Guest BulmaVegeta1 Posted May 17, 2002 Share Posted May 17, 2002 I'm finally 13 and I just don't know what's wrong with me! I feel so bad! I was crying earlier for some reason, and I can't understand why!!!! I should be happy since It's my b-day, but i don't!:bawl: :crying: :huh: Somebody help me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted May 17, 2002 Share Posted May 17, 2002 Right... well just because it's your birthday doesn't mean you have to be happy. There's aobviously some reason you are upset... something you are either not telling us or not telling yourself. The human mind just doesn't get upset for no reason, unless ofcourse you have some mental abnormality, but even then, thats a reason. You're still a child, you have nothing to cry about. You don't have to worry about work, making money to live upon, being beat up by some exboyfriend or whatever. ALl you have to worry about is summer... school's getting out and then you have free time the whole summer. Maybe you're going into High School the next year, although being 13 I doubt that... So, either tell yourself the reason you are upset, or tell someone else and they can tell you. Thats the only way to help yourself if it's even remotely serious. The first step in fixing a problem is admitting you have one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zachary Posted May 17, 2002 Share Posted May 17, 2002 man when i turned 13 i was really happy. I got 100$ from my parents. 50$ from my grandpa. And 25$ from my uncle. I got about 200$. So i really like it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted May 17, 2002 Share Posted May 17, 2002 wow, trans, you sound like a guidance counsellor or something. as for bulmavegeta and your problem. you should try to remember that youve got a long road ahead. theres aways time to change. things will get better some day. good luck with your prob. the boards are aways here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amiboshi Posted May 17, 2002 Share Posted May 17, 2002 I liked my 13th b-day. I got a membership to the gym, which I had to be 13 for, hence the b-day gift, and that was about it since it was $700.......But I still liked my b-day. When you're 13 it seems much older than 12.....lol. Not sure why....^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geist Posted May 17, 2002 Share Posted May 17, 2002 [COLOR=blue]Probably because your no longer just a child. You're a teenager.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D. Dark Posted May 17, 2002 Share Posted May 17, 2002 I think you're depressed (I know I'm stating the obvious), that's why your'e feeling so blue. I felt really depressed one time, but it evaporated as soon as let myself open up to other people (I've never been depressed for a long time). If you open up to others, it might help the feeling go away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted May 17, 2002 Share Posted May 17, 2002 God that reminds me of my 13th b-day. After everyone left and my parents were in be I went up to my room and just cried. Reflecting on it now I realize that I was crying because I didn't want to leave childhood behind. I'm almost 16 now but I still long for the days when all you had to do for homework was a page of math. Maybe you just don't want to grow up yet. I sure as hell wasn't ready for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticBabe Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 thats easy, horomones. they happen around 13. sometimes earlier, sometimes later, but it happens. i wanna say the P word, i'm afraid i might get in trouble :whoops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Morph Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 [size=1] Well, its probably because your not a child, taking more responsibilities... It was like that for me, but it turned out good, for my 13th b-day, I got over 250 dollars, and some other stuff that I don't remember, but my grandma for some odd reason for every holiday for Catholics, gives me $200! :wow: Maybe its because she is rich, I don't know, but whenever I go to Las Vegas, where she lives, we have a great time, my grandpa is really nice too OOC: MysticBabe, I think you can say Puberty...C'mon now, we are dealing with an older person, but its not one of the younger members on the boards, its a 13 year old, I'm still 13, 3 months until 14....August 24th baby! [/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Warlock Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 What a coincedence... My 13th birthday was last Thursday... Anyway, just because it's your birthday doesn't mean you have to be happy. It pretty much a coming of age in a way, you've just become a teenager, and now responsibilites are coming in by the bucket full. Give it time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 While I must agree with Transtic on the "you have nothing to worry about" ideas, I also sympathize with you. Being a teenager is no walk in the park, as I KNOW Transtic can also tell you (he should know of all people). Lots of emotions and thoughts swimming about, and the experience just isn't there to back them up. Sometimes, you can logic your way through things but it always doesn't work. You can just ride it out or kill yourself though, and either way isn't really a great option, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamvis Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 Erh. I hope mine goes better. Well i hope you feel better. My last birthday was great because then i was going with Renee, we even celebrated our b-days together since theyre 2 0r 3 days within each other. (im the oldest :p) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ravenstorture Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 I had my thirteenth birthday in Egypt, and I went swimming in an estuary of the Nile river. I nearly got my leg torn off by a crocadile, had my passport stolen and then our felluccha (pron. feluka) sprung a leak and I had to sit on the west bank for half an hour, waiting for another boat to come past and rescue me from the water buffalo. So I didn't even [I]notice[/I] that I was suddenly a teenager.