Renee Posted June 17, 2002 Share Posted June 17, 2002 Love? I'm too young! Or I think so. It's just my opinion. Besides, [B]all[/B] of the boys in my grade are still stupid. All of 'em. So I'll just wait. I think it's strange that love and death came up here. Does anyone think it's connected? Poe wrote some interesting poems on love and death. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zidane11 Posted June 17, 2002 Share Posted June 17, 2002 That'll nevre happen to me. Oh well. Your so lucky. I'm happy anyways so why am I complaining. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lia Posted June 17, 2002 Share Posted June 17, 2002 [size=1]"the key to a [I]loving[/I] relationship is [I]trust[/I]" Funny thing is, there is my problem. I don't think I've ever been fully in love with someone. I have a very strong distrust in guys due to a past expirience obtaining to the "R..." word. Although I have cared very strongly for a person before but I wouldn't go as far as to call it [I][B]Love[/B][/I]... but hey! I'm still young and I have all the time in my life to blossom into love!.....Unless by some very misfortunate freak accident i get run over by a train or hit by a meteorite...Which I assure you WON'T happen... *skips off happily and trips on a rock, falls off a cliff landing on a sidewalk. Getting run over by a scooter, then a bicycle, then a skate board...* I'm o- *gets trampled by an old lady with a walker* I'm o- *Is wet by a dog making its mark. Is then kicked by a random little kid* *sits up* I'm ok.....hehe...YAY! Well it could have been worst...I could have been hit by a meteori- *is then smooshed by a giant meteorite* :drunk: [/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zero-Altron Posted June 17, 2002 Share Posted June 17, 2002 Yes, I believe I am in love, with a girl and she loves me back. The feeling I got when I was around her was so wonderfull, I wouldn't trade a second of it for anything. But, then she moved to Virgina, leaving me all alone in San Antonio, we kept in contact on aim and the phone, but it's just not the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lia Posted June 17, 2002 Share Posted June 17, 2002 [size=1]you only wish it were that easy....[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zero-Altron Posted June 17, 2002 Share Posted June 17, 2002 I wasn't saying, that's a sybol of our love or something along those lines. No, love isn't easy, especially being apart from the one you love. So just lay off alright, it's a sensetive subject knowing that it'll be years before we see eachother again. That's why we try to keep it alive, by saying things like that. :bawl: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Harlequin Posted June 17, 2002 Share Posted June 17, 2002 [font=gothic][color=crimson]I agree. Although, with love it quite often can be that easy. And if we're getting into symbols of love... [/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ravenstorture Posted June 17, 2002 Share Posted June 17, 2002 [color=darkgreen][font=gothic]Hey, that wouldn't be a [i]raven[/i] on her shoulder, would it??? I love that picture, although if I were to find fault I would say my skin could be paler, and I would like to be the one holding the knife...[/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jesus Chicken Posted June 17, 2002 Share Posted June 17, 2002 yeah we all know how that goes... Raven... Anyways, yeah Zero, I know that feeling, that has happened way too many times to me, try atl east ten, not that that will ever stop me. I am more willing to rush into a relationship than ever, and recently, I have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted June 18, 2002 Share Posted June 18, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by ssj chic [/i] [B][size=1] *is then smooshed by a giant meteorite* :drunk: [/size] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=indigo] Let us hope that doesn't happen, although those pesky meteorites seem to be squishing everyone these days ;) Well my take on relationships is this...I don't have a take on relationships. I haven't had a good on in quite sometime, but sometimes being single does have its advantages...[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hikaru Ichijyo Posted June 18, 2002 Share Posted June 18, 2002 :( Well I'm not a specialist on love or anything, infact probably very far away from one! Now as far as love goes it really can only take you saw far! Before you can actually use the word love you have to really be able to mean it! As another saying goes, before you can love someone you have to like them! So next time before you use that word ask yourself that! I've actually been a victim of thinking I was "in love" on three occassions already, all of which ended rather dismal. I guess its a matter of thinking that someone out there is in fact waiting for you and vice versa! :angel: In other words I'm pretty much as confused about love as anyone here?:confused: As someone told me once, "For all you know love can be right under you nose!" So for those of you who are in love or at least think you are congrats, for those of you who aren't in love well I'm single :D ! :blush: Cough anyway end of my rant! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaioshin Posted June 18, 2002 Author Share Posted June 18, 2002 [COLOR=teal]Ok I'm back and I wanna clear somethings up. 1. As it can obviously be seen, love is determined through a person's point of view. For example Piromunkie believes that love can only be when the persons involved are thinking of marriage. I believe this is true but that is a higher level of love. There are different types and levels of love. If love was only when people were getting married then love would only be hindered to adults (or crazy teens) 2. Age is an important factor. With age comes a greater understanding of love so therefore I will not question anyone older than me. But love can be felt at young age. I'm 16 and I know I'm in love because I would [B]die[/B] for the girl I am with. And Ravenstorture and Harlequin are proof of that, as it is very evident that they are in love (my deepest congratulations to the both of you) 3. Many of those people who have been hurt, it is a normal thing in the journey of life. (And I'm not saying go and get hurt till you find that special someone) It seems those people that have been hurt aren't very warming to the idea, but that is normal as you have been hurt. You will eventually get over it and you will eventually find that someone who will completely change your views, whether you are older or younger. 4. Wrist cutter, [B] LOVE IS NOT ****, GETTING HURT IS **** [/B]. I'm sure you have parents, are you calling them loving you and bringing you to this Earth ****? Are you saying your friends who love you are simply doing a **** thing? There is a deeper meaning to love and it is not ****! Even meaningless love (which I know not of the kind) can grow to become real love. You're attitude is seriously demeaning the reason I put up this thread! (And I'm not having a go at you as I do respect your views, but I'm just saying lighten up a little) And masturbationis a normal thing! not just pervy! 5. Alexander, you need to find out for yourself what you are feeling. If it is just a little crush, explore it and ask yourself 'can this really go anywhere?' Tell whoever how you feel and go on from there if your feelings are really strong. If you are after her because she's a fox, that's ok as no-one wants an ugly girlfriend. 