Amphion Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 Blind dates, So love them, some hate them. Me, Do not really like them, but some how I have been talked into going on one. Im the type of person who wants to see a picture first. But then its not a blind date. Anyway, I was wondering if any of you had been on one and what you think about them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 [color=indigo]No. I have never been on a blind date. I personally would never go on one. I am a pretty cautious person, and do not like not knowing who I am going to meet, since relationships aren't things I liked to have messed with. If I ever somehow got myself into a blind date, I'd jsut act real weird and try to scare the person off. Hopefully that would work, lol. :)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 [color=indigo]It depends what you mean by blind date. I have never been on a blind date alone, arranged by a third party. However, I have been "hooked up with" a person I have never met in a friendly enviorment many times. Several times my buddy's girlfriends have told me about a friend that would be "perfect" for me. To be honest, the girls I meet that way are usually pretty cool, and fairly attractive...but I have never ended up seriously dating any of these girls.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 I'm the same as Heaven's Cloud. I've been 'hooked' up with friends of friends. It's never worked out though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amphion Posted June 4, 2002 Author Share Posted June 4, 2002 Yeah I know what you mean. I do not really wan to go. My freinds think it is a good idea. Me and my girl broke up the day we got out of schoool for the summer. My freinds say I need to get over her but I cant. this is supposed to help me get over here. I dunno we have been talking and she mentoined us getting back together after summer. I dunno, maybe I should not go. I guess you could say I am in one of those relationship crisises. Do you guys think going on the date could hurt our chances of getting back together? She went on a date the other night, so should I too? D@MN IT! This stuff sucks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 Blind dates are alright...last year, my friend got me to go out on one with her friends. It all went smoothly until she said she wanted to go "somewhere." At the time, I couldn't drive so I asked my parents for a ride...I guess that kinda killed everything... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 The Adolecent years certanly do suck. I've found a nice way to master my hormones, oh thats not related. I think you should go. Your ex obviously want to take a break. Maybe you should meditate a little and have a good time. That always helps me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amphion Posted June 4, 2002 Author Share Posted June 4, 2002 Yeah, DOK, thats pretty much what my friends said. Maybe I will. It just doesnt feel right. All I think about is her. I will probably screw up and call my blind date by my ex's name or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 I'd never go on a blind date... You never know what you're getting yourself into. I'd rather want to know the person before I plan on going out with them, even if I've only just spoken to them on a few occassions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boba Fett Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 I personally dont like blind dates, but strangely my parents met on one. On of my dads friends, and one of my moms friends met each other and decided to set my parents up, it worked. I dont care much for blind dates, but you never know........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Asuka Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 [color=crimson][size=1]Well, for one thing, I agree with your friends in trying to get over this girl. She did you really dirty breaking up with you for the summer and then wanting to hook back up when school comes back in. What that's basically saying is that she doesn't want to be tied down during the summer so she can find someone else and have fun and flirt and so forth and then USE you when school comes back in, so she can have a boyfriend again if nothing works out for her during vacation. Seriously, you should forget her, find someone better even though you ARE constantly thinking of her... Now about blind dates, if you trust your friends' judgement, you should give it a try because they may actually introduce you to someone who could be very special to you one day. Once I met a guy over the phone and then we hooked up and I met him and he was really UGLY, but I liked his personality so much we dated for almost 8 months I think. So yeah, don't completely cast this aside, I think you should give it a chance. You may like what happens and how the outcome turns out. Afterall, it is summer, and you really don't want to be lonely.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 Hmmm... Since you can think of no one but her maybe you should... Go anyway. She was a real bitc* to want to take 'a break' for the summer. I hope I didn't offend you by caling your ex a name but thats how I feel. I still say you should have a good time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticBabe Posted June 4, 2002 Share Posted June 4, 2002 blind date? no, never really went on one. I would do it tho! but everyone knows what state i'm going through right now, no one will set me up on a blind date. after almost killing my ex -_- heh, i really didn't try to kill him. i have lost trust in the male species after him. so i guess you could say i'm permanantly in between boyfriends. if someone would set me up on a blind date, i'd probably do it, just to have some fun and have a good time. but i probably wouldn't intend on seriously dating a guy i met on a blind dat. hey, anything could happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raven131 Posted June 10, 2002 Share Posted June 10, 2002 Never been on one. Why not try it. Even if it doesn't work out you could at least try, it never hurt to try. Plus if it does work out maybe it could help you to get over youre ex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall Posted June 10, 2002 Share Posted June 10, 2002 Never been on one, and don't exactly want to. From what I heard you can end up with someone you really shouldn't be with...o.O I like watchinh the T.V show "Blind Date" though....lol, funny... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amphion Posted June 10, 2002 Author Share Posted June 10, 2002 Just thought I would report in. Nobody critiscize(sp?) me, but I did not go. I just could not go. It just did not feel right. Im the kind of person who lives by my gut feeling. It has never let me down yet so I go with it. You wont really understand until you feel the way I do toward someone. Oh and you did not offend me DOK but please dont call her those things. Its not all her fault. But thanks to all of you for the advice. IT really helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted June 10, 2002 Share Posted June 10, 2002 I've been on a blind date, it was actually pretty fun. I like meeting new people. And see, we weren't 'set up' for a relationship, it was just a casual date; just hanging out with someone. If a lot of people would tone down a bit and relax, blind dates could be fun. It's not all about meeting someone and then dating for months on end. It's just about making a friend and having a fun Friday night. So yeah, I think you should do this blind date thing. Just be cool and calm and aim to have fun, no matter what she acts or looks like. It's not like you're signing away to get married or anything. -EDiT- Oi, I posted too late. CHICKEN!! Sorry, but come on dude, you didn't have start a friggin relationship or commit- just hang out. Well, whatever, I don't know the whole story. Just be more open to chances; life's about changes. Sometimes you have to roll with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted June 10, 2002 Share Posted June 10, 2002 No problem Amphion. I'll give ya advice anytime. I'm just chok-full of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amphion Posted June 10, 2002 Author Share Posted June 10, 2002 Thanks, I might need it. I wanted to make sure you did not think I was mad at you. Im not. Its just weird when you like someone so much you dont like it when anyone does anything that might hurt her, you know. Talk to you later... [b]- EDIT -[/b] Its okay Anna. Its not that I was chickin, Its just hard to explain the way I feel. I dont expect anyone to know how I feel. But just understand that one day when you care about someone a whole lot, like pretty much being in love, you will understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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