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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by JCBaggee [/i]
[B][color=red][size=3]Was his last break up painful? That's why I won't go out with anyone nowadays...just sick of hurting everyone. Either that or everyone else is right and he's gay.[/color][/size] [/B][/QUOTE]

I dunno if he's even had a g/fbefore.....hmmmmm.....HE IS NOT GAY,OK!?

yea, I do think it's kinda poitless to "go out" at this age, but I just like them so much sumtimes I trick myself into askin. I wasn't gonna ask him yet.maybe not even at all.....but this other girl seemed like good competition, cuz we went on this field trip 2day, and one of her friends were tellin him 2 ask her out, but he says he only likes her as a friend. Anyway, things like that get me into this mess, not to mention my friends all think he likes me....:blush:
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Cloud [/i]
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[COLOR=indigo]those are sometimes those stupid relationships where people are too afraid to hold hands..... LOL

they just say they're "going out" although they do nothing..... [/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE]

LOL!

I remember those days! Though, I must say, times seemed to have changed from the time I was that age. And I also remember all the drama that used to go hand-in-hand with "going out"...even standing at a girl's locker to borrow a pencil would raise suspision!

I too know of people losing their virginity in like 5th and 6th grade now-a-days. Kids these days...lol

-Justin
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:therock: Hmmm, my only guess is maybe he is not ready for a relationship yet or hasn't growin up, it is known to happen! Or he could just be really really shy! It all depends on the circumstances, but don't force him to tell you his reason, that will only make matters worse in the end run!

Anyway relationships at that age might be pointless, I can't really judge anyone with the way people are maturing today. I didn't have my first real date till I was 16, and that was definitely a disaster, thats a different story though!

So just give this issue some time and don't rush or jump to conclusions!:)

Sincerely,
Kevin
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DeathKnight [/i]
[B][color=crimson]Age means nothing if you love/like someone. Especially if you love someone....[/color] [/B][/QUOTE]

That's what I believe, but people like my parents don't understand this... and because of this I'm not meant to go out with the guy I like.



Stardust I know how you feel, the guy I asked out said no to me, but cause of the way he said it made my friend think he likes me... but the best thing is the fact me and this guy are still good friends and thats better than nothing
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Stardust my thinking is, he just doesn't feel right about it. He didn't say he hates you so he could have feelings about you, but I mean he could be going throw an extremely rough time right now, and the last thing he would need is a nother thing to worry about ya know? Or he could just think the whole dating scheme is completly stupid and wants to wait till he is ready, older. Either way respect his decision maybe ask him closer to the end of school and don't pester him about it every day. You will gain more respect that way, and if he has feelings for you at all they should grow.


Yeah I am also 14 and ya know dating in MS is completly over rated. Yeah some guys "get some" but why the hell do you wanna "get some" from a 2 cent slut that would do it with an old man if it ment having sex. Call me old fashion but I want my first kiss to be special not to mention having sex. *shrugs* But yeah kids our age may be able to fall in love not likely but may, but I think its just a crush. I mean its all these new emotions for a girl/guy and you don't know what to call them except Love. It may or may not be love, some wish it was and some pray it isn't. I hope it is!
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I think he's just not ready.I found out it's not his parents cuz his younger sis has a b/f,go figure.Anyways,I'm still friends w/ him,he said he wasn't mad at me and wasn't gonna tell any1 bout me askin him.He was in such a hurry 2day though, he didn't wait for me + Stefan at the end of the day, lol, usually we're waiting on him! I talked 2 him at lunch and in gym, so I guess he's not mad at me. I was gonna wait till next year 2 ask him if I still like him, probably will, year's almost over. I'll prolly get his phone # at the end of they year or sumthin and call him in the summer. Then again, he lives relitively close (I.e.-I could just ride my bike down there) But my mom wouldn't let me. She's very overprotective.

