Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 15, 2002 Share Posted July 15, 2002 anyone who's seen mt sig knew this was coming.heres the thing, my girlfriend has been in south carolina for about 4 mounths now and she still has one week to go.it's killing me not being able to see her, and my friends think it's strange that i haven't cheated on her while she's away. i can't cheat on her she's the love of my life.i'd be a moron to cheat on her.i just need some consoling before i go nuts with her gone, and after she comes back i probally won't be on the boards very much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted July 15, 2002 Share Posted July 15, 2002 [color=royalblue]Ah yeah, being away from the one you love is tough. I know how it feels. It surprises me that your friends are surprised that you haven't cheated...lol Cheating is the best way to ruin the relationship. Best thing you can do is call her on the phone (if you can), or send her a letter or a card...or something like that. :)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted July 15, 2002 Share Posted July 15, 2002 [color=deeppink]I'm probably one of the few people in the world who doesn't care all that much about cheating. I think it's completely fine to kiss someone else when you're "with" another person. If I was with a guy that had sex with another woman, as long as he admitted it to me and it never happened again, I could easily forgive. The initial hurt would sting a bit, but then I'd just have to remind myself that they were merely giving in to their animal instincts...those can be rather hard to control at times ;)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiroMunkie Posted July 15, 2002 Share Posted July 15, 2002 [color=indigo]OI! to you, my good man. I'm with James that it does suprise me that your friends are suprised that you haven't cheated on her... that's just odd. I mean, I could more-so see them trying to [i]get[/i] you to cheat on her, by pointing out other girls and such, but they shouldn't be suprised that you don't. Maybe they're just suprised that you're more of a man than they are? Hrmm? ;) 4 months can be difficult.. I don't know this.. but I can imagine. Have a joyful reuniting with your girlfriend, and don't forget to put spaces after periods when typing. :)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pyro_kai Posted July 15, 2002 Share Posted July 15, 2002 wolf your so lucky you even have love all i have with my girlfriend is constant fighting and me having to protect her all the time........ real example: just two days ago i had to beat up a guy that was two times bigger than me because he held her down and gave her a hickey and yeah i got a smack down but i choked the guy out and he quoted before he fell asleep and i started pumelling the crap out of him "i am dying" and all she had to say about it was "ohhh well you dont have to fight over me" and i asked her if she did it on purpose and she said no and i told her that if it happend again that i was going to dump her like a bucket of dirty water and the spark of intrest isnt even there i dont know what to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 15, 2002 Author Share Posted July 15, 2002 thanks munkey, james and kai. i have talked to her evry day but this last week she's on the beach with her sister and relatives so the only way i can talk to her is when she calls. so far she's called every day. she misses me as much as i miss her.and baby girl if you can forgive that then thats great, you don't find many people who could forgive that, and those instincts can be hard to control be we seem to.neither one of has had sex yet, we told each other we wanted to wait. we know will be together forever so theres no need to rush it. and sorry about the spaces munk, i just get to typeing and forget some of the small things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 Munk? Munk? Heh... I know exactly how you feel Wolf. One of the girls I really love, and has been a friend of mine since I was born, is moving to Las Vegas. In only a few short weeks she will move away and I will see her only once a year. It breaks my heart that I will never have a chance with her ever again. The only way that I can possibly see me getting to go out with her is if i move to Vegas, and I don't see that happening. I have a rare medical condition. If I go outside for more than an hour at time my skin loses it's paleness. It becoms an interesting bronze color. Anyway, my skin would probably blacken and fall off there. The only thing different between me and you Wolf, is that your love is coming back in a week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 wow, thats tuff. i wish you the best of luck with that.because not many people gave me simpathy.they joked about it and did joke about me cheaten.that made me mad because i would never dream of that.to me no one else is more beautiful or better.thanks to everyone who has posted, it really does help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [color=indigo]...I thought it wasn't cheating if she was in a different zip code, but then again, I am semi-famous (more like semi-infamous) for my infidelity. Well good luck with your ordeal guys. I think it is pretty cool that you care about your girlfriends enough to remain monagmous for extended periods of time. [/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [color=red][size=1] That's really sweet, Wolf. You should take pride in that you can stay true and loyal to her. Believe me, if I could do that, I'd be lucky indeed! Unfortunalty, commitments [i][b]aren't[/b][/i] my thing.