like that :D In fact, I'm trying to deal with a "situation" like this right now...[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted May 3, 2002 Share Posted May 3, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B][color=deeppink]I can be shy at times...it just depends on who I'm around. It's not even necessarily like I'm shy, I just don't know what to say half of the time...since I'm horrible with communication unless it is in the form of defending others. There's one situation that always gets me shy! If I'm good friends with a guy and we flirt like mad but nothing physical is happening, I'm totally not shy and have tons of fun. If I start to LIKE that guy I start to close up and start feeling stupid when I say stuff...it's so SO stupid. I also start to get scared when a relationship moves into the "physical" phase...even if I'm WAY into it...I'm just weird like that :D In fact, I'm trying to deal with a "situation" like this right now...[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=red][b]I'm like that around girls. I am perfectly fine talking to them or flirting with them, but when it comes time for a relationship time, i start to think that everything i said was stupid and that she won't like me anymore because of it. it's stupid.[/b][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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