yea, I want my first kiss to be really special too. In my opinion, if they're into sex and that's all they think about, it's just lust and they don't really "love" the person. U know, it rarely is love, but there's nothing I hate more then the old "you're too young!These emotions you're feeling aren't real!" ok,so they're "fake" emotions??:therock:
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Maybe he likes someone more then you and wants to get up the courage to ask that person. I can not wait til I get to high school so all this childish middle school dating stuff will end. It gets on my nerves all this note passing and he said she said stuff. It is so stupid to watch and then when people break with another person for holding hands with another girl/boy...? I do find some girls attractive in my school and all but most of them act like they are still in 6th grade so I would not ask them to go out with me for that fact alone not to mention I am a coward lol.
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My guess is he is nervice maybe he is afraid of what will happen if he goes out with you. Or maybe he does not feel like getting involved with you as more then a friend. I mean I have some female friends who if they asked me out I would say no just because they are seen as my friend and I would not want to mess that up even if I do find them attractive.
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You bring up a good Point Duo Maxell on pg 2.If you love someone &you truy feel that Way about the Person then you could make freinds with him &then try to get a little closer soemhow.I'm not a Girl butt you should go for it.Girls use this expression sometimes when their talking. "Are you really head over heels for this guy?"
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Transtic Nerve [/i]
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True, but kids are worse.... and yes, I'm not afraid to say I'm stupid, like everyone else. [/B][/QUOTE]
I know I'm not stupid, just retarded...
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Char-Char,Mander-Char! [/i]
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I know I'm not stupid, just retarded... [/B][/QUOTE]

right..... how about you stop prooving my point.

Anyway, here's some advice for you... learn to spell and not use "internet lingo"... it'll make you look more intelligent.
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Transtic Nerve [/i]
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right..... how about you stop prooving my point.

Anyway, here's some advice for you... learn to spell and not use "internet lingo"... it'll make you look more intelligent. [/B][/QUOTE]
What the hell are you talking about? Sorry for the language, but
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[*]I had no spelling/grammar errors in that post
[*]I try to avoid spelling/grammar errors
[*]I'll be damned if I ever use internet lingo, and
[*]What's your sudden problem???
[/list=1]

Then, watch, I'll find out later you weren't even talking to me... :whoops:
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Char-Char,Mander-Char! [/i]
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What the hell are you talking about? Sorry for the language, but
[list=1]
[*]I had no spelling/grammar errors in that post
[*]I try to avoid spelling/grammar errors
[*]I'll be damned if I ever use internet lingo, and
[*]What's your sudden problem???
[/list=1]

Then, watch, I'll find out later you weren't even talking to me... :whoops: [/B][/QUOTE]

he wuz probably talkin 2 me......and it's the internet, I'll use all the internet lingo I want~!!
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by sailor stardust [/i]
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he wuz probably talkin 2 me......and it's the internet, I'll use all the internet lingo I want~!! [/B][/QUOTE]

And you'll look less intelligent in the process... GO YOU!

And yes, I was talking to her in the second part of my aformentioned post.
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Sacred Warrior [/i]
[B]He probably has some problem at that time since he said "He cant" you should probably wait a while and ask him again. [/B][/QUOTE]

It is amazing how you know so much about this subject! (He is my friend and I am joking)

[quote]Heck holding hands? please.... if i went into detail on what goes on at my school i would be banned
Kuja- go ahead... tell us...
bleh[/quote]

I went into a stall at my schools bathroom, and there was a couple making out! Plus there's beer bottles and condoms in the urinals. That is wierd.

While were on the subject of gay, why is it when you have a friend that you are close to, why do your class mates almost always think that you are gay? You wouldn't believe some of the sick minds I have in my class.
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by gouf [/i]
[B]i told cloudstrife00 this but all you'll might as well here this i got transferd and at my school we find condoms in use

man our school's been going down sice i left man :confused: [/B][/QUOTE]

Dude that is just nasty...where do you find them? In the bathroom?
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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by sailor stardust [/i]
[B]he wuz probably talkin 2 me......and it's the internet, I'll use all the internet lingo I want~!! [/B][/QUOTE]

[color=deeppink]It's actually against the rules of this board. Though they're not up at the moment and I cannot back up that statement, make sure you read the rules when they get back up.[/color]

[color=deeppink]Yeah, I have 'sum' advice: Maybe he just doesn't like you.[/color]
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