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desbreko Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 [color=indigo]Yes, and I'm most certainly not following [i]you[/i] around, Ravenstorture... :shifty:[/color] [color=silver][url=http://www.otakuboards.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=11400](look here)[/url][/color] [color=indigo]I can relate to that... I was really depressed on my 13th birthday, too... I think it was because I was really worried about my future, about what I'd do with my life, and so on. Part of it I think was the hormones and all that crap going on, but not all of it. (I started getting depressed even before I turned 12, though). I'd like to say that it'll get better soon, but it most likely won't. Infact, life seems to just be sucking more and more, as time goes on, for me... But that's probably not what you wanted to hear, I bet... The way I deal with it, is my hobbies. I play video games, I read, and other stuff (such as this very board). If you don't already have a hobby, find something you like doing. I think my hobbies (especially the video games) have been the only thing that have kept me sane, for the past year or so... If I didn't have something to fill my free time... well, I'm not exactly sure what would become of me...[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinetic Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 I can't remember my 13th birthday, even though it was just a year ago, but I remember I was happy, but barely even thought about becoming a teenager, I still can't wait 'till I'm 14 though. Only one month! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Char! Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 [color=teal][size=1]It's just teenage mood swings, welcome to adolescence... I wish I could give you comforting news, but I can't. To be blunt, you're gonna be going through stuff like this for about five more years. Sucks, huh? Fasten your seatbelt...[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaiyanPrincessX Posted May 19, 2002 Share Posted May 19, 2002 I was happy when I turned 13, but I know how you feel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stitch Posted May 19, 2002 Share Posted May 19, 2002 my birthday is in 4 days it is the 23 of may i can't wait i will be 14!!! whoo hoo! but yes bulmavegeta i got the same thing as u i cried on my b'day and i didn't know whut was wrong well let me tell u somethin it is called a mood swing or as my mom calls it a down day and u and me we were unfortunate enough to have one of these "down days" right on our b-days but cheer up it goes away real fast and if it don't ...... get help cause ur depressed hun ~GG~ PS i will be away for a month sorry 4 the inconvinence Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amiboshi Posted May 19, 2002 Share Posted May 19, 2002 I didn't really think about "becoming a teenager" that much on my birthday. I was glad it was my birthday, and I was glad I was turning 13. That was about it. I didn't cry or anything, but I still know how you feel. Sometimes you just gotta cry. ^^ I heard it's healthy to have a good cry every now and then. ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticBabe Posted May 20, 2002 Share Posted May 20, 2002 come to think of it, i don't think i was the happiest person alive either. i think it was boredom. same thing every year, you always have a birthday, you expect it. kinda like winning city championship every year in volleyball. the third year we won it (in a row) i wasn't so surprised. it was, boring, matter of fact. oh well. life is life :huh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BulmaVegeta1 Posted May 20, 2002 Share Posted May 20, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by MysticBabe [/i] [B]thats easy, horomones. they happen around 13. sometimes earlier, sometimes later, but it happens. i wanna say the P word, i'm afraid i might get in trouble :whoops: [/B][/QUOTE] That's exactly what my mom told me!!! The P word....anyway, can you beleive I haven't even gotten my b-day presents yet!!! Oh well, I'm waiting till my party this Saturday. But I did go see the best movie in the whole world....STAR WARS EPISODE 2!!!! God, I love that movie.......and the guy that plays Anakin!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticBabe Posted May 20, 2002 Share Posted May 20, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BulmaVegeta1 [/i] [B] That's exactly what my mom told me!!! The P word....anyway, can you beleive I haven't even gotten my b-day presents yet!!! Oh well, I'm waiting till my party this Saturday. But I did go see the best movie in the whole world....STAR WARS EPISODE 2!!!! God, I love that movie.......and the guy that plays Anakin!!! [/B][/QUOTE] I'm not a star wars fan, never seen a movie of theirs, but i have seen the previews, and i know who your talking about. That guy......OMG :blush: :love: :tasty: :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zidane11 Posted May 20, 2002 Share Posted May 20, 2002 There shouldn't be anything wrong. Even if something bad did happen then everything will turn out good. You will eventually be happy again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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