6. Finally, this thread is getting way too negative. Let's look at the good side of love. Off course there will be some bad experiences, but let's not focus too deeply on the negative! LECTURE OVER![/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyper Posted June 18, 2002 Share Posted June 18, 2002 touching speech.i agree all thse negative comments give me the heebie-jeebies.lol:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raven131 Posted June 21, 2002 Share Posted June 21, 2002 I also think people use the word "Love" too mildly. Or be it the fact that you can love someone but not "be in love" with them, you should really think it out before you say something like that. I'm not saying teenagers (if you are a teen) cannot be in love, but it is rare. Most kids are too immature to be in love. So even though you may think you are in love, you should probably wait to find out. I don't believe in love at first sight. I think love something you discover after getting to know the good and bad points of someone. If you can go through the thick and thin and come out still together in the end...well thats love buddy, thats love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted June 21, 2002 Share Posted June 21, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Kaioshin [/i] [B]4. Wrist cutter, [B] LOVE IS NOT ****, GETTING HURT IS **** [/B]. I'm sure you have parents, are you calling them loving you and bringing you to this Earth ****? Are you saying your friends who love you are simply doing a **** thing? There is a deeper meaning to love and it is not ****! Even meaningless love (which I know not of the kind) can grow to become real love. You're attitude is seriously demeaning the reason I put up this thread! (And I'm not having a go at you as I do respect your views, but I'm just saying lighten up a little) And masturbationis a normal thing! not just pervy![/B][/QUOTE] There's a difference between love for parents and friends than between two people. I think the Japanese have it down - they can love things like seasons and animals, but when it comes to their lover or whatever, they say something more along the lines of "really like". And I was speaking purely from a personal point of view. Love, obviously for you, is a many splendid thing as the old song goes. But it isn't my cup of tea anymore as I've grown up a bit and realized some things. I disagree with masturbation not being "pervy" though. It may be "normal" but that's because most people are perverted (at least at times). I'll admit to doing it occasionally; but I always feel horrible afterwards. I don't think it's right to just write it off as "something everyone does, so it's ok", because really, it isn't. Plus, it's kind of embarrassing to say you lost your virginity to your fu[i][/i]ckin' hand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Harlequin Posted June 21, 2002 Share Posted June 21, 2002 [font=gothic][color=crimson]How do you define losing your virginity though? Simply as an orgasm. That's about as far from the truth as is possible.[/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted June 21, 2002 Share Posted June 21, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by The Harlequin [/i] [B]How do you define losing your virginity though? Simply as an orgasm. That's about as far from the truth as is possible.[/B][/QUOTE] Well, that's how I see it. Some may see it as your first time with some[i]one[/i], but I see it as just your first time. It can go either way, and it was meant as more of a joke than a serious statement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Harlequin Posted June 21, 2002 Share Posted June 21, 2002 [font=gothic][color=crimson]Then you believe virginity to be a phyiscal rather than mental state?[/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted June 21, 2002 Share Posted June 21, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by The Harlequin [/i] [B]Then you believe virginity to be a phyiscal rather than mental state?[/B][/QUOTE] Yes, I suppose so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted June 21, 2002 Share Posted June 21, 2002 The whole purpose for the term "virginity" is physical. Back in the old days (and I mean really old here) when some dude was looking for a wife, he would make sure she was a virgin. The leaders of the village or whatever would [i]check[/i], and they weren't giving her a CAT scan either.... Virginity is black or white; you either are or you aren't. Period. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted June 21, 2002 Share Posted June 21, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Anna [/i] [B]Virginity is black or white; you either are or you aren't. Period. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=deeppink]In literal terms, yes. But I think that the mental state of virginity could very well be seen differently than simply your first time having sexual intercourse with someone. Are you still a virgin if you get raped at a young age [i]before[/i] you consent to have sex with someone you care about?[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted June 21, 2002 Share Posted June 21, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B][color=deeppink]But I think that the mental state of virginity could very well be seen differently than simply your first time having sexual intercourse with someone. Are you still a virgin if you get raped at a young age [i]before[/i] you consent to have sex with someone you care about?[/color][/B][/QUOTE][color=indigo]I'll have to agree with that. My view on a person that was raped, is that they did not lose their virginity. You can't take from a person what they don't want to give you. Rape victims will feel weak and helpless after the act, thus their dignity is taken, but their virginity remains. I believe only when you consent to having sexual intercourse with another are you handing them your virginity.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hikaru Ichijyo Posted June 22, 2002 Share Posted June 22, 2002 I have to agree with BG and PiroMunkie here, virginity is suppose to be something you give away, not have taken away from you, or well something along the lines of that! So in a sense yes it is a state of mind and not just a physical state! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted June 22, 2002 Share Posted June 22, 2002 OKay of course the whole mental state of virginity applies to those who have been raped. Good grief, make me come off as insensitive or something. :p In those cases it's beyond the victim's control, so it definately doesn't count. As you can see in my previous post I was referring more to Harlequin's inquirey of virginity being a physical or mental state. I wasn't pointing fingers at those who have been robbed and abused, since their situation isn't really their choice (<--- key word there). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaioshin Posted June 25, 2002 Author Share Posted June 25, 2002 [COLOR=teal]Losing your virginity is both mental and physical. The physical part is obvious and mental part being that you have lost your virginity with someone, because you have agreed and given yourself to someone. You cant lose your virginity with your hand.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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