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 you know the one thing i don't like is people who belive there not the commitment type.as i say to everyone who tells me that i'm lucky and they wish they were to.this might sound corny but i belive it's true on my honor, and i don't lie about honor.there is someone for everyone.they my not find you now but you wait and see.true love is a joyful thing, it's worth the wait i promise you, and like i said before i have yet to brake a promise.this is set for Mist, but it's also for anyone else out there who thinks the same.this counts to, Mist don't you ever say your not the commitment type.when you find your love you'll see your more commited then you think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [color=red][size=1] I'll pm you with the reasons why you're wrong in my case. First, you have to clean out you pm box! So, do it.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [color=royalblue]Anyone can be the "commitment type". I didn't think I'd be the type of person to like a commitment...but come August 1st, I'll have been in a relationship for three years. And I'm enjoying it more now than ever before. So it has nothing to do with me being for or against commitment...it's just that I found the right person. :)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 o.k off subject real quick, HOW DO YOU CLEAN OUT YOUR PM BOX. i've deleted evrything in there what more do i do???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Heaven's Cloud [/i] [B][color=indigo]Well good luck with your ordeal guys. I think it is pretty cool that you care about your girlfriends enough to remain monagmous for extended periods of time.[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] Maybe you missed something in my post HC. I am not with this girl. We both care about eachother deeply but can't commit due to the 1500+ mile (2437.5 kilometer) distance that is coming between us. I have not yet come into the money that will allow me to take Drivers Ed, and no one I know will just up and drive me to Las Vegas to see this wonderful vibrant young woman I love... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 i think i fixed my problem. now DarkOrderKnight, you hang in there. if she means that much to you then it will happen just make sure she knows before she leaves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semjaza Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 I was going out with my last girlfriend for a total of 7 months... we had been really good friends for nearly two years up to that point. The problem was that I live in Chicago, IL and she lives in Athens, OH. That's about an 8 hour drive (7 if I go 90 most of the way :D). So I know how badly it sucks. I've never really been the type of person to care if I had a girlfriend or not. I'd really rather I didn't have to deal with all that. But if something happens it happens. I was very happy with that girl, and I've still yet to meet anyone that I even thought compared... But the distance just made it too damn hard. Besides, we were only 19... I don't think we should have to deal with something like that in the first place. If it's meant to be, it'd work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OutlawStar Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 WOW 4 months is a long time to wait. Just remember this "The longer the wait, the sweeter the return." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 thats what she said, and i know that.we've been together almost a year.we have been together 8 mounths 15 days.it will be 1 year on december 1st.i think thats pretty cool myself.are first date was on the first day of december.i remember every thing about that day.what we did, what we talked about, and that first kiss.sorry guys it's alittle mushy i know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Wolf Maximas13 [/i] [B]Now DarkOrderKnight, you hang in there. if she means that much to you then it will happen just make sure she knows before she leaves. [/B][/QUOTE] I sent her an e-mail telling her that. I sent it three days ago... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 hang in there my friend, if she loves you she'll respond.if you believe in your love then never let it die, and trust me three days dosen't mean anything.after about a week if she hasn't responded send another and another.make sure she realizes how much you care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 I didn't think I'd be someone to commit either but after getting together with my g/f, it's been one of those wild emotion rides that go up, down, and whichever way. Since we're really busy, we usually get in very little time with each other every month. And...not seeing her for a month was kinda hard on me (it felt different seeing her again for some reason). But sometimes I can get critical about some things and stretch problems out too far. But just take it easy, if she says she'll be back, then she'll be back. And keep in touch, but just wait for her to respond to one of your messages and let it go back and forth one by one... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 Who knew you would be the one giving advice? Thanks though. I'll do that come this sunday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 really, but call it thanks for at least talking to me about it.that goes for the rest of you guys, and ladies. i thought i'd stick a count down on this thing. she will be back in my arms in 6 days,10 hours and 26 minutes(not including today) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Wolf Maximas13 [/i] [B] she will be back in my arms in 6 days,10 hours and 26 minutes. [/B][/QUOTE] [color=deeppink]Congrats ^_~ Long-term separation is hard...I know how it is V_V; But at least you get to see her soon :)[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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