People using people.

[Lady Macaiodh]

[COLOR=darkblue]i wanted to talk about this b/c it's been bothering me.

lately, it's really struck me how often people use each other. many people are in relationships for that exact purpose. that's the main thing i question. bonds are formed for the express purpose of people using each other.

it's really screwed my head all up. i feel like i don't trust anyone anymore. it makes me wonder if i will ever find someone who is true.[/COLOR]

[Semjaza]

Talking to most people I know... It seems like most relationships either start out or end because of someone using another. It's a little too common, and I honestly won't get into any personal things as they annoy me whenever I think of them.

I do, however, find that the most true people are often the ones I least expected to be.

[DeathKnight]

[color=crimson]Survival of the Fittest.

But it really does occur too often, but at least I know I have several true friends here.

I have to admit that I use people alot, but I feel no regret for it really. It's a fun thing to do, and I only do it to people I dislike.

If ya get to know me though, I doubt i'd use ya. Heh.

-K[/color]

[Guest Anakin Solo]

But can you ever REALLY trust someone? I dont believe you can.

Everyone probably uses someone in some small way. I mean, how can you not use someone? Like kids, they use their parents for money to buy things until they can get a job. Using people is basically a part of everday life, IMO.

[DeathKnight]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by SSJGoten [/i]
[B]But can you ever REALLY trust someone? I dont believe you can.[/B][/QUOTE]

[color=crimson]If you don't, then how would you live?

Technically you trust people constantly. You trust the people at your Internet Service Provider to do keep your internet up. You trust the Electric Company to keep juice flowing, you trust the paperboy to deliver your newspaper for you. And when the people fail to do this, you get mad, or complain to the head of the company.

;P

Trusting people as a true friend is not a neccesary thing, but when you do, and they trust you back, you have a true ally for all that life can throw at you.

-K[/color]

[wrist cutter]

There are some people you can trust... well, I wouldn't be every bit of trust I possibly have in them, but there are some people you can be confident in, I guess that's what I'm trying to say. They are in small numbers though.... so don't lose them.

[Guest Anakin Solo]

yes, but lets say......they steal money from you because they needed it wihtout asking you. Would you still trust them? If we trust people why do we have wars? Why do people murder people if theres trust?

[wrist cutter]

Because not everybody trusts everyone else. That doesn't mean you can't trust some people.

[Amphion]

Its hard to trust people these days. Some many greedy people in the world. Some people are good friends with you, but if offerd enough money(or anything else of value, even fame), people will do anything.

[DeathKnight]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by SSJGoten [/i]
[B]yes, but lets say......they steal money from you because they needed it wihtout asking you. Would you still trust them? If we trust people why do we have wars? Why do people murder people if theres trust? [/B][/QUOTE]

[color=crimson]There's no sin in Murder. Lol.

And yes, I would still trust them. Because I know i've screwed up a few times with them, and everyone deserves extra chances, or else we would all have no friends because of how much we f*ck up.

-K[/color]

[Mist]

[color=crimson][size=1] Trust seems to be a very touchy subject these days. Although I do believe in trust, I agree with DeathKnight that it's not the kind of deep, loving trust. I don't think that kind of trust is around anymore. (And if it is, it's tainted...)[/color][/size]

[Mitch]

[color=red]I think there are two forms of use. When someone uses you to feed their apathy, and when they use you for material things. I myself have found most of my very few friendships to be very hard, and sometimes really hard. Trust is a really hard thing to have. Really, I don't think any of my friends really trust me, nor do I think I really trust them. But there's always someone who does, somewhere out there.[/color]

[Guest Anakin Solo]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by DeathKnight [/i]
[B][color=crimson]If you don't, then how would you live?

Technically you trust people constantly. You trust the people at your Internet Service Provider to do keep your internet up. You trust the Electric Company to keep juice flowing, you trust the paperboy to deliver your newspaper for you. And when the people fail to do this, you get mad, or complain to the head of the company.

;P

Trusting people as a true friend is not a neccesary thing, but when you do, and they trust you back, you have a true ally for all that life can throw at you.

-K[/color] [/B][/QUOTE]


Dangt shot down there, lol. But while were on thsi subject, though I believe it is off topic.....Britain, France, and people trusted/believed that Hitler would stop his bid for power after he took the Sudetenland(sp). We trusted him...yet he went and attack Poland anyways. Watcha got to say about that? Lol.