Amphion Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 Oh Im so nervous right now. Its scaring me to death too. If you could not guess what I am so nervous over, its a girl. Me and My frineds are going to the movies tonight and I want to invite this girl that I have been talking to, you know on like a little date. Reason I am so scared is I have never been this nervous over a girl. We have talked a while and I really really like here more then anyone I have ever talked to before. Im scared to even speak around her for fear of saying something stupid. In a little while Im going to ask her to go And I just want you guys to wish me luck if you could. I would also like to know how you guys handle this situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinetic Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 Good luck Amphion heh, I can't wait 'till I'm outta homeschool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tima Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 i would be the exact same way man cause there is this really hot chick at my school that i have like for like 8 years and i just found out that shes like me for like 3 years so now we are going out. so my opinoin is to go for it and try to be smooth, oh and be very nice (my GF really likes me cause im soo nice to her) be a gentleman don't laugh at her when she does something stOOpid. follow my rules and you will prob be going out with her in no time. hope that helps.:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 [color=royalblue]Lemme say just one basic thing. Be yourself. :) Don't worry about saying stupid stuff...because chances are, if she likes you...she'll be saying stupid stuff too. And it's more than likely that she'll find that "stupid stuff" to be cute (this is what I was told when I went on a date with someone and I was nervous lol). If you be yourself and treat her with respect and kindness, you can't go wrong. :)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sui Generis Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 Yeah treat her with respect, and be a gentleman. Pay for her food if she lets you, let her choose where to sit, etc. Yeah if you say something stupid its "cute" so I've been told so just be yourself! If she likes you she likes you for YOU not someone you may try to be... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Char! Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DuoGod of Death [/i] [B]If she likes you she likes you for YOU not someone you may try to be... [/B][/QUOTE] [color=teal][size=1]That's good advice. I should follow it too...[/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Morph Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 [size=1] Well it happens to all of us, it happened to me... This is what I did, I went straight up to her, and I said "***** will you go to the movies with me." She said "Sure" So basically just go up to her and get it over with, you can't stay scared of a silly little thing like that ...[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelus_Necare Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 dont' sweat it, she'll probably be as nevous as you are and take it from a girl, everything duo said works, trust me...and good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 [B]I agree, just be yourself. Everyone get's nervous in that kind of situation, but as long as you relax you'll forget why you were nervous in the first place[/B] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 Girls... blah they're not worth it... lol JUST KIDDING LADIES ::runs off:: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Voodookanaka Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Transtic Nerve [/i] [B]Girls... blah they're not worth it... lol JUST KIDDING LADIES ::runs off:: [/B][/QUOTE] Its just a waste of time...men too transtic.... 98%+ of the relationship youll be in will probably end up with someone getting hurt so why bother, wouldnt u rather have a nice cup of tea? ...good...ill put the kettle on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Transtic Nerve Posted May 18, 2002 Share Posted May 18, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Voodookanaka [/i] [B] Its just a waste of time...men too transtic.... 98%+ of the relationship youll be in will probably end up with someone getting hurt so why bother, wouldnt u rather have a nice cup of tea? ...good...ill put the kettle on [/B][/QUOTE] See? We need more people like you Voodoo-chan. But then I suppose the world would be full of pessimism... oh well... small price to pay for reality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cloricus Posted May 19, 2002 Share Posted May 19, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by James [/i] [B][color=royalblue]Lemme say just one basic thing. Be yourself. :) Don't worry about saying stupid stuff...because chances are, if she likes you...she'll be saying stupid stuff too. And it's more than likely that she'll find that "stupid stuff" to be cute (this is what I was told when I went on a date with someone and I was nervous lol). If you be yourself and treat her with respect and kindness, you can't go wrong. :)[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] I agree with that, but also don't make it sound like its not a date. eg me and my friends are going to a moive, do you want to come. I don't know if thats your thing? Be yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticBabe Posted May 19, 2002 Share Posted May 19, 2002 HAVE FUN! thats important. HAVE a good time, and it will work. i had a good time with a guy, i'm crazy over him. :blush: :love: i would also say be yourself, but i think you got the message from everyone else.;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amphion Posted May 19, 2002 Author Share Posted May 19, 2002 Well there was good and there was bad... The bad first. We didnt get to go to together. Turns out I waited to the last minute to ask her (d'oh) and she had prior plans with her best freind. The Good. She said since she could not go tonight that I would have to take her sometime later. (cha-Ching) It gets better, She calls me on my cell phone while me and my frineds are headed back and tells me she was about to go to bed and just wanted to say good night, (another big cha-ching...) Last but not least, The movie rocked. (Spiderman) All in all it was a good night, It sucked she didnt get to go but maybe it turned out better. Excuse me while I go and do my happy dance.