Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 yes this is true, like she said she'll probally tackle me when she sees me.i told her not if i do first.right now she's probally paragliding or trying to learn to surf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adam Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BabyGirl [/i] [B][color=deeppink]I'm probably one of the few people in the world who doesn't care all that much about cheating. I think it's completely fine to kiss someone else when you're "with" another person. If I was with a guy that had sex with another woman, as long as he admitted it to me and it never happened again, I could easily forgive. The initial hurt would sting a bit, but then I'd just have to remind myself that they were merely giving in to their animal instincts...those can be rather hard to control at times ;)[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] The key phrase in that is "and it never happened again" - if someone does cheat on you once, odds are that they'll cheat on you again. Plus, how would you be able to trust them from then on? I'd forgive the person, sure, but I'd consider the relationship over. -Ad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirl Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Adam [/i] [B] The key phrase in that is "and it never happened again" - if someone does cheat on you once, odds are that they'll cheat on you again. Plus, how would you be able to trust them from then on? [/B][/QUOTE] [color=deeppink]That's definitely how most people view it, and I'm not in any way saying that your opinion is wrong. I just have a [i]totally[/i] different view of relationships than most 'normal' (:p) people...I'm just warped or something :drunk:[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [b]I've never really been in a long distance [i]relationship[/i] but I met a girl whilst I was in Ireland and I had to wait an entire year to see her again, now I have to wait another year to see her again. It's a horrible wait, but in the end it's well worth it :)[/b] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 I recieved an e-mail grom her this morning. After a short conversation with someone, I decided to let you all know about it. The e-mail implied that she really didn't want to become serious. I'm kind of let down but I can get over it. Thanks you all for your help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 no problem my friend, i'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but who knows maybe one day it will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 I can only hope. Thanks Wolf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted July 16, 2002 Share Posted July 16, 2002 [color=red][size=1] Hey, DOK, you know that I'm here for ya! I have no life, so my pm box is Diary Central, 24/7![/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 16, 2002 Author Share Posted July 16, 2002 see DOC you have plenty of people to talk about this to.trust me Mist is a great friend to have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amphion Posted July 17, 2002 Share Posted July 17, 2002 Im back! Well, hopefully you guys noticed my absence. If not just dont say anything....its better if I dont know... Anyway, I know how you feel man, been there. Hope everything turns out good. I was suprised too about how your friends acted. I know everyone has different beleifs and morals, but to me, If your in a relationship with someone, its not okay to kiss, do, or do anything else with someone else. If I am in a relationship with someone who cheats on me, when I find out, its over. And theres no second chances for them. I focus alot on trust and honesty. I know everyone makes mistakes, but you dont go kissing on someone else when your in a relationship. That shows you have no respect for that person what so ever. Now just dating is a different story. I am talking about beeing in a full blown relationship with someone. I have spoken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 17, 2002 Share Posted July 17, 2002 Yeah, I know Mist is a great friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted July 18, 2002 Share Posted July 18, 2002 [color=red][size=1] Hah! I thought you guys knew better...:rolleyes: Really, though, thanks.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 19, 2002 Author Share Posted July 19, 2002 your welcome, it's kinda cool that the thread i made thats doing the best is this one.as you can see in my sig only 4 days to go. which means less time on the boards, but i'll still be on every now and then. so i guess i'll make this open discution about anyone elses "girl" or "guy". i seem to be fairly good at this advise thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John2 Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 If this is open discusion... There is this girl... I've known and liked her since I was 8... every time she's around I can feel it in my heart, I'll turn around and she'll be across the hall... In fifth grade my best friend, she, and I were all friends... I was about to tell her I liked her, but my friend got to it first... they dated for about a month, broke up and stayed friends... He moved away in 6th grade and the girl and I got pretty close... But over the last few years we hardly ever spoke to each other... I haven't talked to her in a-year-and-a-half... I can't take it! I miss her like the sun misses the flower on a winter's day... And now she's moved away... she's done it before, but she's always come back, I'm not sure if she's this time... I don't know what to do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Maximas13 Posted July 19, 2002 Author Share Posted July 19, 2002 first off breath.....then compose your self and think. can i see myself being with this person for the rest of my life? if the answer is yes then heres what to do next. find out were she is, if you can get to her do so, personal apperances mean more. if not e-mail her, write, fax, do what you have to. then tell her how you fill, diffenitly tell her that sun and flowers thing. that really got to me.( your good at that by the way) if she says yes then there you go, if it's the other then do not fret. if you truly love this girl then keep at it, but don't over do it. if it is true love it will happen. i hope this can help you my friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 As hard as it may be, Uriel, you should tell her. If you have her e-mail address get in touch with her that way. Or the next time you see her tell her. There is nothing as bad as a [url=http://www.otakuboards.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=13942][b][color=red]missed opportunity.[/color][/b][/url] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John2 Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Wolf Maximas13, I'm only 14, but yes, I'm crazy about her, I'd do anthing for her. I have no idea where she is, I have no address, phone number, e-mail, anything. And ,DOK,I will tell her how I feel next time, if ever again, I see her. "Doubt that the sun doth move, doubt truth to be a liar, but never doubt I love" - Hamlet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 Shakespear, the one man in all of history that might have understood women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 [color=red][size=1] Too bad the women couldn't understand what [i]he[/i] was saying...o.O I say that you wait until you see her again. I know that it would still mean a lot to me if a guy told me he loved me over the fun, email, etc, but it would mean so much more if he were there, where I could see the expression on his face. It's not hard to tell if a guy is lying or not. I know you probably aren't, but I think it would have a better effect on her if you somehow got in [i]physical[/i] contact with her.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John2 Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 I wish I could, Mist. I'd give anything to... But I don't even know what state she's in, Hec, I don't even know what country... Oh yah, Wolf Maximas13, the "I miss her like the sun misses the flower on a winter's day" is from some movie I saw. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 [color=red][size=1] Then impress her by finding out. :D I understand the predicament you're in, but I can't really advise you with this. I can be there for you, but that's about it. [/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John2 Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 I know, but come August 15th I'm going to find out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 [color=red][size=1] Well, good luck, but why the date? WHy not sooner? (Don't mind this if you don't want to answer...)[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John2 Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 School starts, I can ask her friends if she's not there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corey Posted July 19, 2002 Share Posted July 19, 2002 If you PM me with her parents full name, or hers, I can probably find them for you. It might take a while but I can do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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