Dragonz Fyre Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 My big brother, my idol, my role-model....well, he left a few weeks ago. Showed up with the cops at our front door and told my dad that he was leaving. The look on my dads face...it was heart-breaking. Me and my brother had a strong relationship...I thought. He left this house with me crying and pleading with him not to go. I thought he cared about me...anyway, my point is that so you think I am being to emotional over this? Or is it ok to feel abandoned? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rancid Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 [COLOR=royalblue]Why did he show up at your door with the cops?[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitch Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 [color=red] Yes, it would help if you explained why he had the cops show up at the front door. And you are right to feel emotionally inclined about it. If I had known and loved someone for as long as I had lived, I would feel empty and angry at them for leaving me. So you are justified in your emotional feelings.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biida Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Rancid [/i] [B][COLOR=royalblue]Why did he show up at your door with the cops?[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] Because he's of legal age to be leaving home, but his father may have flipped out and an argument or worse could have began. The smartest thing to do would to let the authorities know he wasn't going to be there anymore and to have them watch them just to make sure nothing bad happens... Well that's my interpretation, at least. I dont know all that well, since I've only met him once. But from what I've heard, safety is always a biggie with him.. And ~GR~, you already know what I thought of it.. I don't really feel I have to tell it all over again just for the sake of people reading how I feel on a personal matter like this.. So, I'll just let you know something I can never say enough because you're such a great friend. I'm [b]ALWAYS[/b] here for you. If you ever need anything send me an e-mail or gimme a ring. What else are friends for? :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonz Fyre Posted October 28, 2002 Author Share Posted October 28, 2002 Well, brit explained about the cops *hugs her and thanks her for that* and yes, my dad tends to flip about stuff like that. He doesnt get violent, he just gets mad. Zach..*tells brit its alright*..had his mom talk him into calling the cops...I'ts a long story and very complicated but thats it in a nutshell. *hugs brit for saying that stuff about her* stop it or you'll make me cry...*sniff* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biida Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by ~GohanRulz~ [/i] [B]Well, brit explained about the cops *hugs her and thanks her for that* and yes, my dad tends to flip about stuff like that. He doesnt get violent, he just gets mad. Zach..*tells brit its alright*..had his mom talk him into calling the cops...I'ts a long story and very complicated but thats it in a nutshell. *hugs brit for saying that stuff about her* stop it or you'll make me cry...*sniff* [/B][/QUOTE] *smiles and hands her a lolly* Its okay, Cass. And Zach'll be fine. He's got a roof over his head, he's got a bed to sleep in, and he does still love you. Don't ask me for proof on that one, I don't know him well enough and only you two can supply that to yourselves. Just trust me on it. And do me a favor. Cheer up a little. :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 Hello, I really do simpithize with you. I would like to know how old the two of you are? I am an older brother, with a younger brother who is seperated by 2 years. We are both at the time where moving out is an issue. with the material in the thread so far, I can really make out whether your bro got taken away or moved out volantarily. Either way, I'm sure your older brother cares. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan L Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by gokents [/i] [B]Hello, I really do simpithize with you. I would like to know how old the two of you are? I am an older brother, with a younger brother who is seperated by 2 years. We are both at the time where moving out is an issue. with the material in the thread so far, I can really make out whether your bro got taken away or moved out volantarily. Either way, I'm sure your older brother cares. [/B][/QUOTE] From what I gather he chose to leave, but wanted the police's help because his dad would have just gone mad if he found out otherwise.. so yeah.. it wasn't explicitly stated I guess, but I think that's the case ~GohanRulz~, Good luck, btw.. I really hope your brother does all right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 [color=red][b]Well, he can't stay around forever can he?[/b][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonz Fyre Posted October 28, 2002 Author Share Posted October 28, 2002 Well, Im 14 years old and my brother is 16. Legal age to move out. He left volentarily and everything but I still feel like he could have at least sat down with my parents and talked it out with them. My mom is his step and she took him in and treated him like one of her own and he turned around and pulled this? How is that showing maturity? If I'd done it, I would have at least told my parents and not had the police get involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 well, in order to answer your initial question the simplest way is No, your not overreacting, your acting in a very natural way. Im 18, and im leaving my family to move to New Orleans... they still dont even beleive it, they are pretending im not gona follow through with it... they are hurt and my dad started crying when I followed through with the basics of it...they are asking me what i want for christmas and i am only asking for things that will help me when im out on my own.. they dont wana.. heh.. yeh.. your fine ~GohanRulz~...perfectly natural. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitch Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 [color=red] Sixteen is the legal age to move out :eek: I didn't know that. I'm 16, and I'm not moving away until College, or when I turn 19 I think it is. I think sixteen is rather to young to move out already, I mean, I am sixteen, so I know what it's like. I'm not matured and grown yet enough in life to go on my own.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted October 28, 2002 Share Posted October 28, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Son Goten [/i] [B][color=red][b]Well, he can't stay around forever can he?[/b][/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]How remarkably sympathetic of you. My heart goes out to you, ~GR~. [/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonz Fyre Posted October 28, 2002 Author Share Posted October 28, 2002 Thanks to everybody, you guys really helped clear somethings up for me. In regards to what Mitch said, my dad and mom feel the same way about 16 being way to young to move out. The cops said that there was nothing my mom and dad could do, they couldnt stop him from moving out. Sometimes I dont understand the law. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted October 29, 2002 Share Posted October 29, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Cera [/i] [B][SIZE=1]How remarkably sympathetic of you. My heart goes out to you, ~GR~. [/SIZE] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=red][b]What, am I supposed to fell sypmathetic because someone desides that it is time him to move out? It's just like saying "Oh no. My brother joined the army and I may not see him for a long time. Pity me."[/b][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted October 29, 2002 Share Posted October 29, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Son Goten [/i] [B][color=red][b]It's just like saying "Oh no. My brother joined the army and I may not see him for a long time. Pity me."[/b][/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [SIZE=1]And do you know what? I would. [/SIZE] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kent Posted October 29, 2002 Share Posted October 29, 2002 Gohan rulz, That all makes me very sad to hear. I hope things work out with your bro. I'm of a similar age difference to my brother and I'm gonna have to move out soon. I would have to support you on this one all the way, cause your brother did get the police involved. That kinda sucks, but it will work out I'm sure. My deepest regards go to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonz Fyre Posted October 29, 2002 Author Share Posted October 29, 2002 I'm not asking you to be sympathetic, I was asking if it was ok to feel sad about it. No where in my first or other posts on here did it ask anyone to be sypmathetic, I know not everyone has the same opinions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hinata Posted October 29, 2002 Share Posted October 29, 2002 [COLOR=blue]All I can say is that if your bro is of legal age to leave then he probably wasn't trying to abandon you but better yet trying to establish himself in the world. Maybe he doesn't want to live under your parents roof while trying to make it. He may want to start ASAP. Right now he may be just thinking of himself but still he isn't abandoning you, cause you'll do the same thing one day. Leave home and never come back(if that's what you want) and you won't think of how it hurts you loved ones, but you'll think of how you'll make your mark on the world without anyone helping you(WELL..you may think of mom and dad a little while your gone)!! But besides that if the situations different then there may be some underlying factors between your dad and bro that you may not know about and that's why your bro left!!![/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted October 29, 2002 Share Posted October 29, 2002 [color=red][b]You can feel sad about anything you want.[/b][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sara Posted October 29, 2002 Share Posted October 29, 2002 [size=1]It's a bit more difficult to be happy about things, tho, don't you think?[/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted October 29, 2002 Share Posted October 29, 2002 [color=red][b]Nice sig Cera. lol[/b][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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