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cloricus Posted May 19, 2002 Share Posted May 19, 2002 Good on you, but don't go crazy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted May 19, 2002 Share Posted May 19, 2002 Alls well that ends well:) But when you do arrange a date with her, don't be nervous, just relax....you know, take a chill pill....And one thing you should not do is try too hard. Just be nice and everything will turn out cool.;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roxie Faye Posted May 19, 2002 Share Posted May 19, 2002 yes, the next step is now planning another time to go out with her. and, yes, this has been said just about a million times, but, PLEASE, BE YOURSELF. And besides, what if you act up and try to impress her by doing things that you don't normally do? what if she falls for it and likes you for all that impressive stuff? then you'll ahve to keep doing it forever so she'll like you. also, sometimes, people can actually act like a jerk when they try to impress others. ok. i know this is a bit lame to come in with an anime character, but if you've ever seen digimon 02, davis is always trying to impress Kari, and he makes a fool of himself(and he doesn't Kari, either). ok. i'm strange. yes, VERY strange. but good luck with your next date with this girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turkey Posted May 20, 2002 Share Posted May 20, 2002 Well Amphion, you did it. It seems like you have a very good chance with this girl. Go get her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amphion Posted May 20, 2002 Author Share Posted May 20, 2002 Thanks for all the support guys. We talked for about 2 and a half hours again last night. Can not wait till this upcoming weekend. Thats when I am planning to g out with her. Yes being yourself is important and thats what I am trying to do. Its actually kind of hard becuase I like her so much I do not want to do anything that will make her dislike me. And the Digimon Analogy was great, so dont worry about feeling wierd. It actually illustrates things quite well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cloricus Posted May 20, 2002 Share Posted May 20, 2002 Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JCBaggee Posted May 20, 2002 Share Posted May 20, 2002 [color=red][size=3][i]ha ha...funny banner![/i] Loving Transtic's new banner... Boy, you sound young(well, not that I'm an old curmudgeon or anything...). Just stay calm, stay relaxed and don't try to rush into things. Oh, and two things I've learned: don't try to trick her into saying anything and don't try too hard...just stay calm, stay relaxed, and have fun![/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted May 20, 2002 Share Posted May 20, 2002 You probably won't even take me seriously just because I'm a newb but I consider myself to be a little romantic. Please remeber that this is what I do and it might not work for you. First off, [b]BE YOURSELF[/b]. Repetitive isn't it. :) Anyway you sound like you already have a good chance with her. You two talked for a while and seem to have a lot in common. Whenever I was with my lady I always did little things for her. I held the door, paid for her dinners, picked things up she may have dropped, ect. She found that really attractive. Your GF may be different, but I'm just tryin to give you some pointers. Oh by the way, we didn't break up for stupid reasons like I didn't buy her a birthday gift or anything. She moved to Las Vegas. I'm in Wisconsin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deedlit Posted May 21, 2002 Share Posted May 21, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Voodookanaka [/i] [B] Its just a waste of time...men too transtic.... 98%+ of the relationship youll be in will probably end up with someone getting hurt so why bother, wouldnt u rather have a nice cup of tea? ...good...ill put the kettle on [/B][/QUOTE] that's just like me. I don't bother with boys because: 1.) The boys where I live are stupid and retarded. lol 2.) Like Voodo said, it's just a waste of time and you'll get hurt anyway 3.) You wind up getting so obsessed with them that you don't think of anything else but her/him. 4.) I'm too young to get married, and I don't think that boys will ever change. lol Alot of the people at school say I'm not "mature" enough to understand that you're "supposed" to have a bf or gf, but it's better than feeling like you have no life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryo Posted May 21, 2002 Share Posted May 21, 2002 Good luck dude. Like everybody says be yourself. And dont try to make her do anything crazy. Dont be boring only talking about yourself and boring stuff. And be sweet girls always fall for that stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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