Cancer

[KittyLynn]

I feel for you I have no Grandparents. I only have one Grandma left and she is my heart and soul!

I hope you feel better, and may light be in your future..

[Lady Asphyxia]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Stitch [/i]
[B]Thanks Lady A for your input, you to Rain .... it made me smile to think of all these ppl who don't know me still putting an effort in to make me feel better you lightened my heart. Thanks again! [/B][/QUOTE]

[color=darkred]Stitch, its fine. I know exactly what you mean about crying.The little catches in your throat, and the tears that will fall so quickly its scary, and fall to the ground like rain drops. Like I said. It'll always get better.

Just call me Rae ;) [/color]

[Dragonz Fyre]

Everything will be ok. I'm sure she knows that you love her, and she still loves you. It doesnt matter really that shes not here on this earth in body anymore, because she will always be in your heart, with you in whatever you do, cheering you on. Just never forget her and she will never leave you.

[Guest boogeta]

My granpa had lung cancer he used to work in the mine shafts so he breathed in all that stuff and then he survived another 20 years I then he died we had to go all the way to New Mexico to see him he couldnt even talk but I remember when I was little he used to take me fishing whenever he could :bawl: but I sugjest to spend as much time with her as you can you do not want to regret that you never saw her:(

[Mr. Maul]

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Stitch [/i]
[B]I'm really upset because my grandmother has bone cancer. she has been doing okay for about 3 weeks now and she went in for a check up to see how things were going, and we found out that she has lung cancer to because the dratted diesease has spread. they put her on oxygen yesterday...... my mom started crying yesterday night and that really scared me because my mom is so strong and i don't know how to be there for here and be there for myself.... it scares me because i feel so alone and i can't imagine life without my grandma.... i'm really freaked because i know she is going to because it hurts for her to even breath she can't even move .... has anyone delt with this before....?
stitch :bawl: [/B][/QUOTE]
I'm sorry.:(

[rover64]

Stitch, My condolences on your grandmother's passing. Feel for you on that one. It's not easy to deal with death of family member.
My father passed away from lung cancer in '98. That same summer, my wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. She's fine and doing well. Before the year was over my nephew was diagnosed with lukemia. He's taking every day one at a time. It's only a matter of time, and it hurts knowing that there is nothing to be done. In 2000, my eldest sister passed away from cancer to the pelvis.

It's scary and everything seems hopeless, but strength can be found with the support of family. Doctors wanted my wife to go to a support group. She told them that her support was her family. As for me, I've had 2 bouts with cancer. First time, I was 2 months old, came out OK, except the loss of one eye. Second time, I was 12, chemo took care of that one.

To cope is tough, but it can be achieved. Keep her in your memories and in your prayers. Have faith, she is happy in God's grace. Just remember that life is to be experienced. I'm sure your grandmother would want you to fulfill your dreams and have your own experiences to reflect upon in your golden years. I know it sounds lame, but it comes from my point of view. Take care, Stitch.;)

[vegeta rocker]

My Grandmother was diagnosed with it long ago. When she died it was just empty. She used to stay at a nursing home across from the high school i go to and i could see it from there. At the funeral i couldn't even look at her i hate to cry so kept my head down. When they took her for burial i just stood there, what else could i have done?
But it will get easier for you to accept the fact that she is gone.

[Guest demlinos]

I have actually been diagnosed with a rare case of disease like cancer, called Servio. I know what your relatives and friends are going threw. PM me if you would like to know more...i don't like to let everyone in on it...knod of embarresed.